so if ur husband is not filmy, he is bad?? :O

Originally posted by: harithanhp

Hi everyone..

About the friday's epi.. and urmi's expectations... I knw the SR dint eventually happen but abt why exactly was urmi crying??? because samrat dint remove her jewellery and do it the filmy way?? cuz she started crying buckets en he asked her to change and come.. We gals are been exposed to so much nonsense kind of romance on TV, Movies and Books and talks with friends that a gal starts dreaming like that and expecting same, so its obvious for her to cry buckets when sam showed her reality. its ok yaar.. it could ve been that e dint want all the mess.. and in reality its not a rule or a gauge that a husband should remove the jewellery and then get to the consummation.. I am saying this cuz even the bhaiyya bhabhi scene was shown.. They make it seem like everybody wants the jewellery making session 😡😡 I already said, too much of nonsense in movies and tv and gals expect same in reality

I am somehow shocked at Urmi's sensibilities as to why she started crying sooo much just cuz he dint do it the way it used to be shown in the old movies... seriously such a thing is not shown even in the recent movies.. first of all I dint like her crying sooo much.. and all the slow walk, slow opening of the suitcase.. looked like someone had pressed slow motion button 😡😡 Lol, its typical standard style of female leads and more over i know , why the hell crying, not all gals dream of husband removing ur ornaments, get a life seriously.

She is hurt.. then she should probably tell him in plain terms.. or atleat stop crying soo much.. afterall she just got married.. she could give her husband some tym.. now cudn she? True, if u cannot speak up or talk to ur husband, plz dont cry as if some one is doing atyachar on u , its urself who is to be blamed. opening up and making arguments are different

samrat s more the practical guy so she shud grasp wt he is like and act accordingly else she is going to end up feling hut even for menial things!! well, the problem is, she never got chance to see him properly, ishaan always been there making sam anther person,

Originally posted by: skar1984

I'm not even sure where to begin with responding to this post... I think the Topic Maker and subsequent response are losing sight of the larger picture here...

Please bear in mind I'm not trying to disprove anyone's opinion - merely airing my own, no offense intended.

Here are my thoughts - Urmi's behavior is annoying agreed but in the context of the situation and with the way her character has been shown thus far - she is reacting with in the means of the character she has portrayed thus far.

As far as I can see she's not crying buckets cause her husband didn't remove her jewelry or romance her like some over the top 80s/90s hindi movie, she's upset because she is slowly seeing that the person she has considered him to be upto this point is not who he is in reality. Urmi's tears are for the harsh realization that her image of Samrat is far removed from the reality that is Samrat.

Naturally as this is a hindi tv soap - everything has to be dramatized - with the slow movements and inconsolable tears.

I personally do not like Samrat - I do appreciate how the CVs have kept his character consistent thus far and while I do admit he doesn't hide who is he and his thoughts - I still fail to have much respect for him as a person - but that is a different topic altogether.