Sandhya is facing the consequences!!! - Page 2

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

I don't think Sandhya is at fault!

The Rathis feel she is their personal police and is there only to do whatever they ask! I

Because Rathis have no idea about Sandhya's job and responsibilities...she should clear that misconception for good!

cannot stand any of them now especially Bhabasa after the way he treated her when she came home after the hijack. That saying that In-laws cannot be your real family was shown to be true in that instant. No one at any time thought that she has lost her husband/or is a widow now. They are too busy blaming her for something beyond her control! ...Agree

Why should Sandhya explain her job? does anyone who work as a manager or a CEO or even a teacher explain their job in details to their family?

Rathis are very regressive and no one in their family is educated or have any ideas about life outside HG. As Rathis Bahu she should have gone for a teaching or 9-5 job but Police job.

Main problem is the educational gap between Sandy and her in-laws and we have seen time after time that the Rathis will never change. In a moment of crisis they revert back to their real self.

Education gap, social status different, family background different...all these are responsible for current situations!

I am so sick of this. Its time that Sandy is shown to be assertive - I had high hopes when she turned her back on Bhabasa and walked out of the room. It feels like she has to constantly apologise for being a police officer or give the Rathis priority all because they 'let' her become an officer. I mean it was her right to be whatever she wants from her life, she only got entangled in their life by being decieved by her brother - I am sure many a girl in real life do have these problems. Every human being deserve to reach their true potential, they do not owe it to anyone but to their own grit and determination. I say its time Sandy stopped apologising for being an officer and for things out of her control.

IF she cannot then I suggest she just becomes a plain housewife. No one like her can succeed in a job like that, nor see-saw from one side to the other. I appreciate why the Cvs are showing her as being passive - she lost her family once and now doesn't want to again - but its time she has to make a choice. Someone in real life will face this crossroad as well.

Originally posted by: jsingh12

Neelaji what I repeatedly failed to understand is how is the case here "country over family" comes into picture? 😕 Suraj and bhabho are among those 75 passengers its not like Sruaj and bhabho are captured at one place and remaining at other and Sandy choose other members instead of rescuing her family.

If I remember she told bbsa that there is no guarantee that they will release those passengers so they came up with this plan but it went to deaf ears. whether plan succeeded or not one thing is really helpful for them is Zakir being there.

Regarding vachan didn't then the same bhabasa asked bhabho "what would you do if Sandy can't keep her promise because it is not possible all the time". but alas see now what a butchering 😭

Originally posted by: avyarima

just because Bhabasa got emotional and forgot his brain doesnt mean Sandhiya is at fault here. I have nobody in my house working in public service but even I know their duties is the country over everthing. why should she have to lecture them
if she had lectured them they will say she is running on high horse.

Originally posted by: Neel_M

While Suraj asked Sandy to hop in aircraft and leave RK and his gong there, whichy Sandy refused to do, because of her duty and uniform.

According to them Sandy should listen to Suraj and hop in and fly.

She didn't listen and tried to kill Terrorist, Suraj came out followed by Bhabo and rest you know..

So, she chose to save country by killing Terrorists and now BB in the hospital paying price for her saving country 😆

Originally posted by: Venus12

Thanks Neel for pointing out such valid points.👍🏼. sandhya definitely brought it all upon herself. I don't understand why she thought she could sail in 2 boats at one time and not sink. When bhabho took a vow from her that she should put her family and her duties as the rathi DIL first above her work, at that point altho she looked uncomfortable, she succumbed to it.Then when she went to the camp for training and were told to keep the safety of the country above and beyond anyone and everything.. how she did she think she could be true to either of the vows. Sandhya is a very strange girl. Yea, she is soft natured but was never someone who would take any crap from anyone. She used to be tough and strong. But now along the years she is turning into a Rathi carpet😔 and sandhya kothari got lost somewhere. This reminds me of one of the earlier episodes of DABH when her friend,(forgot her name) the friend she grew up with and married a lawyer, had once told sandy when she saw her as a rathi bahu one day, what has become of the once strong headed and determined sandhya kothari. Now I see what she meant and am asking the same thing.

I'm not saying she has to kick and scream and get her way with the whole family shattered into pieces, but least she could do is not cry and shed tears and cripple herself emotionally. If no one is by her side to hold her up, she has to do it for herself then.