Life is too short for bitterness.

Let us not forget why we are here. There aren't that many active members on this forum.This is a long running show. The very fact that we are still stuck around here shows that we truly care about this show. That I would think is at least one common thing we all share. We still want this show to do well. We want our actors to continue to enjoy the fame and fortune DABH has brought them. We see them in off screen pictures and videos, working hard under sweltering heat, putting in long hours day in and day out. Daily soap actors have a hard life. Outside of the show, they have to do other promotional activities, keep up their looks, work out and live under constant media glare. They may make decent money now but their future is very uncertain. It is especially true for lead actors. Even highly talented individuals have had to struggle. We have a wonderful cast here. Both Anas and Deepika have brought Suraj and Sandhya to life for us. This is a unique relationship. There is no other couple as entwined for eternity as SurYa are. To me it has always been, " Suraj ki hai Sandhya, Sandhya ka hai Suraj" Never before a couple has impacted me in this way. Anas and Deepika look beautiful together. Suraj and Sandhya characters have this innocence and purity. Unconditional love and understanding. This is what attracts all of us to this couple. Anas is a wonderfully talented, charming actor who gets into the skin of the character effortlessly. Deepika is a very dedicated, beautiful actress who has an illuminating screen presence just like her name. Together they shine as diya baati on the show. To me, without any one of them, the show would lose its light. I would think most wpuld agree with me if they cast the bitterness aside.

Please let us not let a couple of people ruin this experience of having a forum to come to express our views about the show. Let us have an open mind about different view points. We can express our views respectfully, being mindful of people's feelings. Let us not try to hurt each other. This forum was once like that. There was so much creativity, humor, laughter and camaraderie. We can go back to those days. Then glory days may come back to dabh as well who knows.

Dabh is going to have a lot of drama, twists and turns in the near future. There will be many gut wrenching moments. A good opportunity for us all to unite and dissect & debate in a healthy manner. I hope we can do that.

A request - If certain members, feel that the need to abuse me for this post, pleas feel free to PM😉 and keep this thread clean.

Why fighting on actors personal life and creating a sour relations between people who we only know through internet.

Nice post Deebz!

thanks for the post 😊

Forum has become some battle field 😭 you put it so rightly. Without Suraj and Sandhya DABH is nothing. No one is greater/lesser than the other. Thanks to Anas and Deepika for bringing alive Suraj and Sandhya.

Friends Appreciate their efforts and hard work instead of fighting over them and their personal lives.

My only concern is , being a fan of the show and surya ..how can we bash one actor and praise the other only..how can we say we enjoy only suraj oriented tracks or sandhya oriented tracks..if we wish well for the show and cast we would enjoy both their tracks.

My problem is, where is the neutrality in the forum? Just for the sake of ur hatred or to prove ur point you come and argue..

Its not a matter of character or the show anymore , the matter of discussing their personal lives is the prime focus.

I do not like to argue as I feel there is no end to it ...but sometimes u have to speak up .

I dont mind if there is a difference of opinion about the show or even characters...but just because of ur own assumptions on the personal life of actors you come and argue with other...we dont know them in real to comment like this...Is it wise to argue on a celeb's personal life 😕 Not only that we want to dictate their actions also ...This is no good.

I dont think Its wise to waste my time just because 2-3 people are trying to prove something ...

You can easily see who the trouble maker is , or who has left the general forum to be in a specific place.

Much needed post.

Fist of all thank u for posting this on Main Forum.

Deebz , We being fans love and care for the show so much , then imagine people who have created it ..how special would it be for them ?

Do u think the makers will intentionally do something to make it worse ? How hard the team works to bring up tracks and all ,plus the trp pressure..

We should learn to appreciate the efforts of the makers who have given us all a beautiful show.Have we lost all the trust in them.. This too much of negitivity might hurt them. Be critical but also talk about the good things.. This has always been my point..

If you cannot blame people who are always critical then you also cannot blame the people who for a while thought this forum has become full of negitivity ...Many people I know left the forum because of this..

Still, I m not trying to impose my opinions on you and anyone..But when people who are much older than me behave so insensitive ..and personally attack than what to say?

Coming to the slap gate issue...My point of view is still the same.

We dont know the actors personally neither we were present when the incident happened, nor we are from the PH to know who does what ..So why there is a long argument and bashing on this base .