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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: spnfan


He knew suman.was trying to trap.gogol.and.as a.friend there was no need to get jealous.. Also gogol was not a.dangerous person and sumo could easily handle him still he was angry and jealouse... Pushkar.would.have also gotten angry on varma and Maami both wouldnt.have reacted.the.way shravan did coz suman is more.than a friend or a.best friend.to.him...


Very much so...this is why I say Shravan doesn't know himself well...if he could not read her well ten years back, today he is not reading his own reactions to her well...There is no doubt he loves her..even though he feels it will fall under the category of friendship and harmless flirting.

I feel the guy doesn't even believe in love any more...probably he has seen too many break ups in his friends' lives and has become too cynical to notice when love knocks on his door.😉
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Posted: 9 years ago
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My take is different chicksoup. He is not afraid of rejection. And he is well aware of his own love. No way can a friendship border and overlap into flirting. This is again my view. Friendship is just that. Friendship. For some people friends are more important than family. But spilling over to flirting ? That too for a gentleman and a sensitive man like Shravan ? I find it difficult to believe.

As written by me in https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/133631545 I think he is afraid of his own luck or bad luck. He just fears to wish for more lest he loses even what he has. He trusts her. And am sure he see signs of falling in love in Sumo. But he holds himself back.

Well that is my viewbased on these 49 episodes. The CVs can take the story forward in any direction. Because we do not know 80% of Shraman's past. 😕

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Could it be that after the kitchen and roof incidents he had a change of heart and thinking he isn't really in live with her and better be friends? That happens too. Saw one track between Ross and Rachel from Friends.


Rachel and ross were always in love with each other... Every time one of them is going away the other does something stupid to stop it... Ross didnt.date her.sister just coz he didnt want to harm his relation.with rachel and dont want to end a scope of them.getting back together and rachel at the end said ross was always.more special to her than.anyone else... Friends was a comic.series so the wwriters never went too deep with them.. Also rachel and ross was never supposed to be a couple and they happen because.of david and jennifer's amazing chemistry...
Shravan.will again have a change of heart when some.guy tries.to be close.to.sumo... He will again start to throw tantrums... Right now he.us getting all the attention and love from sumo and ones there is a shortage to that his real feelings will be shown...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Love is a journey not a destination! Shravan and Suman have a journey to love and that is the one we are on with them! Let's enjoy it! I for one am very happy with where they are at, and want to enjoy their journey to ending up as a couple. I love how this show is so realistic. This is how things happen in real life.

I said this in another post. My husband and I had our share of dramas and misunderstandings as well. But the truth was we both really liked the other. Or as my husband said one time "I always dug you!" Lol.

Our relationship took more than 3 years in the making, but maybe because of that we were really sure that it was meant to be. We lived in different cities and then even different countries for awhile. But it still happened coz it was meant to happen. Just like it will for Shravan and Suman coz they are "EK Duje Ke Vasste!"


On an analytical note, just wanted to say that it's clear Shravan is just not at that head space where he wants to explore what Suman means to him beyond a friend. Even the teenage Shravan didn't say "I love you Sumo" in his letter. He just knew he wanted to be where she was. "Is this love? I don't know". That is what teenage Shravan said. But then something happened in his life that changed everything. From that point he resented Suman, and her memories became tainted with that resentment. He took revenge, but was still not able to leave that connection behind. He finally accepts "Kuch Hai Hamare Beech". But what is it? Just before that can be explored further, he has to make the call to leave.


This is where everything gets complicated. He won't stay for Suman, coz he feels him going will resolve the issues in his family. Mostly coz keeping the family together means a lot to his Father. He seems misguided in his actions at the moment, but he means well. He is actually a pretty emotional guy and knee jerk responses are common for him. Staying back for Tiwari case was one, going back to avoid family drama is one, and what will be the next? Let's wait and watch shall we?
Edited by MrDarcyfan - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Thanks for clearing some of the confusion🤗 yeah we should give him some time I guess
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: chicksoup


Mahi,
❤️ Doesn't he miss her even when they are in the same city?😉

How impatient he was that she had come late yesterday...😆


But the level of "missing" will be so different altogether
A feeling of severe restlessness... Where you so much long to see and meet someone but are not able to
It'll be fun to see them out of their minds... Getting into weird situations and missing each other like hell😳
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Posted: 9 years ago
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What an amazing post👏 You've analyzed the scenario in the most brilliant manner⭐️ Sorry for posing like a nerd..but this write-up seems like a perfect logical flow chart of EDKV till date..and that's very much impressive👍🏼

I'm completely in sync with ur thought process Shravan does need some time to realize his true feelings for Suman..when changing situations drives us to attain maturity as the times passes..our emotions also tends to change..sometime for the better, sometime for the worse..and we need to live in the present..rather than in the shadow of our past..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: JJKKL

My take is different chicksoup. He is not afraid of rejection. And he is well aware of his own love. No way can a friendship border and overlap into flirting. This is again my view. Friendship is just that. Friendship. For some people friends are more important than family. But spilling over to flirting ? That too for a gentleman and a sensitive man like Shravan ? I find it difficult to believe.

As written by me in https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/133631545 I think he is afraid of his own luck or bad luck. He just fears to wish for more lest he loses even what he has. He trusts her. And am sure he see signs of falling in love in Sumo. But he holds himself back.

Well that is my viewbased on these 49 episodes. The CVs can take the story forward in any direction. Because we do not know 80% of Shraman's past. 😕


J,

I wouldn't call Shravan a gentleman, exactly...not after the way Pushkar blasted him for his behaviour at the party..he had said that he knew Shravan had this tendency to put women down...but he had taken that as a charm..

This aspect of Shravan's personalty has always intrigued me...has that changed post Sumo? Was Sumo the only person responsible for him thinking so low about women?

Def not..it was his mother .and the countless divorce cases that had driven him to this msinterpretation of women..my first of impression of him was- Such an MCP! I wonder if that part of him has changed at all.😉
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

Love is a journey not a destination! Shravan and Suman have a journey to love and that is the one we are on with them! Let's enjoy it! I for one am very happy with where they are at, and want to enjoy their journey to ending up as a couple. I love how this show is so realistic. This is how things happen in real life.


I said this in another post. My husband and I had our share of dramas and misunderstandings as well. But the truth was we both really liked the other. Or as my husband said one time "I always dug you!" Lol.

Our relationship took more than 3 years in the making, but maybe because of that we were really sure that it was meant to be. We lived in different cities and then even different countries for awhile. But it still happened coz it was meant to happen. Just like it will for Shravan and Suman coz they are "EK Duje Ke Vasste!"


On an analytical note, just wanted to say that it's clear Shravan is just not at that head space where he wants to explore what Suman means to him beyond a friend. Even the teenage Shravan didn't say "I love you Sumo" in his letter. He just knew he wanted to be where she was. "Is this love? I don't know". That is what teenage Shravan said. But then something happened in his life that changed everything. From that point he resented Suman, and her memories became tainted with that resentment. He took revenge, but was still not able to leave that connection behind. He finally accepts "Kuch Hai Hamare Beech". But what is it? Just before that can be explored further, he has to make the call to leave.


This is where everything gets complicated. He won't stay for Suman, coz he feels him going will resolve the issues in his family. Mostly coz keeping the family together means a lot to his Father. He seems misguided in his actions at the moment, but he means well. He is actually a pretty emotional guy and knee jerk responses are common for him. Staying back for Tiwari case was one, going back to avoid family drama is one, and what will be the next? Let's wait and watch shall we?



@blue, Mandy- 👏 Exactly what I've been saying too...and people have to realise he has grown beyond that letter...he still keeps it as a memory...the last time he looked at it, was to remind himself of how harsh she had been with him...it had helped him in his revenge, in fact. 😉

But beyond al that hatred, ther always existed a Shravan who pined for his friend...that letter is kept for the sake of that Shravan too...and now Shravan has got his friend back.

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