Suman & Shravan AT#2 - Ek Duje Ke Vaaste...Ego Rakhi Hai - Page 71

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Posted: 9 years ago
What Sumo sees as ego is Shravan's self respect. Now he wouldn't care if anyone sees it as his ego or pride, but he wants to maintain that distance between them because he doesn't want the same thing to happen again.

As for Sumo, she should have listened to Sharavan when he tried to explain. Bak bak express😆
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Loq - You said it beautifully. As kids, Shravan's self-respect was hurt by Suman's ego and now it's vice-versa. With the re-union party, I feel they will both come on the same playing field where they will both try to get back at each other because of their egos being hurt.

Yeap
Indeed that is the concept and the party is going to be a game changer as Suman is going to be hurt beyond repiar
And now shravan is not going to make i tup
And although it will be hard for them they are going to fight for their self respect and put their egos as their facade to their real feelings
Aand this is what the story is going to be as they mask their love with the name of past while the reality is they sre fighting with their present
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Posted: 9 years ago
okay guys, I have to go now, I have an exam tomorrow:p
I will start to get anxiety attacks if I don't revise soon 😆
Have a Good night/day, idk 😛
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Posted: 9 years ago
So now I am off to sleep..its fifteen minutes to one
And thank you for making me feel so important and intelligent and wanting to discuss things with me.means a lot
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: loquacious_me

@Sanika we actually cant blame the society to change their thoughts according to the trned because honestly even we are a part of it and we also change perceptions knwoing each other and learning things. Its the nature and thats how tjings are meant to flow and go on.and yeah change is in all of us and its almost like a basic need.our ego and self respect play in and out along with the type of people we are dealing with.

@Gurleen You are right need to progress faster might be our ego.We rake things to our heart and that makes us grow and profit ourselves which is a result of soemthing striking our conscience and hitting our ego.However someone winning a fame and teasing the other about it later is more like being sarcastic and showing what they have .A part of alter ego I would say becuase at times ego makes you work for better but if you are working towards showing someone down that thats more like the bad ego speaking

Entirely ego is not bad because we are humans are we are meant to be flawed and its ok to be the ome with grey shades.It actually your choice ajd perception
More like you have heard right your rights are to be used only till where it doesnot hit the others nose.
You ego can be there with ypu u til it makes somone else outburst on you or rather someone else outbursts because of you

I may sound hypocritical but then it just gets more complicated as we give detials and let it out


I don't think there is anything wrong with progressing with a particular trend if it is going to assist in the society becoming more prosperous and egalitarian. If we didn't adapt to certain radical thought processes, we would still be living in an era where slavery is prevalent and women are domesticated.

I do agree with you on the whole hypocritical thing. Because self-respect and ego are so closely connected to each other, a certain viewpoint could come across as being hypocritical when that may not have been the intention in the first place.

In and of itself, I don't think an ego is bad or good. The way it is perceived is entirely dependent on the context.
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: loquacious_me

Yeap

Indeed that is the concept and the party is going to be a game changer as Suman is going to be hurt beyond repiar
And now shravan is not going to make i tup
And although it will be hard for them they are going to fight for their self respect and put their egos as their facade to their real feelings
Aand this is what the story is going to be as they mask their love with the name of past while the reality is they sre fighting with their present


This is one thing that I love about the show. As children, they were extremely tight. But now as adults, their fights will continue to give each other pain as they are unable to comprehend as to how the other could do such a thing.

For Suman, it will be the humiliation she's going to get at the party. For Shravan, it will be her calling him a 'bhagoda', a coward, when it was her who had hurt him really bad at the time. Not to mention, that in his perspective, Suman still considers the matter to be a trivial thing.

Their feelings for each other are going to get really complicated.
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Sanika.

okay guys, I have to go now, I have an exam tomorrow:p

I will start to get anxiety attacks if I don't revise soon 😆
Have a Good night/day, idk 😛


Aww, bye Sanika! And all the best for your exam. 🤗
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: crystaltwirl

What Sumo sees as ego is Shravan's self respect. Now he wouldn't care if anyone sees it as his ego or pride, but he wants to maintain that distance between them because he doesn't want the same thing to happen again.

As for Sumo, she should have listened to Sharavan when he tried to explain. Bak bak express😆


Exactly.

More than anyone else, Shravan actually cares about what Suman thinks. That's why he got so hurt when she termed what happened 10 years ago as a 'small matter' and when she called him a 'bhagoda'. He feels like Suman is still insensitive to his feelings as she was 10 years ago. I think this is why he's so eager to hurt her. So that she knows how much pain there is when someone close to you hurts you really bad.
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Sanika - This may be off topic, but do you know if the FF Beta Team is still around? I tried looking for them in the FF Forum but couldn't find them. :/



we are always off topic😆
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: loquacious_me

So now I am off to sleep..its fifteen minutes to one

And thank you for making me feel so important and intelligent and wanting to discuss things with me.means a lot


You are most welcome Loq! See you tomorrow. 🤗

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