Why I don't want sandy to have a baby and babho to raise him/her

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I am not against joint families.
All this baby talk had me thinking.

If things do not change, if surya r not respected in RP, RM then ,

I would hate for sandy to have a baby post IPS and leave him/her for babho / suraj to raise.

Sandy having a baby post IPS, will have to leave the kid with babho and suraj to raise. Sandy will be too busy to take care of her baby all the time, and babho will definitely impose her will on how the baby shd be raised. Suraj has to work too.

Looking at the kids babho has raised, none of them have turned out Good. Sorry, including suraj.

Suraj is a wonderful person, hard working, but too emotionally weak, easily manipulated by sentiments.

Mohit, chavvi both selfish, pampered brats, no need to elaborate on that.

Vik too selfish has no real affection, love for anybody other than his wife and kid.


Meena, ems will only take care of thier kids interest. If anything were to go wrong in the house ( eg.,if meenas kid were to break something) she wld conveniently put the blame on suryas kid.

I see meena already whispering nonsense in Kanhas ears, gossiping and complaining about others😡She wld surely tell all sorts of things to suryas kid also in sandys absence.

Surya will have to fight to do anything for their kid, whereas momily n vina wld get away with doing things on the sly.

Surya r already victimized, they have only duties and no rights, they have to constantly fight for their rights,

In a house where the parents r not respected, and treated badly, will the child grow up to respect the dad and mom?
The child will rebel and will hate the parents for letting everyone walk over them or
It will grow up to be another surya, being taken advantage of.

Babho will put masala and make the kid into another surya or pamper it so much it becomes like her other kids.

If things don't change, (surya gaining respect and a right to live their life as they see fit as adults ) in RP, then I don't want surya to have a child and RP to raise it post IPS.

Sorry babho, surya. I wld rather surya break up with RP and lead an independent life as a nuclear family, surya with kids and sandy IPS. However much they struggle to raise thier kid, it's better than them staying at RM with the RP the way they r.

Babho doesn't stay with her in laws. She has her own nuclear family.

Unless and until RP changes, not just consent for IPS, but a complete change in the way they treat and think of surya, their attitude towards surya, please no surya babies at RP/RM. please.

What is the need to make babho happy by giving her a grandchild?
Haven't surya done enough to make her happy?
If surya want to have a baby do it for other reasons that does not involve babho in it at all please.
Surya should develop their personal relationship, establish their self respect and shd not bring a baby into the picture right now ( inless the way things r changes)

Don't get mad at me,

What do u think?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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It's just that SurYa have decided that RM is their home, Bhabo is their ...I dunno. So they'll have to decide. Are they going to live their life based on being RP caretakers, or live for themselves, or try to find a balance. They have so far managed to defy the norm and not have a milan. It's not even talked about by Bhabo or the neighbours. Maybe they are all waiting till she is IPS qualified. Then the hungama can really start.


What will happen? SurYa move out again to SSM to prove a point? ..and close the windows this time? Can't see them moving out together. Suraj might tell Sandy to move out and concentrate on duty. Coz she will have a huge conflict of interest at home with all these Rathi Crims anyway.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@Geeth I am with you. I want Sandhya to have the baby only when she feels she needs to be a mother or the love for Sooraj is so strong in her , she wants to gift him the precious bundle as a mark of their love. She should never be a mother to please Bhabo. It will never do good to the child.
Second child in RP in Sandhya's absence is not good. Meena and Bhabo will tell this and that about Sandhya telling the child your mother doesnt care for you. She cares for work only. Child can grow up a rebel not loving Sandhya and may even hate Sooraj for supporting Sandhya.
Child needs the love of Sooraj and disciplne of Sandhya which they can give only in a nuclear family. Also in RP the other children will take advantage of SURYA kid and Bhabo will everytime taunt Sandhya only for not taking care of the child.
So unless Bhabo changes for good I dont want SURYA to have a kid or if they have let it happen after they break all ties from RP.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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SurYa already have a big kid - Bhabo.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: PadBear

SurYa already have a big kid - Bhabo.


Babho is a big kid. No need to baby her. She can take care of herself.😕
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Geethsn


Babho is a big kid. No need to baby her. She can take care of herself.😕


need to tell that to SurYa. They spoil her rotten and now they are trapped.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: PadBear



It's just that SurYa have decided that RM is their home, Bhabo is their ...I dunno. So they'll have to decide. Are they going to live their life based on being RP caretakers, or live for themselves, or try to find a balance. They have so far managed to defy the norm and not have a milan. It's not even talked about by Bhabo or the neighbours. Maybe they are all waiting till she is IPS qualified. Then the hungama can really start.


What will happen? SurYa move out again to SSM to prove a point? ..and close the windows this time? Can't see them moving out together. Suraj might tell Sandy to move out and concentrate on duty. Coz she will have a huge conflict of interest at home with all these Rathi Crims anyway.


Are they going to live their life based on being RP caretakers, or live for themselves, or try to find a balance

All at RP r old enough. Suraj has done all for all his siblings. With chavvis marriage he has completed he has more than done his duties. Even his parents didnt do so much. Surya have a duty to no one else other than their parents.
Babho is trying to live her dreams through surya. At the cost of destroying them. They will wake up when that happens. When the last straw on the camels back breaks it's back, surya wld have had enough, either surya shd me set free or the RP who'd change.

The next time they move out or even separate, it shd be far away from hanuman gali. Only then things will improve.

Surya realized their love for each other after he bus accident, far from HG.
Surya confessed their love for each other in Singapore, far, far from HG.



Maybe they are all waiting till she is IPS qualified. Then the hungama can really start.

Yes, since sandys IPS is fast approaching the other questions will start.



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Posted: 11 years ago
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@Geeth not only that.
Sandhya chose Sooraj over Bhabo for the first time away from HG during SBC finals.
SURYA will discover what they mean to each other also most probably far away from HG.
Maybe in a hotel room in Delhi where Sandhya has to to go attend their interview 😉
If any sacrifice business is in offing Sooraj will come to know abt it only minutes or seconds before they are leaving for Delhi. Climax of this IPS track will be in Delhi only. 😉
One more thing the first time Sooraj decided to sacrifice his love was post Chavi's engagement.
So next time he does that will be post Chavi marriage. So see the connection. 😃
Chavi's marriage will give Sooraj a lot of breathing space.😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@ shrutiravi ji,
Yes I agree with all u have written.
Hanuman galli - HG shd be renamed Hypnotism Galli.
Only when they move away from the spell of babho, things r going to happen for surya.
Yes, with chavvis marriage surya r free. They shd focus on thmeselves. There will always be something or the other going on in rm, they have to get their priorities right.
Iam looking forward to IPS and some improvement in surya track.
Enough of babho.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Geeth I dont know what to say (as always 😆) but I think having a baby will definitely divert surya away from bhabo and RP problems...like you said...enough of bhabo!!!!...I'm getting bored too...

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