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Posted: 13 years ago
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I was dumbstruck last night after seeing the reactions in the forum.

@Bharathi Akka:- My Condition was same like you when I visited forum last night.đŸ€—. As I was tired n lacking of courage to come up with the thread to defense Sandhya.😔. I thought I'm only one feeling the same..By the way you've wonderfully reply.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@ami: I was not in a position to reply or write anything but only after seeing JAM's post, relieved somewhat.

Sandhya is not open to him...how can she tell him what Bhabho told her...leave Sandhya, no normal girl unless otherwise selfish (like Chavvi) would tell her husband that his mother warned/advised her to forget dream and look after the family.

Not interested in DBC or understand Suraj's feelings 😆, Suraj himself might not be ready at this time after knowing her dream.

Always he has to make her open up to him...she has understood Bhabho and Suraj's relationship well so she does not reveal everything...if she tries to go against or speak against Bhabho, Suraj himself would not support her and if Bhabho gets angry on Suraj, he would be too hurt and disturbed like after he stopped Sandhya from leaving the house.

She has hurt Suraj with her fake behavior...Suraj does not know the reason behind her actions and do not think she would tell him. Sandhya is as much hurt as Suraj for trying to be something which she is not. As per the SBS segment, she looked troubled and hurt her fingers and Suraj was applying ice.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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(sorry for replying all at once, but I'm afraid of reaching my limit of posts as newbie; please bear with me)

@ Juna - I also think DBC should happen before IPS studies. And great point about family planning. I think DABH has the potential to start this discussion and have an impact on society. Perhaps the current track will lead to this important topic!

@ niruba - I'm so glad I was able to lower your BP 😛! You're right; the conversation has not ended, and I'm really anticipating the next epi. 😊

@ ladyterp - Thanks for pointing out the funny side of farhana's post. I can't believe I missed it; maybe I got a little too serious 😛!

@ ummesulaiman - lol! It seems you really did not like the episode, and I'm not sure my post helped ! I agree that there needs to be better communication between SurYa. Perhaps this communication will happen (albeit in a forced way, since Sandhya's plan failed) in the next episode, as the conversation has not ended. But I still maintain that Sandhya was rightfully fearful of the consequences of revealing Bhabho's speech to Suraj. She is just not the kind of character who will do something that can jeapordize one of the most cherished relationship of her beloved husband! I'm just glad that DBC didn't happen, like we all wanted, and waiting to see how things unfold in the next episode. Perhaps this track will teach Sandhya a lesson in communication, just like the SV2 track taught Suraj.

@ JAMi - completely agree đŸ‘đŸŒ! Great character analysis as always.

@ b2011 - Thank you so much for your input! I think your posts did more justice to the case I was trying to make than my posts did 😃! You truly looked at things through Sandhya's POV!

@ ami ji - 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: -SamiR-

@ ami ji - omg! that's quite a scary prediction about Ankur đŸ˜Č. It seems you're already in the holloween spirit (no pun intended), with your spooky thread about ghosts and haunted mansion, and now this scary prediction! Trick or Treat?


Betaa Samir!.. Don't call me by "G--G".. I'll call up A-A-A-a gang to spoil your threads..😈..

Regarding Ankur, Let's see..I don't know somehow it just sparkled up in my nutty brainwa!đŸ€Ș
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I am glad that Cvs showed Suraj not just merely sympathetic ( although he was) but demanding trust from Sandhya as well. That was a good lesson. Like Fatima pointed out, hope this will make communication better between the two of them. I am not sure that I like Suraj hiding things from Sandhya either - whatever he was plotting with Ankur.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: -SamiR-

@ shehjar and srija - Thanks for your replies. I'm glad to see that others also think Sandhya didn't seem like a drastically different character today.


@ farhana - I agree that Sandhya was not fair to Suraj today. But let me reiterate the point that I doubt Sandhya really grasps the ways of romance, again, due to her past. Besides this, however, I wanted to add that the alternative actions Sandhya could've taken might not be so plausible. For instance, she must've feared that confessing the 'Bhabho brainwash conversation' to Suraj could cause even more divisions between the mother and son (the very thing she is trying to avoid since day one). Doing nothing would just continue the status quo of family disunity. Under the pressure and circumstances, she made her decision and also the mistake of misreading not just Suraj, but also herself. She tried quite hard to convince Suraj and herself that she was doing the right thing, but a simple french kiss was enough to bring out her fakeness (which she wrongfully presumed was required to do the right thing). This, I think, was her only (unavoidable) mistake.

@ UMDU ji - Thank you for adding your thoughtful input, and making much more clear the point I was trying to make. One of the unique things of DABH is that the CVs don't try to force the story through characters, but rather create plausible situations and then show how each character, based on his/her history and character traits, would react in these situations.



Yes remember once Sandhya promises Bhabhoo and I quote "Main ma beta ke beech mein kabhi na thee aur kabhi na auungi"
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: -SamiR-

@ farhana - I agree that Sandhya was not fair to Suraj today. But let me reiterate the point that I doubt Sandhya really grasps the ways of romance, again, due to her past. Besides this, however, I wanted to add that the alternative actions Sandhya could've taken might not be so plausible. For instance, she must've feared that confessing the 'Bhabho brainwash conversation' to Suraj could cause even more divisions between the mother and son (the very thing she is trying to avoid since day one). Doing nothing would just continue the status quo of family disunity. Under the pressure and circumstances, she made her decision and also the mistake of misreading not just Suraj, but also herself. She tried quite hard to convince Suraj and herself that she was doing the right thing, but a simple french kiss was enough to bring out her fakeness (which she wrongfully presumed was required to do the right thing). This, I think, was her only (unavoidable) mistake.



Imagine there was no SR drama, and SurYa having a heart to heart convo... Sandy consoling Sooraj (herself too) that I think we shouldn't think much about my Sapna anymore, for the sake of ghar ka shanti and Bhabo's wasool.''
( No expecting Sandy to utter a word about oli-massage aka brainwash ...she would never create divisions between Sooraj-Bhabo...I am ok with that.I completely agree with Bharathi'di on this matter.)

Then Sooraj consoling her- 'Don't you worry Sandhya'ji, Let us not lose hope yet and keep on trying...Trust me!'

Hmm..I guess it would sound too simple n plain .😳

My only complaint is this SR thing...That also against CVs...I know this is common thing in soaps...but still...
The way they portrayed Sandy and her love for Sooraj yest, confused me.😕

That heart to heart convo might take place tonight...But yest scenes will haunt me for few more days unless I get some magical SurYa scene ka potion 😆

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Posted: 13 years ago
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@farhana: This is too good, so typical of SurYa, a convo without all those decorations making some of us to switch channel and later patch up with live update.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Farhana:- Here you go simple n sweet convo like you..đŸ‘đŸŒ

@Bharathi Akka:- Switching channel...đŸ€Ł!đŸ€Ł!đŸ€Ł!

I must admit that those 2 kisses were shot very closely. I didn't even require to use my binocular to do measurement from every angle esp 360..â˜ș
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Bharathi'di...i forgot to add a line-
After Sooraj says 'trust me' there is one long emotional surya hug!
Ab bolo channel change karoge aap?
;-)

Amluuu...oh no..i went back to sweet avatar!! Hahaha...

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