My Heart goes out to u Shivani..but its not worth it - Page 3

Originally posted by: a_uma

Its a good thing that CVs raised the dowry issue, but the way Shivani went about it was a blunder... 😕

yess

Shivani acted quite naively today in entire episode.. first, she went about doing all of Sumitra's work and then left her alone to take all the credit...😡.. by now Shivani should have realised, how tricky Sumi is and should have kept a sharp eye on her.. .. 😲

I guess she just cannot think in that cunning or manipulative manner like Sumi

..instead, she went about re-stitching curtains which Sumi had torn in the first place.. 😕... Shivani wanted to prove to Sumi that SHE is the bahu of the family and its HER right to get things done...🤔.. Sumi played her game very easily ... 😡

true .. Shivani badly fell in the trap

Next, she opened her mouth in the middle of tricky marriage negotiations.. its true that dowry is a crime and no one should accept such demands.. but Shivani could have atleast waited for Baburam and Latha to speak to the other party..(which they were trying to do)..😲...even Vivek and Maya were shocked by the 10 lakh demand, but they were wise enough to hold their tongue before the elders..😕

yess .. I guess in haveli she had always got that freedom of speech and spoke whenever she felt like .. she is carrying the same attitude here too and thats where it all backfired

More than the dowry issue, I think Latha & Babs were upset at the way Shivani spoke out of turn and in something which is none of her business (in their opinion)...

yeah .. they r yet to accept her as bahu of the house and the other bahu Maya was quiet too .. so well

I feel that by the time Raghu returns from his out of town job, Latha would have formed her opinion against Babyji and will choose Sumitra as her bahu...😲.. and Raghu will have no option left but to tell Babyji to leave..

I still hv my doubts if Raghu will ask her to directly leave .. that promo ended friday itself .. but Latha will certainly give her verdict in favour of Sumi it seems

Originally posted by: brat2008

@ Jyothi

Impulsive shivani outsmarted by the manipulative sumitra

So sau sunhaar Ki aur ek luhaar Ki. Did come true . Sumitra did trap shivani badly & her lucky charm was not around to save her

yeah .. Whenever Raghu is around , things worked in her favour but today sighhh

Baburam is truly his character. He has been greedy & makes no effort to hide it

like I said most consistent character 😆

Latha is back to her error in judgement

Latha becomes a pendulum again 😆

Sumitra smartly took away the credit & shivani was left with demerits 😕

I wish she dint believe the whole elaichi phone call in first place 😡

Why do I feel shivani in her nature to help will end up creating more trouble for Vivek & maya .

I hope not 😲😕

Maybe that will be the last straw for the sehariyas & shivani is out

yess and by the time Raghu comes back , she will b out mayb

missed Raghu so much today

hope he is back tomorrow

Hope Babyji leaves the sehariya house & sumitra with her overconfidence trips & falls on her face😡

right now its like dead end .. one got to leave the house for story to proceed now

I seriously can't stand the kitchen politics anymore .

same here

I know sumiytra,s misdoings will never come to light & convienently they kept Bela out so that shivani is cornered by the family with no support

bela and Raghu both were kept out

Originally posted by: -Sheena-

This sudden gini matrimonial track seems to be due to the absence of arhaan.. The episode was better than yesterday but I still in no mood for any further sumitra and shivani confrontations. .. I feel I have had an overdose of it on the past couple of episodes...

Yes the episodes r certainly last minute doing due to absense of Arhaan or else why suddenly focus on Ginni's wedding out of the blue

Glad shivani stood up against dowry but no matter how much they try and advocate for no dowry, any marriage anyone attends the lain dain still happen... (before anyone accuses me of supporting dowry I am only saying that it still happens whether one belongs to the high society or the lower classes)..

yess it does happen .. hv seen it in my own family too

I can understand that shivani was standing for what was right but why can't it be shown differently by telling the grooms family that they will let them know and then discuss it as a family...

I agree .. normally rishtas dont happen like this in split second .. both families meet first and then say we will think and let u guys know and then privately interact with each other ... but I guess CVs were in hurry to just show whole thing in one epi and break the marriage too in one epi because its mainly done to cover up Arhaan's absense na 😆

Please don't shoot me but I can understand why baburam and latha may have reacted so negatively. ... They don't consider shivani as a bahu so for them it felt that shivani was interfering what was a family matter. ... though Shivani considers them family they are yet to accept her as family... I am not agreeing that they were right to say what they said to shivani but if we see it from their pov them they too have the right to react rightly or wrongly. ..

I guess their main grudge was Shivani speaking over them ... they feel she has no right to do so when they r Ginni's parents .. even if she is family ka bahu but so is Maya .. Maya was quiet too .. so why should Shivani speak ... Shivani is not Ginni's parent ... what Shivani could hv done is after family left , she could hv spoken separately to Latha mayb opposing it and then mayb called up Bela or Raghu and told them whole thing ... but her impulsive reaction did more damage and mayb thats one reason why both baburam and latha lost their fuse too ... though I felt Shivani's main intention was only to help them out and she dint mean any harm ...

St times it feels just because the female lead is attacked them it's wrong but different people react differently...

I don't think Shivani will stop helping as per the precap she will want to help maya and vivek... agsin I don't think she will be appreciated for her efforts... I agree karan may help here...

Karan got to come into scheme of things otherwise whats the purpose of bringing this character 😆😕

I don't know but was missing raghu quite a lot...

yes missed him too

Also I feel there is too much of one track and here a second track of evil 3 would have been beneficial even if a main lead is absent... With the evil 3 there would have been consistency there and no need to chop and change the track. .

I know .. where is Jas and Mahima ... can we get them back plss ..

Originally posted by: brat2008

@ Jyothi

Impulsive shivani outsmarted by the manipulative sumitra

So sau sunhaar Ki aur ek luhaar Ki. Did come true . Sumitra did trap shivani badly & her lucky charm was not around to save her

Baburam is truly his character. He has been greedy & makes no effort to hide it

Latha is back to her error in judgement

Sumitra smartly took away the credit & shivani was left with demerits😕

Why do I feel shivani in her nature to help will end up creating more trouble for Vivek & maya .

Maybe that will be the last straw for the sehariyas & shivani is out

missed Raghu so much today

Hope Babyji leaves the sehariya house & sumitra with her overconfidence trips & falls on her face😡

I seriously can't stand the kitchen politics anymore .

I know sumiytra,s misdoings will never come to light & convienently they kept Bela out so that shivani is cornered by the family with no support

Originally posted by: jyoti06

Originally posted by: jyoti06

Originally posted by: DivzOnAir

@bold: my first thought wen I saw the precap.

But then it could go just the opposite way too. Shi helps them somehow, n again the family esp latha supports her, there by balancing out today's fiasco. 😕

Or nothing comes out of it. Jus like yday's promo. Shi might overhear n think to herself wat is going on n that will be that.