Proverbial Flirt????

First and foremost I must thank Sareeta for this idea and requesting me to write on this very pertinent topic!!! An honour that she should think I could do justice to this…At the risk of putting a most unromantic spin to the concept of mating, I proceed tentatively herewith

Socio-historically men are genetically predisposed to sowing their seeds far and wide to aid survival of their species. This is not exclusive to just humans, but all flora and fauna. Seeds are meant to be dispersed and the male will always look for the maximum number of mates to achieve this difficult task of furthering their type. And in that vein, men are natural born flirts… they are gifted with the roving eye to select the best possible option available to them to produce an offspring that will be strong and capable of carrying the species forward. It is, therefore no wonder that the male will always have several mates while the female will always look for the best and the strongest to mate with her.

We women always run a mile when we encounter 'flirts', forgetting that they are possibly the most reliable of men. Not only do they acknowledge that they are in fact flirts and that the opposite sex allures them a great deal, they wear their hearts on their sleeves and are open with their feelings too. Those that deny their natural propensity to look and search are guilty of the greatest perjury to nature. These are the men who swear unflinching solidarity and fidelity but lose no opportunity to 'check out' the variety that nature has strewn around them.

The flirts, who are permanently at the receiving end of condemnation from us, are as honest as they can be. These are the men who will openly try their luck at every given prospect and make no excuse about it. These are the guys who will not pretend to offer you anything more than they want to and will never lead you down a path they do not want to share with you. These are the guys who, when they have decided to conform to the social restriction of monogamy, are most faithful and sincere, because their process of selection has been stringent and straightforward.

The Armaans of the real world fall hard when they do fall. They will never use the word love loosely and are extremely discriminatory when it comes to who they decide to spend the rest of their lives with. And once they have decided, nothing can move them from their stance. And why should anything or anybody affect their choice? They've run their own tests and trust their judgment above all else. They know they have hit the nail on the head when they zero in on the one perfect woman for them, so don't expect them ever to deflect. They are blissfully oblivious to any duplicity or deception since they rarely let their 'attempts' dream an impossible fantasy.

There are genuine exceptions to this, ones that we women can identify with amazing deftness, but in general the next time you lucky gals have the proverbial flirt shower you with his love and attention, don't let it scare you away…he has tried and tested and is there with you to stay, so grab on and don't let go!!!

Originally posted by: sunin

Wow what fans Armaan has in this forum.... 😳 Actually i am not one of those mindless fans of Armaan who love everything that he does. i am very objective!! as do a lot of my posts indicate.

I agree and disagree Aarti. 😊

It is true that flamboyant, extrovert and flirtatious men are not bad. They are what they are and are not hiding their true nature behind sophistication, dignity, etc. 😉
However, since this relates to Karan/Armaan...I will stick with this character. a case study is always the best way two tackle any discussion or debate.

Men can flirt, and in your words such men have tested and tried and when they zero down on one woman, it is for life. If that is the case, there is no problem at all. I was talking to Anu about this!

But here, K/A, K has a steady girl friend (he tested and tried) but the way he flirts on sets (see him eyeing or touching Sapna, eyeing Dr. K in some scenes, it is not professional nor curiosity, he does it to gain attention)...what went wrong. Is his gf not good enough or he is still testing and trying? Listening to K and gf, it seems both of them want to believe that are ok together...no offence intended. i have never denied that flirts stop what comes to them naturally, but just that it never ever will take a serious turn once they have found their ideal mate!! well validated by shraddha's sense of security and karan's honesty about the flirting itself! and it is just conjecture based on rumours as far as touching and eyeing is concerned. i, for one don't put too much into these stories that are all about prying into someone's personal life and sensationalising stardom. just a paparazzi trick!!

As for A also, the same holds true. He zeroed down on R and really loves her. R is scared of his overt nature sometimes, although she developed deep feelings for him. He does flirt innocently but the dialogues that DMG makes him tell are so absurd.
If he zeroed down on R, he better have the patience and guts to make it a reality. Once he says, "I will wait all my life for you." At another time, he is says, "God is giving a sign that we don't belong." aaah human tendency to be sure and disheartened at the same time. he never once says he doesn't love her anymore. he just doubts fate for the cruel games it is playing in his love life!!! and a little harmless flirting never hurt anyone, as long as you are honest about it!!

For me, like the flirtatious nature, his feelings are swaying too... not at all...in fact he's steady as a rpck with his feelings!! vehemently disagree there!!

A long reply Aarti. Sorry 😕

And this reply has nothing to do with K/A's life; just used him as an example to reply to your post! I love A in DMG and I love AR to death.

But, for me, Atul and Dr. Shubhankar are as good human beings, good males, good lovers/husbands, may be better than A at times. They may not be as handsome or flirtatious like A. 😉 no denying the appeal of the others, but after tonight's episode i rest my case, as atul too can be affected by the wile charms of another when he is sure he loves anjali...

Originally posted by: spirit

Hi, hmmm..., interesting post.

can't wait to read what others have to say to this...

😊

you have nothing to say????