im not able to understand samrat

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amrapali dubey

@amrapali_dubey

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

today's episode confused me ...urmi had thought that samrat wid take off her jewellery but instead samrat asked her to go and change...in the precap samrat askd urmi to come close to her...does he love urmi?...does he want to take their relationship to a new level?

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amrapali dubey

@amrapali_dubey

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Dolly-heart

@Dolly-heart

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Posted: 11 years ago

Urmi's idea of her husband is a fantasy that she has nurtured for a long time.

She has gone into this marriage with a few doubts but she constantly squashed them by being talked out of it by her mother and Ishaan.

Now she is entering the real world of her marriage and she will realize the mistake she made by not listening to Trishna.

I do not think SamRAT is capable of loving anybody but himself right now.

He knows what a Suhaag Raat entails and he his ready to deliver but I don't think love has hit him yet.

There should be no confusion in understanding SamRAT because he has shown us what he is like right from the start.

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amrapali dubey

@amrapali_dubey

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Dolly-heart
Urmi's idea of her husband is a fantasy that she has nurtured for a long time.


She has gone into this marriage with a few doubts but she constantly squashed them by being talked out of it by her mother and Ishaan.


Now she is entering the real world of her marriage and she will realize the mistake she made by not listening to Trishna.


I do not think SamRAT is capable of loving anybody but himself right now.


He knows what a Suhaag Raat entails and he his ready to deliver but I don't think love has hit him yet.


There should be no confusion in understanding SamRAT because he has shown us what he is like right from the start.

ya he doesnt believe in love but is ready to take theor relation to a new level..he is ready to get intimate with her but only physically i guess

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Faatimah

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Posted: 11 years ago

i think he is really playing with her emotions

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kavmuks

@kavmuks

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Posted: 11 years ago

Samrat will consummate as it is par tot the marriage .. she is his wife and they have to .. and so on.. he does not believe in love etc.. for him it is her duty ..

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KhatamKahani

@KhatamKahani

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Posted: 11 years ago

It's an arranged marriage. He is not playing with her emotions. He doesn't love her, but he considers her his wife (though he has misogynist views on what that should mean).

His wanting to sleep with her doesn't mean he loves her, and no even if he had slept with her the "traditional/Filmi way" it wouldn't mean he was misleading Urmi that he loves her. She herself told Ishaan that she hopes she would eventually find a place in Samrat's heart.

People sleep together before the ultimate "love," especially in the arranged marriage system. That doesn't mean they don't care about love or anything such, but it's considered part of the relationship which would eventually grow into love.

Hindi serials show some unrealistic stuff when it comes to sex.

Samrat is a total egotistical pig. He just didn't want care about SR in the "filmi" way she was dreaming about.

A guy who isn't a jerk and a misogynist, but in the same position as Samrat--i,e. not in love per se with his wife, but still attracted to her--he wouldn't go about it in the totally self-absorbed manner as Samrat did in this episode, and will do in the next episode..

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Today's episode gave me a good laugh, and not because it's a bad episode. Quite the contrary.😆

Edited by likarsh - 11 years ago

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bhagyathara

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Posted: 11 years ago

theres no confusion about samrat .hes the same from the beginning - a man full of himself with big fat ego .

getting intimate with urmi is not out of love but physical need .its not a crime as they are married .for him wife is for this and house chorus.

taking the relation to the next level after realising love is not practical in arranged marriage .love comes after starting life there.

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kavmuks

@kavmuks

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: bhagyathara
theres no confusion about samrat .hes the same from the beginning - a man full of himself with big fat ego .
getting intimate with urmi is not out of love but physical need .its not a crime as they are married .for him wife is for this and house chorus.
taking the relation to the next level after realising love is not practical in arranged marriage .love comes after starting life there.

Perfectly stated.. Infact I am glad CV kept I'm in character.. for him it is part of the package and his true thinking on women deserve no respect comes so openly here.. - that pre cap - chaliye paass aaiye.. which means he is not requesting him to come close to him or rather showing his love .. it is Urmi's duty to fulfill her part.. that is all.. people who think first night are always romantic are not in real world.. many arrange arraigns this is usual .. at least he did not come drunk..

for outer world he is not a bad guy.. he works hard, he earns well.. he feeds his family.. he provides them.. he is good looking.. he is not into women .. he may never raise on Urmi.. or abuse her in any way ... so it is a very very interesting character.. in spite of all externally visible normal things a person can be so difficult to live with ..

Samarat is always in character.. and writers are to be appreciated..