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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hey guys,
Hats off to the CVs and the actors for a wonderful and eventful ME which actually showed us what we expected from the promo ( a rare occurence in hindi serials!)
Honestly, these two were clearly more than friends because no friends share that kind of chemistry and moments that happened in this episode. They're undoubtly one of the cutest husband-wife pairings on Indian tv atm.
After the episode ended, I really tried to think of how Tara would exactly take revenge on MJ for all that he has done to her and all I thought of was the silent treatment. Seriously Tara doesn't strike me as a character capable of physically or mentally inflicting pain on anyone (not even on someone she dislikes) simply because she is too good-natured. From the very beginning, she has been shown as being strong and determined to do anything for the ones she loves and the fact that she didn't turn MJ in when she had the chance to demonstrates that her plan to take revenge on him is really an empty threat.
Tbh I hope the CVs don't show weird revenge tactics because that would go against her character. I would really like to see a determined Tara who will force MJ to try and appease her and show her the respect she deserves. In all honesty she said all that stuff in the heat of that moment because we all know that she definitely had more than just friendly feeling for her ajnabi dost and whether she likes it or not, he did do a lot for her.
What do you think Tara will do? Leave your thoughts behind :)
Love,
Shegufta xx

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree to some extent wud ur view
Cos Tara is not a person abt revenge
I think she will give him wot he always
Wanted, to stay away from him , he will
Be subjected to the silent treatment and
She will totally ignore his presence. this
Is gonna drive him crazy cos he now is
Falling inlove wud her and wont be able to handle
This kind of revenge, it will also show him he can't and don't want live without her.i am hoping she does opt
For something cruel and will turn her into
Another person who hurts him.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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this revenge may bring comedy to the show ,some nok jhoks between mriara ,cute fights with both knowing they love each other❤️ ..funny/witty side of mj like how he calls vasu as moti ..

or tara trying to hurt him on a serious note then realizing he is not that bad may look illogical and tara's anger won't be justified as well ..so hope they don't follow that path since the mriara story has gone past that stage in the form of tara-neil , where mriara could have started with genuine hate from tara's side ...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Tara is angry. I feel it's an empty threat. Like the ones everyone claims to do. "I will run away from him." "Come back here young lady, or I swear to god I will disinherited you."

Stuff like that, stuff you say outbof anger but never mean. And what eveone fails to realise is that Tara is afraid of Mrityunjay. She initially wanted to be away from him. Now that she feels betrayed its her emotions acting out. That's what I feel.


A promo for a revelation track takes months to complete. Here they completed a whole track in 40 - 50 minutes. Yeah. That's saying something.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: --jas--

this revenge may bring comedy to the show ,some nok jhoks between mriara ,cute fights where both will be knowing they love each other❤️ ..funny/witty side of mj like how he calls vasu as moti ..

or tara trying to hurt him on a serious note then realizing he is not that bad may look illogical and tara's anger won't be justified as well ..so hope they don't follow that path since the mriara story has gone past that stage in the form of tara-neil , where mriara could have started with genuine hate from tara's side ...



My point exactly. She has no abuse abuse to play against. Not even mental or psychological. Seriously, I don't see Tara emotional abused or psychologically. Abuse is what happened to Jhanvi from SB who was afraid to even breathe. Tara was out of the house flirting with a random stranger. Literally.


Okay, I took a test considering myself to be Tara. I couldn't even pass it. Seriously, do these people even know what abuse is that they just go abuse abuse abuse. It isn't just a word that you use on tv or some show. Tara isn't the one in an abusive relationship. If she was in an abusive one, I wonder what Arnav was when he started flinging Khushi the minute her met her. Or when he threw her down from one floor to another. No every time he moral degraded her.

http://m.helpguide.org/articles/abuse/domestic-violence -->a point or two that matches. But the number of checks is hardly two or three. And it said the more the checks the more you're abused.
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Originally posted by: AraBearxx



My point exactly. She has no abuse abuse to play against. Not even mental or psychological. Seriously, I don't see Tara emotional abused or psychologically. Abuse is what happened to Jhanvi from SB who was afraid to even breathe. Tara was out of the house flirting with a random stranger. Literally.


Okay, I took a test considering myself to be Tara. I couldn't even pass it. Seriously, do these people even know what abuse is that they just go abuse abuse abuse. It isn't just a word that you use on tv or some show. Tara isn't the one in an abusive relationship. If she was in an abusive one, I wonder what Arnav was when he started flinging Khushi the minute her met her. Or when he threw her down from one floor to another. No every time he moral degraded her.

http://m.helpguide.org/articles/abuse/domestic-violence -->a point or two that matches. But the number of checks is hardly two or three. And it said the more the checks the more you're abused.



well said ⭐️

whenever people call mj an abuser or this is an abusive relationship these same questions pop on my mind too on what basis this is exactly an abuse ..not in terms of real world sure and not in terms of telly world also ... poor mj 😆..(wonder if barun/gc/vd was doing this role how their fans would have reacted😆) ... hope cvs have not considered their accusations seriously and write their story accordingly 🥱
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Posted: 11 years ago
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AraBearxx, I'm going to have to disagree with the claim that Tara wasn't in an abusive relationship. Yes, there are different degrees of abuse, and Khushi was certainly going through a greater level of abuse than Tara, but look at it this way, had Mrityunjay not found out who his wife really was, he would have continued to abuse her and it would have got as bad as Arnav's ways. He almost burned her for goodness sake. I think the abuse track was ended too quickly for the abuse to get as bad as other shows, but you can't say Tara wasn't in an abusive relationship. Physical abuse is any form of physical harm, from punching to manhandling to electrocution, Mrityunjay was physically (and mentally) abusing Tara, he only stopped when he realised Tara was his wife.
But on topic, I don't know if Tara can physically hurt anyone since there's never really been that situation, but if we go back to the starting episodes, Tara was shown to be kicking it with the boys of Bhopal. She's no weakling, I think her restraint and lack of reaction previously was a deviation from her character, she's a strong girl and even if not physical abuse, I do think she'll be pretty ruthless with her words. Either way, Mrityunjay isn't going to get out of this one easily.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I also agree with 1moreLife, sorry Kiara.
Tara was definitely abused, the examples of the shows you are giving were on the extreme side of abuse.
The meaning of abuse (simple google search )
r.v. abused, abusing, abuses
1. To use wrongly or improperly; misuse: abuse alcohol; abuse a privilege.
2. To hurt or injure by maltreatment; ill-use.
3. To force sexual activity on; rape or molest.
4. To assail with contemptuous, coarse, or insulting words; revile.
5. Obsolete To deceive or trick.
n. (-bys)
1. Improper use or handling; misuse: abuse of authority; drug abuse.
2. Physical maltreatment: spousal abuse.
3. Sexual abuse.
4. An unjust or wrongful practice: a government that commits abuses against its citizens.
5. Insulting or coarse language: verbal abuse.

As you can see even insulting language is considered as a form of abuse.The main aim/objective of MJ was also to abuse her to the extent that she gets scared and runs away from him and he did everything he could.Manhandled her , scared her , even attempted rape on her and at the end even pushed her from the cliff ,if that is not abuse then I don't know what is
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: --jas--



well said ⭐️

whenever people call mj an abuser or this is an abusive relationship these same questions pop on my mind too on what basis this is exactly an abuse ..not in terms of real world sure and not in terms of telly world also ... poor mj 😆..(wonder if barun/gc/vd was doing this role how their fans would have reacted😆) ... hope cvs have not considered their accusations seriously and write their story accordingly 🥱




http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3809130


It's the hypocrisy. In SB they show was based against abuse and they wanted their OPT to be together. It's during moments like this I wonder if it's just me who's too stoic and can't deal with bullshit or if stly everyone else is stupid.

HAHA, thanks. But on a serious note. He isn't abusive. Maybe he mistreated her,which is a synonym for abuse. But it isn't. There is a certain line that you cross. He never did cross that line. His were threats. Empty threats.

Hopefully. They didn't. Well, heck who are we kidding hey didn't. Or maybe they did.

The thing is I have been in social situation trying to help the abused - those who accept help and those who refuse to acknowledge the fact. I know what I'm talking about. And this once again annoys me.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: 1morelife

AraBearxx, I'm going to have to disagree with the claim that Tara wasn't in an abusive relationship. Yes, there are different degrees of abuse, and Khushi was certainly going through a greater level of abuse than Tara, but look at it this way, had Mrityunjay not found out who his wife really was, he would have continued to abuse her and it would have got as bad as Arnav's ways. He almost burned her for goodness sake. I think the abuse track was ended too quickly for the abuse to get as bad as other shows, but you can't say Tara wasn't in an abusive relationship. Physical abuse is any form of physical harm, from punching to manhandling to electrocution, Mrityunjay was physically (and mentally) abusing Tara, he only stopped when he realised Tara was his wife.

But on topic, I don't know if Tara can physically hurt anyone since there's never really been that situation, but if we go back to the starting episodes, Tara was shown to be kicking it with the boys of Bhopal. She's no weakling, I think her restraint and lack of reaction previously was a deviation from her character, she's a strong girl and even if not physical abuse, I do think she'll be pretty ruthless with her words. Either way, Mrityunjay isn't going to get out of this one easily.



And I am going to take the privilege to disagree to that. Have you understood the character or analysed the scene. He never aimed to abuse her. Wait, let me rephrase that. His motive was to threaten her, scare her away. End of it he never considered crossing the line towards abuse. Did you see Mrityunjay regret what he was "forced to do", he felt it was necessary. Even if it affected him more then what it affected her. I am not defending him. But the abuse wasn't inbuilt, like when you consider Khushi, just as an example. Arnav acted that way, he had no motive, it was just the way he reacted to her. Now consider MJ, he knows what his doing and his aim to to act alongside her belief to keep her away. Abuse is something that has psychological effect on a person. It affects him/her totally. I have opened a topic to discuss abuse and mistreatment. Let's discuss there if we have to.

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