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Posted: 10 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: SmileySoniKudi


I m nt defending ArDhika & neithr arjun's behaviour wid sam & radz.
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When i read ur first part i was agree wid u but alas ur second part made me surprise...how hell on the earth u found arjun better wid sam...whtevr he is doing with sam is much more than wht is he doing wid radz... 🥱
That's ur double standards not mine ... mind it !


what arun is doing with sam sam dosent know. she also dosent know hes stalking her. im sure if she knows she will protest unlike radhika. Also somewhere sam is attracted to arjun so she kind of gives him the permission to come near her. by coming near i mean drape her sari, dance with her. but radhika is not attracted to arjun so she has not given him permission to just come & hold her hand, dancew with her or come so near to her face. Im not happy how weak they have shown radhika's character. im sure if sam was in her place she would have taken offence to astranger coming near her like that.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#62

Originally posted by: naq5



what arun is doing with sam sam dosent know. she also dosent know hes stalking her. im sure if she knows she will protest unlike radhika. Also somewhere sam is attracted to arjun so she kind of gives him the permission to come near her. by coming near i mean drape her sari, dance with her. but radhika is not attracted to arjun so she has not given him permission to just come & hold her hand, dancew with her or come so near to her face. Im not happy how weak they have shown radhika's character. im sure if sam was in her place she would have taken offence to astranger coming near her like that.



it's not her weakness of her character...

I m sure this is not ur first show

this is successful business formula which cvs use it

people like it and it works and this is how chemistry builds up...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanvismile



it's not her weakness of her character...

I m sure this is not ur first show

this is successful business formula which cvs use it

people like it and it works and this is how chemistry builds up...

xactly I guess these ppl hav missed Ipkknd...lead pair is always like this in begining
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Posted: 10 years ago
#64

Originally posted by: honeykomal


ok let me explain . what is happening with samraj is that arjun isnt openly displaying his bad intentions. As @anu said he is trying to charm her & sam is getting attracted to him. The audience knows that he is intentionally trying to harm sam but sam dosent know does he. And does he treat her with disrespect openly with the way he does with radhika -no. im agaiinst radhika being quiet about the way he treats her. she is not even romantically attracted to him nor he is and i am against a pair in which one has treated the other with so much disrespect.

And please i have many times openly said that Samraj are only eye candy. It will be niel who will be sam's ideal life partner who will keep her happy because they both understand each other. being life partners isnt about romantic or sexual attraction. understanding & compatibility are most imp IMO. so please at least do not blame me for favouring samraj. i am only against Ardhika. Sam can choose whoever she wants between the one she is attracted to & the one who is attracted to her

And not related to this topic but radhika being a good friend of sam would never get attracted to the guy her friend is interested in. unlike radhika to do that. and if the cvs are meant on butchering her character then i do not know

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Posted: 10 years ago
#65

Originally posted by: nlisa


LOLLL. I'm sorry I'm laughing at that first sentence you wrote.

" All the harassment is sparking chemistry between them."???

That's bulls**t. I'm sorry. But you are romanticizing this whole thing. You're saying it's acceptable for someone to grab you when you walk down the street and hold you in any way they please, because you might have chemistry with them.

I don't find that acceptable.

No one is allowed to push you around and/or hold you in any manner unless you've given them permission.

I'm sorry- I don't mean to offend anyone but, this is stupid. As girls we really need to know and understand that our bodies are ours and no one is allowed to do anything without our consent.

And to answer the Sam-Arjun thing... Sam is giving consent to Arjun. She wants him to come closer. And as far as I've seen, Arjun never crossed a limit with her. Yeah, he's stalking and this is horribly wrong. But, Sam has no idea that he's stalking her.


exactly a new boss comes & he forcibly pulls & dances with you. tht wud have been an issue itself in any office. and at tht time radhika was not even coming in arjun's path.the 1st confrontation the had was in sams house after that. so it was just random. im not liking how the cvs are showing this😡😲
@bold exactly arjun has never crossed the limit with sam. at least not in front of her all the scheming is dome behind her. also rem when sam was about to open her shirt he was like sam please- dont do it & he felt embarrassed too. so i see a level of unintentional respect somewhere which is missing in his interactions with radhika

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: naq5

they won't butcher any character arjun down share any true feelings for Sam..if Sam realises tht neil is only person in this world she might leave arjun.n move ..CU's Sam is a practical women as many claim in Dis forum...n if arjun loves radhika truly their is no wrong in her falling for him this is my prediction...

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Posted: 10 years ago
#67

Originally posted by: tanvismile



it's not her weakness of her character...

I m sure this is not ur first show

this is successful business formula which cvs use it

people like it and it works and this is how chemistry builds up...

a guy secretly enters your house closes you mouth from behind and instead of asking him what he is doing in your house you say sorry because you spoiled his shirt😲
and yes ive seen serials before but this time im finding it very odd & out of place. maybe its because in the others there was a build up to the hate & a certain level of attraction but here arjun seriously had no reason to hate radhika & forcibly dance with her on the first day
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Posted: 10 years ago
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@naq5 It has become important to apologize if you spoil anyone's shirt because prices of Detergents have incredibly increased in India 🤣 besides Modi's Swach Bharath mission doesnot support playing Holi at home😆.Also I started beleiving Gul should be new head of Small screen industry so that her brainchild assa...I mean romance prevails .🤣
Edited by frappie - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#69

Originally posted by: soni595



I see your point (and you are right about it being a successful tactic) but I don't think it makes it right for male characters to engage in such behaviors not does it make for a good message for young women who watch such shows. Honestly, I am a little sick of such male characters that literally treat women like shit and those women fall in love with them anyway. Besides, at least for me, I began watching this show because the makers and cast claimed it was "realistic" and "new" so I am disappointed to be honest. I was okay with Arjun initially because he was still shrouded in mystery and the show was in its initial stages but I have been getting more and more disappointed with him with each episode because he has become a caricature of which I thought he wouldn't be. I am okay with watching him in a Villanous role provided they don't project him as a "hero" or "tragic"



Bold-See i would say that as long as we as viewers are able to differentiate between real and reel life its fine.As long as we as viewers realize that things that happen onscreen or are shown as romantic or entertaining on screen is not the same in real life.Juts because serial show a bad brooding guy who hates the world changes into a god guy because of the love of a girl that doesn't mean it happens in real life as well.No girl can chnage a guy like that in real life as long as viewers realize the difference i guess its ok

The CV's and SP want TRP's and they know such kind of stories get TRP's and they will do that like i said its a business but we as viewers have to sensible enough to realize the difference that what is shown onscreen is different from how it plays out in real life

Regarding Arjun personally i want to see his backstory or the reason for what he is doing before making an opinion about it him

But since this topic is about how scenes in which hero physically dominates the heroine is shown as romantic or whatever i would say its very normal as far as serial and books are concerned.I have read and seen worse ways in which heroes physically dominate the heroine yet heroine goes ga ga over him.I mean come on we live in a world where 50 shades of grey kind of book sells million copies 😆 so forcefully holding hands is nothing😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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This guy needs to know his limits but you see that's how most tv show potrays AYM who has issues and bad past ... yada yada

that's what gotta change over all

he needs help and she needs to step up

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