If we plant an orange tree we are not going to get an apple from that orange tree.
I truly feel bad for Sandhya but can't blame others for her situations today. She is the one responsible for her own situations. I should say her secretive nature even to Suraj to some extent is the reason of her situations.
Though her heart in the right place, but that was not enough to make sure every body understands her positions.
1. She never said the truth or open the real story to the family members whenever there was a crisis.
2. She never gave them the true picture of a situations
3. She never mentioned about her limitations or restrictions as an ASP
4. She never gave the broad scenario of her job to the family members
5. She never clearly elaborate to the family what to expect and what not to from her job.
6. She cannot take it for granted that they will know everything about her job.
It is not that everyday Rathis are producing a police officer or a Govt. officer in their family. Or few are going for higher educations.
They are just a regressive family, with family business which doesn't need a degree.
She was trying to balance between Beendeni and ASP, and for doing that she should
have give the RPs the exact picture of her situations.
She was trying to keep the balance superficially which didn't work and came back to haunt her.
She is a very soft girl in nature, but sometimes you have to be smart enough to make sure people around you understands your positions...sadly she failed in that department!!
Sorry if I hurt anybody with my post... it was not my intentions!
Edited by Neel_M - 11 years ago