Wine Shots - The other side of ME - Page 2

Originally posted by: redwine1

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Ok one last one .. totally stray thot ... ( a try for levity) ... Nirmala giving Suman lessons on managing relationships was way to funny for me ... i dunno if u guys felt the same ... but it was laughable ... wish she practised half of what she professed in her relationships of the past ... ( b***hy i know)

I can relate to Nirmala's advice. Regardless of who it came from, what she said is a fact - SPACE. Every living creature needs space to grow and be independent. Whether it is a plant or an animal or human. Space to grow, space to think, space to just be. Being crowded, being stifled, being coddled by a person or persons will do no good, and finally one will want to break free of the shackles of that relationship. And that is what Nirmala did. To love is also to give space. To let that person be. A plant can only flourish when there is space, light and the RIGHT amount of nutrients.

While watching the Wednesday episode ... much more than the precap .. i wanted to see the Vandy & Chachi scene tonite ... coz this moves the story forward ...

(A quick tip .. story is different from screenplay .. screenplay is the scene by scene narrative of the story ... the story is the big picture ...)

THE OTHER SIDE OF ME ... SUMAN

She was young she was misguided ... she was abandoned .. she was a nobody living on the largesse of her extended family ... it made this young girl selfish ... well she had to grab & hold what she got in life .. she had lost to much ... it made this young girl ... shallow ... (well which 16 year ild girl is not shallow) ... she had to be accepted she had to be the centre of the universe ... coz she was a displaced entity .. someone who had to borrow ... so she grabbed what she could ... it had to be about her .. coz her life was completely out of her hands ...

I disagree that all 16 year olds are shallow. Yes, to a small degree they are, heck, people remain shallow as adults too, to a small extent always. Thats being human. But there is a difference between being shallow, vain and being obnoxious. Rude. Uncaring. or plain insensitive. Sumo was some if not all of this in varying degrees. But it is ok to have had these qualities and moved on and evolved with time. And she has. Shravan has recognised the change, commented on it but when he risked loosing her again, the rational that makes him see things clearly got muddled with doubts, and he found himself in unchartered territory. A bit wobbly.

HOPE- what can one say about this word? Hope keeps the world going. But Hope dies every day. It is resurrected everyday. Juliet hoped Romeo would get her message and come, and so she drinks a potion that drugs her. Romeo hopes for a happy ever after with Juliet, but instead hears of her supposed death. He drinks poison by her 'grave'. Juliet wakes up and kills herself with his dagger. A sad misunderstanding.

Hope is everywhere - hope for an ice cream; Hope for shoes; hope for a way to walk, move; hope for peace; hope for war (in some!); hope for light; hope for rain; hope for rain to abate, when incessant droplets pelt down the make shift tent under which sit a family; hope for food; hope for safety - those millions of refugees moving mountains and crossing oceans? It is HOPE that drives them - UMEED, a beautiful word; hope for LOVE, hope for togetherness; hope for company; hope for privacy- HOPE is everywhere.

So I don't think Hope ever died in Shravan. It died,perhaps, but was resurrected always. And it placed him where he is today - unsure, shaky, unsteady emotionally and afraid.

Originally posted by: redwine1

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Ok one last one .. totally stray thot ... ( a try for levity) ... Nirmala giving Suman lessons on managing relationships was way to funny for me ... i dunno if u guys felt the same ... but it was laughable ... wish she practised half of what she professed in her relationships of the past ... ( b***hy i know)

I can relate to Nirmala's advice. Regardless of who it came from, what she said is a fact - SPACE. Every living creature needs space to grow and be independent. Whether it is a plant or an animal or human. Space to grow, space to think, space to just be. Being crowded, being stifled, being coddled by a person or persons will do no good, and finally one will want to break free of the shackles of that relationship. And that is what Nirmala did. To love is also to give space. To let that person be. A plant can only flourish when there is space, light and the RIGHT amount of nutrients.

I concur with u ... the advice was sound ... but my take was based on the serial ... it was sort of tickled my funny bone .. hence i tried bringing levity to the post 😳

While watching the Wednesday episode ... much more than the precap .. i wanted to see the Vandy & Chachi scene tonite ... coz this moves the story forward ...

(A quick tip .. story is different from screenplay .. screenplay is the scene by scene narrative of the story ... the story is the big picture ...)

THE OTHER SIDE OF ME ... SUMAN

She was young she was misguided ... she was abandoned .. she was a nobody living on the largesse of her extended family ... it made this young girl selfish ... well she had to grab & hold what she got in life .. she had lost to much ... it made this young girl ... shallow ... (well which 16 year ild girl is not shallow) ... she had to be accepted she had to be the centre of the universe ... coz she was a displaced entity .. someone who had to borrow ... so she grabbed what she could ... it had to be about her .. coz her life was completely out of her hands ...

I disagree that all 16 year olds are shallow. Yes, to a small degree they are, heck, people remain shallow as adults too, to a small extent always. Thats being human. But there is a difference between being shallow, vain and being obnoxious. Rude. Uncaring. or plain insensitive. Sumo was some if not all of this in varying degrees. But it is ok to have had these qualities and moved on and evolved with time. And she has. Shravan has recognised the change, commented on it but when he risked loosing her again, the rational that makes him see things clearly got muddled with doubts, and he found himself in unchartered territory. A bit wobbly.

Ahem yea i agree i guess ... most people are shallow at that tender age ... it is about me myself ... thats part of hitting puberty ...

Sumo's past frames her .. just like Shravan's past framed him ... its great that she grew into the girl she is today ..

HOPE- what can one say about this word? Hope keeps the world going. But Hope dies every day. It is resurrected everyday. Juliet hoped Romeo would get her message and come, and so she drinks a potion that drugs her. Romeo hopes for a happy ever after with Juliet, but instead hears of her supposed death. He drinks poison by her 'grave'. Juliet wakes up and kills herself with his dagger. A sad misunderstanding.

Hope is everywhere - hope for an ice cream; Hope for shoes; hope for a way to walk, move; hope for peace; hope for war (in some!); hope for light; hope for rain; hope for rain to abate, when incessant droplets pelt down the make shift tent under which sit a family; hope for food; hope for safety - those millions of refugees moving mountains and crossing oceans? It is HOPE that drives them - UMEED, a beautiful word; hope for LOVE, hope for togetherness; hope for company; hope for privacy- HOPE is everywhere.

So I don't think Hope ever died in Shravan. It died,perhaps, but was resurrected always. And it placed him where he is today - unsure, shaky, unsteady emotionally and afraid.

When i write here i write about the serial ... & my impressions of it ... what u say is what i wrote ... do read it once again ... every time .. hope in his heart is resurrected ... it dies with her friend zoning him ... quid pro quid & what he feels is her UNINTERESTED MODE ... when hope was burning alive in her heart ..he friend zoned her as well .. the Umeed dialog found its first reference in the mind v/s heart dialog of Shravan's ... & that is what i was referring to ...

Originally posted by: poppinss

Your posts are like a shot of adrenaline. Powerpacked.

Yes I think Preekar and NirRam stories are going to open up.

Just one thought... we saw a super confident Shravan with Powder Puff aka Urvashi. This was the guy who came back from London. He was so confident even with Sumo and he did make her do things his way. The whole party scene was like him dating her and ditching her...

So... what is making him stay away now? Is it Sumo loving the current Shravan? Or is it that he wants Sumo to love the old Shravan? If it were only love... why is he not even trying? He only stares at her, doesnt touch her... comes close to her and does not kiss her!!

Was he not all macho and smooth? Where is that guy?

Originally posted by: orion23

These wine shots are love! Bas

Such poignant writing here..

Connection of dots, completion of loops, I understand the show better each time reading these!

Fab job you guys🤗

Keep them coming😳

Originally posted by: preciousruby

Absolutely brilliant piece of writing !! 👏👏

The episodes are so wonderful just can't wait for the next episode to air.. Its agony now a days.. ditto for the shots after the episode..

I kinda scoffed at Nirmala giving relationship advice to Sumo.. it was indeed funny..

Excited to see whats coming up and how it is presented..

Originally posted by: mineforever

great post 👏
loved ur explanation.😊
Chachi is definitely going to play cupid for our Shraman..

Originally posted by: noexcuse

Pure bliss 👏
More restless for upcoming story now and the confession!!

Thanks Red.
Loved Pushkar today (but live him anyways). CVs are doing amazing job. Fingered crossed for the upcoming track.