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Originally posted by: indranigupta
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Agree to everything that you listed out... only one thing does not seem rightFlirting, because he knows his power over women (which he does, btw), flirting as when we are with friends are two things which do not go down well with meLove or not, friendship or not; he wouldnt want to exercise his power over herTo feel good (reunion party was a different ball game. We shouldn't hang it over him like the Albatross of Colerige's Ancient mariner)Or, to judge the reactions he has over her, that would make him a cadAnd if that is what he has been doingWell! i would give him a kick and throw him out of my life (Sumo's life😆) at the first instance. He is not a surveillance system, for all I careHis flirting is a sort of subconscious decision.. over which he often times loses control (Wonder if the sprain in his leg was also a part of that dilemma)As a friend, he can tease her but the way he flirted on the terrace, in the kitchen or near the cupboard... is a part of a psychological need to grasp her presence in his life... meaning which over the years has taken on different connotationsAt times, I do believe there are Freudian slip... during the interaction in Sumo's room when he blurted out that he was doing it for her, or, when he let slipped that he loved her presence in the darknessLove scares him... to a certain extent. Not because he believes he would lose but because he believes he would be left alone.. probablyDoes he know about her feelings.. i guess he does but his reasoning is not matching with what his heart is telling himTime will help and so also new experiences with womenfolk😉Nice post as usual👏
Indrani...now I kinda know why Soup says i remind her of u or vice versa...😊
Absolutely every word that u wrote about the flirting bit...I would agree wholeheartedly...that's my interpretation of Shravan as well...Shravan would not be my hero if he used that space to intrude into Sumo's private space knowingly. Which is why I was sure that the terrace incident would be a perspective issue in the narrative. Viewers largely were disappointed that it did not amount to much. Au contraire, I would have been upset if it was anything else. I would have thought less of the hero if he used that situation to bargain for anything...I was so happy he chose to restore STATUS QUO in the relationship. That day reminded me of French saying " plus a change, plus c'est la mme chose " The more things change, more they remain the same 😆
There were references in the forum that it was a perception issue for Sumo because she had built in her expectations to that level. That was an interesting observation though i am not sure if that was entirely correct. Shravan did step out of line (instances, the terrace largely and in his bedroom) but it was, in my view, not intentional...it was not to test Sumo...I sincerely hope not...because if it was to test Sumo...him being immune to her responses would be odd. How could Shravan not have been aware of his effect on her if he intended to intentionally test her (his effect on her) So, my reading is there was a sin of omission on Shravan's part. All the instances after that have only confirmed that...Shravan has not made any other overtures after that..
Freudian slip...it surfaces in his weaker moments i agree
Shravan knowing Sumo's feelings...I don't think so...Actually, my reading is he is not even venturing there for some strange reason...because if he had...he would have hazarded a guess and hit jackpot considering Sumo is literally wearing her heart on her sleeve😆😆 He seems to have deduced that Sumo cannot see him as anything other than as a friend and so friendship is what he will settle for...😉
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