sam is being selfish

She doesn't think about neil at all he is so in love with her and she just wants to push that thought away like its an inconvenience. And she needs to stop using him to be her emotional support and saying she loves him. Whenever she says she loves him u can see her words are like daggers in his heart. In her happiness and love for arjun she has forgotten her friend and the sort of pain that he is in. I knw that this would be a happy time for her as she is in love with Arjun. Bt I wish they had shown even though she was happy and saying that she loved neil that when she hugged him she had a scared look or something to show she didn't want to admit he had feelings for her. And I didn't like the acting much either by kash today she seemed too babyish, flaky and too dreamy for me. Its not kash's fault I knw she is a great actress guess it was the way she was directed. Bt this scene didn't sit well for me I can just imagine they turning sam negative by making her like this.

I don't think she's being selfish. Every human has a choice who they want to love. Just because Neil loves her does not Sam needs to love him back. Sam didn't neglect Neil's feelings, she went to him to discuss. She still was willing to choose Neil over Arjun for Neil's happiness.

Have you seen the Flash? Sam and Neil are like Westallen. Sam is like Iris. In love with Eddie but in her heart of hearts and her deepest subconscious she is truly in love with Barry aka Neil lol but she can't express it and feels the love is only platonic. Arjun doesn't love Sam and I really think Arjun needs to let Sam go coz there is someone out there who really loves her. I think if Arjun reforms even in the slightest coz of Radhika he will do the right thing in letting Sam go and not leading her on. It will hurt Sam that her love for Arjun is not reciprocated in the same vein but in the long run it will lead her to her real destiny who is Neil. Neil darling deserves some loving instead of being the second choice in these love stories.

Sam doesn't know the meaning of love yet.
Feeling sexual attraction for someone who keeps supporting her when she is wrong and misguides her ----------is no love. Neither she loves Arjun. Nor Arjun loves her. In fact Arjun doesn't even know her. For Sam---------
There's a saying----------you don't value a thing when it is with you. Neil.

She thinks Neil is childish and thus she is trying to solve it in a mature way. She doesn't know the true feelings of Neil yet. She has never saw Neil as a stranger or as a prince charming. He is just the best friend.

I guess if I was in Sam's situation,even if there was no Arjun, no Piali and my best friend just comes one day and tells he loves me and he gets jealous when I talk to someone. I would also react in her way. At first try to convince him-------bro you are getting confused. And it would take a long time for me to accept him as my lover. It's Neil---------- that would come in my mind.

But why she likes a bully and a manipulator like Arjun who always misbehaves with all her colleagues and friends and mistreats her too(in fact sometimes insults) is confusing. May be she got so much appreciation in her life or over pampered that now she likes someone who would hurt her. Yes! That's sick.

I think once Neil has a gf and there is another girl in the frame, only then Sam will realize what love is. The same thing happened with Neil, he only realized he loved Sam when Arjun was introduced.

Every human has a choice. Its like Edward-Bella-Jacob here. She chose Edward over Jacob since she loves Arjun. Neil wil get over his crush in a few days..

Why is she being selfish??

She clearly likes Arjun, I wont call it love yet and considers Neil just a friend. Why should she sacrifice her feelings for something that will end up damaging both of their and most of all their relationship.

But she clearly respects her friendship with Neil a lot and wants to carry on being freinds. Hence the reason she talked to him and tried to sort it out. I really liked that bit. For once two people were having a sane and mature discussion.

And I don't get this all of a sudden romance b/w Neil and Sam. Theirs was such a pure bond of friendship that is being totally ruined. There were no hints whatsoever of a romance b/w them and now all of a sudden Neil has fallen head over heals for her. I just hope its a small phase of misjudgment on his part and that he gets over it soon.

I don't think she is being selfish. One day back Neil is her friend and suddenly he have feelings for her. It doesn't mean she should reciprocate his feelings. If my friend propose to me I feel like cheated. I am glad NeSam friendship is above any thing that they still friends. Maybe in future she also feels some thing about him.

Lol. Just cuz her best friend is in love with her & she likes somebody else doesnt mean shes selfish. And who said she didnt care abt Neil's feelings? She was ready to let Arjun go for Neil & even accepted that he will always have the first claim on her. What more does one expect? & abt her constantly saying that she loves Neil in another sense, well thats true. Infact I wud say that she loves him in the truest sense. What she has for Arjun is just a big crush & she'll get over him once his real motives are revealed infront of her. Its just a matter of time before she realises the extent of her feelings for Neil.

y cant ppl differentiate btwn luv and friendship