Hayllaaaaa tasha one more post and you will be a goldie 😃
jaldi post kar.....😛
omg we are spamming so much mikey will come with his danda😆,...i really like the way this discussion is going 😳
okay i agree with you completely .... jealousy is a part of human nature (within a limit of course) ... hayee😆 we both get jealous over similar things😆
yeah it is everyone is jealous at certain moments and about certain stuff. and like i said nothing wrong with it....completely healthy yaar...person who says he/she is never jealous is lying.....sab ko hota hai ye jalan...and it is nothing to be ashamed of or to hide......if you talk about it you will better be able to live with it 😉
i can't say that i get jealous as you do with your sister but that is because i'm an only child ....
hhmm till i was 6 i was the only child..then two bandars came....and i was really a spoilt child.....my wish was my dadi and dada's command....my dada (may he rest in peace) used to fight with my mom if she refused me things like candy or if i didnt wanted to go to bed. he used to call me rani....and now my dad calls me rani too...actually i am really the rani....ghar par kisi ka nahi chalta.....final decision meri hoti hai ......my sisters hate it.....but i luv it....come on who doesnt love power 😛
but then again .... my being an only child has meant that i have this need to be the centre of attention at all time ... and i like things done my way and when i was younger i would get very jealous when they were not .... but i'm glad that this jealousy is momentary and that i've grown out of it a little and am able to better accept that other people should be allowed to have input/decision making power as well .... and whatever jealousy i have now drives me to make myself better (not necessarily in comparison but better just in general .... like the grades thing ... even if i can't beat the other person ... i should come really close and i should always be getting better than my previous grades, etc...)
hhmm it feels like you described me...but with me its even worse.....sometimes i really get obsessed......sometimes my jealousy crosses limits and i start to yell or say stuff that i later regret....sometimes i get sooo jealous that i cry 😕
so considering that i've changed a little .. i also have a question that we can add on to the discussion .... to what extent can a person learn to control their jealous streak?
eeehm good question yaar....i must say i am trying and i try harder every day....but i still didnt succeed to control my jealousy like i said....from time to time it controls me and i get obsessed......i want to be the winner always and i cannot stand if someone else is one step ahead of me
i usually dont see it as an obstacle.....i see it as a factor that motivates me to move on in life, to become someone....to achieve something.....
a great part of what i achieved till now i own to my jealousy....i know it sounds crazy but its true 😆
hhmm what can you do to control your jealousy.....accept that there will be people who have things that you dont have....acceptation is important....and i think you should talk to your self....tell your self that you are not less then others.......a high level of self respect is important.......
people also get jealous because they are insecure of their selves.....they are not aware of their capabilities and talents....
ok i will continue this lecture later on....going for lunch now
ok why is no one else joining this discussion? is it a level too high for you guys😳? too scared to admit that your also jealous sometimes.....😛
jo bhi reason ho......do take part...its fun 😆
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