Harassment between Arjun and Radhika

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nlisa

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Posted: 10 years ago

I know this title will get all the Radhika-Arjun fans commenting and telling me how wrong I am.

But, as a girl, I feel like I should actually point out what you guys are seeing as Arjun falling for radhika is actually harassment. Especially since he's her boss.

Holding her hand forcefully, dragging her into corners in the mall, snapping at her... These are all examples of harassment. And this applies to anyone. It could be reversed- a woman harassing a man.

I hate that the show is showing this. But, maybe instead of spinning into a romantic fairytale, you should consider that this is wrong and Radhika is a victim.

No one has the right to hold her hand like this to get a key; Arjun was most definitely not joking when he did that.

Arjun is twisted in his own way ( and I'm sure we'll find out why). In addition to the chemistry between Arjun and Sam, we also have to consider that he's never treated Sam disrespectfully. That's one reason I support Sam-Arj paring.

He seems to be taking advantage of Radhika. And this is not correct for any couple. Be it on tv or in real life- Reason number 2 of why I would not support Arj-Rad pairing.

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BreakEven

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Posted: 10 years ago

Yes it is harassment. That is why Arnav, Sujal, Arjun Punj, Shlok and Maan should have all been behind bars. Even the MCP heroes we read in novels should be locked up. But this is entertainment and we all know hindi shows take the creative liberty here. I have seen similar topics posted in many forums that had a similar story but the end result is these scenes will never stop in these shows. Infact they are looked at romantic. The saving grace is at least Arjun has not thrown Radhika from the first floor office like a certain couple from a certain show years bk;)

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ElMystique

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Posted: 10 years ago

Good post !! The fact that the show is very unrealistic and Indian audience consider sadists and physcopaths heroes has been discussed for a while on this forum .But sadly physically tormenting a women/man and harassing is not something romantic which people fail to understand .Having said that , if hundred people in a lot commit a mistake; or lets say it in a simpler way if ten students solve an arithimethmetic wrong and one student right does that mean that the mistake will be considerd right and will the examiner give marks?

I find it ridiculous when a person intentionally harms the other in this process ends up breaking joints and the people around say oh !! we must be happy the person hasn't died or thank god the person din't try to kill ..😆

I think Radhika (read Cvs) in this show is unaware of the corporate laws .

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_QueenBee_

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Posted: 10 years ago

u r right to an extent, forcibly holding hands or twisting arms can be considered harassment !! and TV shows shud stop romanticizing it !!

but i am surprised why cant u see harassment on part of Sam !! 😕

arjun shud be in jail for stalking Sam if only someone could file complain !! but the victim here is too charmed to not even figure out her stalker !! i am sorry their scenes were not depicting love at all but purposeful seduction, which is more dangerous & this is no less than harassment !!

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ElMystique

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Posted: 10 years ago

@QueenBee

Yes you are right stalking is an offence and must be jailed but you are forgetting the fact that the charmer is finding ways to escape ..

Yes the "VICTIM" is indeed innocent and is being charmed and "Seduced" but I donot see any forcible seduction besides it seems mutual mischeif though the charmer is doing with a purpose .😆

Unlike in the other case where the ideas are evident and the girl is "INTELLIGENT "to understand .😆

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893917

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Posted: 10 years ago

All the harassment is sparking chemistry between them. Radhika is definitely going to bring down his testosterone levels. This is what I call a perfect pair! Someone even on SBS i guess told that they would surpass Arnav and Khushi. I'm actually seeing that happen.

On the contrary, Sam and Arjun have no chemistry at all. They just look the same to me - like siblings? I hope they turn brother and sister soon.

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_QueenBee_

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: frappie
@QueenBee
Yes you are right stalking is an offence and must be jailed but you are forgetting the fact that the charmer is finding ways to escape ..
Yes the "VICTIM" is indeed innocent and is being charmed and "Seduced" but I donot see any forcible seduction besides it seems mutual mischeif .😆

well, then this is as good as saying "romanticizing stalking" just like "romanticizing harassment" !!

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OmkaraKiParvati

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Posted: 10 years ago

Yes. Arjun is harrasing her. Sujal, Maan and Arnav never twistd hands of ladies and put their job at stake. Arnav mistreated Khushi oly becoz he thought she had an eye on his sister's husband. Arjun Punj wasn't right in his mind. Radhika wil help Arjun realize the importance of Sam in his life. Tht's wht a best friend is 4. Radhika wil be a best friend 2 Arjun. She wil bring him to the light and make him understand the importance of Sam..

BTW, wht happpend in 2day's epi ?? Was it another horrible epi wid Arjun-Radhika Bhai-behen romance or had sumthn watchable ??

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Madhu1292

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Posted: 10 years ago

In outside world he can be sued for sexual harassment for holding her but it's an Indian Telly soap so let's not find any logics . That's how main leads fall for each other 😆😆