Sweety...first, loved the way you put across your thoughts...
second, like always, i agree and disagree to your views...sorry...😳
I agree to the fact that ridhima has been confused , specially after she got married to sid....and i also agree that Ridz has at times depended on armaan...but there are reasons for it. It has been her upbringing, and her nature that has the "dependancy" part should never be bashed according to me. She has been sensitive right from the beginning. everyone has a nature, and ridzy has been a girl who has been dependent as a daughter, sensitive even if treated rashly by her sis(during the start of the season) and a weakling who was exposed to armaan's flirtatious pranks. But we cannot forget that all this had an innocence that was Ridhima's strongest side. It was her innocence that made her step-father love her more than even angie...it was her innocence that angie one fine day melted and started loving her sis...and it was her innocence that made armaan a crazy lover from the flirt he was.
ANd even today, its ridhima's innocence that has landed her in the trouble she is.
She loved armaan like she never loved anyone...
and she cud not get married to him for known reasons.
And then, she got married to sid..she cud not say no coz of her innocence to save the grace of her parents. Her mom had an heart attack right in front of her, and she cud not take it coz of her love for her!i wont say it was a gr8 decision, but i can understand why she went for the marriage.
and from then, her so called confusion started.
Becoz she was a girl who wanted to work on her marriage.
it was a part of her innocence that kept telling her to go ahead with her marriage. And I shall never doubt her attempt on it. the only problem was that her heart had loved Armaan with so much intensity that erasing him out of her heart and replacing SId. It was an impossible thisng for her, and that was the problem. SHe kept struggling, to try loving SId...she even allowed Sid to come in proximity to her at some moments, like the eyelocks or the hugs...coz she was trying..trying her hardest to accept sid in her life....but cud never succeed....coz love cannot be grown, it comes natural...and she was done loving a person so intensely, that loving again was impossible for her.
Even today, she is confused...why??coz even today she feels that she is a responsible married person. She is still trying to convince herself that she might be able to love Sid, coz he is a very good guy and he is her husband...
And she is confused becoz erasing armaan is still impossible for her, like since the last 7 months.
yeah, I do agree to the fact that living alone is not ridhiams cup of tea. She has a nature of depending on someone....be it her dad, her love or her husband...but all this is a part of her innocence and i love that in her. its intermingled you see..her innocence, her dependency and her confusion.
I wonder if i am making sense......coz it sure is complexed. But in short, her struggle can end only wen she meets Armaan forever. Coz being with SId wud have always kept her confused and struggling....struggling to love him back...which she wud try to do with all her innocence...but wud never succeed. Coz her heart can beat so crazily, so intensely only once ..and it has already done that for armaan...and she can find peace only when she has armaan back in her life...
and she deserves to lead a life of peace..coz she tried to make her marriae work but cud not..
and she should not be bashed as a characterless woman becoz of her struggles....coz whatever she has done tilldate is out of the innocence...
cant explain better..hope you agree and understand!
Love and peace,
Pri😳
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totally agree! not everyone in this world is strong enuf to break a marriage and walk off without any qualms! Especially a girl brought up with a strict upbringing like Ridzie! So, its no surprise she is like this! And since day 1 she has never been good at making decisions especially if it was the road not taken! But fate has always presented her with such situations only not normal ones!
Somehow the CVs shud've got this entire situation before the second marriage it wud've made more sense! But to u know drag it till then and then show this is what is irking most fans I guess! The second marriage was done coz of gathering TRPs I wish they had thot of something else than that!
Anyways its a serial at the end of the day and the CVs always drag things out so I guess it was just the way it was!
But that being said the CVs needed to clear out few things!
Ridzie loves ARmaan but still under the pretext of haq sent him to maybe die? What is she thinking!
Secondly, she says to Armaan she was going to stick to her farz and sends him away!
But then when Sid gave DP she says I was planning to leave you!
Then in a precap we saw her begging Sid to give another chance as his wife?
What was her decision to live alone or be with Sid and do her farz? It was just confusing towards the end! The CVs needed to explain the scenes clearly but seemed a bit rushed!
I guess the CVs themselves were confused! They were not willing to show Ridzie as a strong, bold today's woman standing up for her love or else stand alone! Which is fine they took the easy route which every filmmaker takes the 3rd guy/gal sacrificing their love and uniting the couple! But somewhere in between all this they themselves are trying to keep one foot here and one foot there! Again looks like not making up their mind just like they dragged this thng on for 6 mths!
Anyways me being an AR fan and the show ending its better not to thnk so much into the hpngs I am just gng to sit back and enjoy AR getting together 😛 The wait has been really long so am just going to enjoy the final ride 😉
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