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Originally posted by: ummesulaiman
No one is putting Sandhya down for not being intimate with Suraj. Most everyone and especially Suraj understands that she's been through a lot and needs time. And she should count her blessings that she has a husband who is willing to give her all the time she needs.You are wrong when you say Sandhya loves Suraj and is not leaving because she cannot imagine a life without him. No offense, but look at the facts...She does not love Suraj...she made that painstakingly clear to him when she told him that she doesn't know if she can ever accept him...that he can turn her out of the house if he likes because he deserves someone who will be able to give him his rights. So she was willing to leave.sandhya ds love suraj. i mean do we really ned to say the words???? she cdnt stand meena taunting suraj and got ready for the kund snaan. she was venting her frustrations on suraj. i have said worse much worse things to people i have loved and i still love them dearly. sandhya is totally lost, confused, embarressed and depressed. but yes she does love suraj. even if she wudnt ever say it. her actions speak much louder than words. i think thats what suraj told her after her out burst.Even her friend Preeti pointed out to her that she doesn't love Suraj...and Sandhya could only admit that she respects Suraj and that's all. So why is she staying with him? I quite frankly don't know. But it's definitely not love...Maybe she has no where else to go.maybe she is embaressed to say it out aloud ... she will not go out of suraj's life becuase it wud break suraj's heart and make him sad ... which she cannot stand. as she has herself said.As far as Bhabo is concerened...she's loud, crass, and totally gawar, but her concern as a mother is not misplaced. She's actually not lashing out at Sandhya for not being intimate with Suraj, nor is she peeking into their bedroom every night. Rather, she did that whole papad tamasha to prove another point on her list of why Sandhya is not a good enough wife for her son. Was she right to do so...No of course not, but that was her intention.bhqabho has an ego issue. lots of issues actually. she wants sandhya out at any cost. first sandy gives her inferiority complex, second she is unable to digest suraj loving anyoen else except her fat self. that too a girl whom she thinks is dust. she feels she is loosing control over suraj.What bothers me about Sandhya is that even if given all the time in the world...she gives the impression that she may never accept Suraj. She seems blind to everything he has done for her.I almost wished Sandhya had hugged Suraj when he told her that he doesn't expect anything from her, that her smile after she accidently wets him while putting the clothes on the line is enough to satisfy him...but this girl..she feels uncomfortable even if their shadows touch 😕.Whether she admits it or not, she is prejudiced against Suraj for his lack of education. Sure he's a nice guy, but for her he will always be a reminder of her shattered dreams. Dreams her parents had for her . Dreams she should have discussed with Suraj, but she just assumes he's too much of a simpleton to understand.Yes sex is not the only expression of love. No one is contesting that. But Sandhya doesn't give any expression at all. She loves to be the poster girl of public awareness, truth and justice, but isn't even willing to give her poor husband a fair chance at winning her heart.humm i really have so much to say on this one. but i dont know how to say. parents killed in bomb blast, a conniving brother, a nasty family, constant humiliations ... it is not so easy to envisage a romantic relationship amidst all this. a personw ud become cold. .It's really Suraj who got cheated in this whole deal...not Sandhya.🥺please both got cheated. sandhya more than suraj.Btw, don't hate me for expressing my POV, I'm entitled to it...just as you are yours. 😆 no i dont hate u , i hate the thought of hating sandy , shes touched a cord in my heart.
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