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zona.

@zona.

Rocker

Posted: 10 years ago

#21

@deebz
This can only be done if everyone accepts their own mistakes rather than blaming others...
I mean everybody could be harsh or would have something hurting others at time

After all we r all humans we might have made mistakes at time... Then why not just accept those mistakes and end all this!! Instead of telling others u did this and u did that...
What I feel this is only way to end it...
Bcoz no one is ready to forget it easily... Repeated efforts proved futile

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Deebz

@Deebz

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#22

Thanks Sangeeta, Maaneet and Zona. If you look, the forum is full of innocent people like you who just want to support the show and SurYa. People like PasurYa and Sangeeta provide LUs everyday faithfully. SysAdmin makes lovely AET and so on.

Kindness and forgiveness make everyone feel good about themselves. I don't know why it is difficult to say sorry outright but we can all acknowledge it to ourselves if we have made mistakes and try to rectify our behaviors. We can ignore the outliers(extreme fans) and try and make mutual respect and respect for the actors, the guiding principle.

Edited by Deebz - 10 years ago

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zona.

@zona.

Rocker

Posted: 10 years ago

#23

U r right
I know some comments make u angry
But why get provoked
Even if its bashing someone we have to ignore it
Bcoz we can't dictate anyone what should they speak... Let them do so bcoz if there r 100 people everyone would say something...
We can't correct everybody...
Its just about keeping urself calm in that provoking situation

Now plz someone needs to take the initiative come foward and make a try to end this.

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anas_deewani

@anas_deewani

Beginner

Posted: 10 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: Deebz
^ Please don't make threats. This thread was meant to bring people together not alienate further. Nothing good comes from wishing ill for others. We need tto all understand that people have feelings and be sensitive.
Ramya, please close this thread. I had hoped we all could try and unite but it seems impossible. Very unfortunate.

Exactly Nothing good comes from wishing ill for others. Definately god is watching everthing those who r abuser n basher to others will b punished by god...now i only pray to god who abuses n bash anas his girlfrnd his family n the new entry shefali now have get curse n punishment on them n their loved ones 4m god amin...its useless to argue any1 just pray to god they get bad like they have done bad to innocent ppl

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shehjar

@shehjar

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#25

Deebz how glad am I to see ur post
I come to the forum to read LUs and that is it .
was really heart broken to read that the forum ppl are fighting like this
wish I could go back in time and enjoy how we used to be

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Deebz

@Deebz

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#26

Thank you Shehjar! Good to hear from you. Miss those times too.

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Neela

@Neel_M

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 10 years ago

#27

You know guys, only this war could control by saying to each other "mind your own business".

When I made a post on an episode, right a way someone labelled me "negative"... yeah I'm negative, you don't need to tell me that, go make your own post with all positivity..

Here few people became habituated on criticising others post, or labelling people.

I read posts, if I like I'll comment, if I don't like I will walk away.

Some people instead of walking away will start advising the post maker not to watch the show, or whatever!

Too much butting or nose poking going on others likings, disliking or whatever is going on here.

Everyone has mind of their own, Who the hell I'm to advise someone to change their views or not to watch the show... some people are just control freak, and love to argue back and forth for those actors who doesn't even know he/she exist😆

'Love with passion' should take over 'hate with passion'😃

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hema latha

@jhema

Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

#28

^well said neelaji...

nice initiation deebzji.. hope we get those old days..

some old members know how much i contributed to this forum ..

and how much i defended sandhya and suraj at times ..

but when i dont like a track , when i criticise it , i was labelled as negative

it really hurts ..

should i defend the show blindly when i dont like a track or epi.. am i their PRO or wht .. ..

if i feel i will criticise .. wht is the pblm.. if they like the track make the posts with lots of positivity ..

if we notice helathy discussions in the forum reduced a lot.. even i could say no healthy discussions at all..

only some rare posts r coming ..

we used to discuss a lot earlier though we all have difference of opinions .. really missing those days..

Missing umaji,anushaji, shruthi, timepassji 😒

but when we have no room to say our opinion , it is better to be silent or stay in a post where we feel free to express our opinion ..

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.Ami.

@.Ami.

Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

#29

Why everyone wants to do time travel in the past and break the law of general relativity theory of Einstein?😲. Because if we go into past then we remember future. It's kinda weird!😆.

Life also appears so LOoonnG when we carry bitterness in our heart, mind. It affects our overall health esp constipation ka problem.😔.

So chill maaro aur jai jai bajarang bali break kar de dushman ki gali with pyar means prem means means mohabbat means love.😃.

BTW, kya 'Love Hathoda' maara hain DeebZoo.⭐️. Much needed one!