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Originally posted by: prc_fan1
I see your point. I disagree & agree with you on some points.I do see Sumo as a bully. There was clear verbal abuse on her part in the way she passed those snide comments, & constantly humiliated Shravan not just in person, but in public also. Yes, she did it unintentionally & in innocence & Shravan, too never, stopped her or called her out for it. But that doesn't take away from her actions, which were wrong & did clear psychological damage to Shravan.But having said that, Suman does deserve forgiveness, especially the day when she realises her mistakes & that what Shravan did to her at the prom, or his act of leaving wasn't just his 'bachpana'. Its really not fair on her part to reduce Shravan's actions to that, especially since childhood/teenage scars run deep, & affect us/change us in many ways we cannot sometimes fanthom.Shravan, too, needs to be able to look beyond his hurt, & view Suman in a new light, when she truly understands the gravity of what she did in the past. Currently, he is viewing her from the eyes of teenage Shravan which is justified, but he needs to understand & realise that Suman has changed. She has matured & is no longer the narcissist she once was.I hope that one day, both of them are able to look beyond their egos, & self-obsession to see the way they've hurt each other, & heal each other in the process. They should love each other despite the way they are, & for the way they are.
I guess we are going to agree to disagree on this one 😆😆
There is a difference between talking badly about a person viz. intimidating and bullying. She had to say yes to her friends in that particular scene but truth be told,, she did not mean it and Shravan am sure knew that she did it for her image and did not mean it that way. She was clearly guilty in that scene.. Why would you call that abuse? Shravan knew the drill all along and choose to be with her. Yes she was wrong, but so was he to continue to be in an abusive (if he considered it so) relationship.
That was the beginning of his problems... many a times be it as a child or adult we get into a relationship with the hope that people around us will change. The disappointment starts when we see them not change with every passing day and our frustrations keep building till one day it explodes. Classic Shravan.
For me Shravan was not strong or mature enough to move away from a hurtful relationship, at the very least he could have talked about it. Which he did could not, for fear of loosing his only friend.
So calling Sumo as abusive or bully is not right, when she was not so with Shravan and when she clearly had no clue as to what he felt.. .
Even at school both were equally at fault. One was continuing to be in a relationship which hurt and not talk about it. The other for hurting a dear friend to guard the perceived image. this is my personal opinion.
The future is a different ball game. If the spoiler is true, Shravan is going to get lessons from Sumo, that is what CVs have in store for us. Some times you can kill a person with too much kindness. And that my friend is what Sumo might do... 😆
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