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Posted: 15 years ago
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All of them say he is a small kid and needs to grow up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I would rather say its better to love a kid with such a pure , innocent heart, giving full respect to te other ladies around him and specially his wife ,than to love a grown up man who cannot control his emotions
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Posted: 15 years ago
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great post... after all he is a modi. i wish abhi was here😒
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lennie

Well said Aditi, he has always respected her, SR have had weak moments, as you said the b-day episode where she completely surrended to him, but now Sid held her diginity and respect, and that speaks volumes

Sid has every right to her as Ridz says today Sid has every right to her love, mind, heart, soul and body Exactly. He has full rights to her-mind, body, and soul, and they've had their moments. He's never once tried to impose himself, or done anything which might make her uncomfortable. The B'day night and after he saves her from the rain are prime examples.
This man cherishes her whole-being, not just body but her thinking and her opinions and understands her and hurts when she hurts - when he hurts her or he disappoints her, it hurts him much more Seeing her in pain distresses him, he loves her heart, her mind, her soul. Thank you for saying this so beautifully Len.
Last scene between SR was good, coz you get the feeling that whenever Ridz life is turn upside down, or she is feeling lost, there is one man she looks for and that is Sid, she didnt have to go to him did she - she could of gone to her room or to a another place where she can be alone but no she went straight to Sid, and she was open and frank, take me Sid, hug me and i am yours Exactly. He's the one she runs to when she's in pain, he's her rock, her safe harbor.And whats more, she TRUSTS him with her whole heart, more than she even trusts herself.
See the difference here is that Sid has every right on Ridz and he could of hugged her and let things progressed (seeing as everything was set for c-nite he planned) but no he didnt take advantage of her weak moment there at all, he was surprised at her and what is wrong with her etc So true. She offered herself again today, and his love told him again, that now's not the time. Thats why he's the man he is. He would never, ever compromise her or hurt her in any manner.
Here's hoping that a marriage and the ppl SR are can work this out, talk and listen to one another, together they can achieve anything because of what they share in their marriage,
They want each other's happiness, and their happiness lies with each other isnt it
"So it's not gonna be easy. It's going to be really hard; we're gonna have to work at this everyday, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, forever, everyday. You and me... everyday."
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Nicholas Sparks (The Notebook)
"In times of grief and sorrow I will hold you and rock you and take your grief and make it my own. When you cry I cry and when you hurt I hurt. And together we will try to hold back the floods to tears and despair and make it through the potholed street of life"
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Nicholas Sparks (The Notebook)

Oh my God. Len, thats so beautifully said, and the quotes take my breath away. Fingers crossed for this marriage, for this wounded fairytale. Lets hope that they come out stronger, like they do every time.



Lennie, thank you for sharing your thoughts with me. As always, I loved reading them. 🤗


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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: StarshineHues

And therein lies the difference, between Armaan and Siddhant, between the past and the present.

Thank you Siddhant Modi, for being the man you are, the beautiful person you are. You love Riddhima more than you love life, you married her twice, you're on your honeymoon, but you'd never, ever do anything to hurt her, disrespect her, or disgrace her. As Riddhima says, you're her husband, you have every right on her in the world, but you'd never ever impose yourself or exploit her vulnerabilites. You didn't do it on her birthday night, you didn't do it today, you didn't do it all the times she's been vulnerable in front of you. Thank you so much, once more, for being the person you are.

As Lord Byron once said,


"He possessed beauty without vanity, strength without insolence; courage without ferocity; and all the virtues of man without his vices."

You're a good man, Siddhant Modi. We're proud of you.


I am soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo proud of u for saying this...lol if u were here I would have given u a hug😳😳😊😊😊 u said all I wanted 2 say..just rub it on to those people's faces who has been advocation for that 'characterless ' character
Edited by abhinickiluv - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I love every person who has replied to this topic because they have just come up with sensible factuall points
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Adi * hugs *
Awesome post dear
And yes there lies a huge difference b/w our Sid & dat lusty guy...

There is a difference between false love and true love:
False Love-
Love me Bcoz I love U!
True Love-
Love whoever U want Bcoz I love U!

And our Sid's luv is true & pure like a gangajal

what more I can say abt dis man ?? He is just d best.
D best lover , d best husband anyone can ask for....
As today Ridz herself said he is her husband & has all rights on her mind , soul & body... He could hav taken advantage of her vulnerability today but no he didn't done anything like someone...

Sid has a heart of gold. His only fault is dat he loves his so called wife unconditionally. He trust her more than himself...
I think he might forgive her but will maintain distance from her.....
I don't think dat after knowing abt dat horror act he will b able to touch her or even look at her.....
May b he will just walk out from there..
But he will never hurt her..

I remember a quote -
The worst feeling is not being lonely..
Its wen some1 makes U feel special,
Then suddenly leaves U hanging,
& U have to pretend U don't mind at all...:-)

Dis is exactly what Sid is feel right now...


And dis our Sid & dat's why we luv him soooooooo much...
We r proud of u Mr. Modi
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Sidhant modi is an amazing man!!!
When ridhimma came running to him begging him to hold him,he could have done anything but he didnt!! He knew something was wrong straight away! He could see ridhimma was in a vulnerable state and didnt take advantage of the fact!!
I dont think anyone of us needs to point out the difference betweeen arman and sid today-it was in the episode for all to see!
Today arman fell very deeply whereas sid rose even higher!!
Sid is truly wonderful!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Wafa_94

Seeing Sid today made me want to go and bow before him in respect. He is a man of morals who loves love more than life. He believes love is life and for that i salute him.

Also,i forgot to mention,loved your post and the quote you put here Aditi. It felt as if it had been written for Siddhant Modi. Absolutely loved it. I would like to thank you for relating this quote with Siddhant.🤗
I never really differentiated between Armaan and Siddhant before. They were like two petals of the same flower for me but if one petal decays then the whole flower can die. This is the relation between Armaan and Sid for me. Whatever Armaan did today will effect Sid in many ways which we will see in the future.
I experienced the difference between the past and the present for the first time in this show today and i think this difference will stick here for quite a long time now.



Wafa 🤗, you said it so beautifully. A few days ago, there wasn't much difference in the kind of ppl they were, and their hearts, but today, Siddhant Modi proved why he's the man he is, why he'll always, always, be a class apart.

I love your flower analogy-and yeah, Armaan's actions today will definitely impact Siddhant. But we know the kind of man he is, and we can always count on him to do the right thing.

And thank you for liking the quote. It seems written with Sid in mind, doesn't it ? 😳

Edited by StarshineHues - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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True very true.......Sid is a gem of a person ⭐️
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I so agree! I thought it would be a weak moment for Armaan but I was surprised that Armaan actually seduced Riddhima! Even after knowing she was waiting for Sid! I was so shocked! I mean speechless! Man, I hate the CVs! Armaan was one of my favourite characters and now I've lost all respect for him! I hate you DMG Cvs! I hate you!
Man, I really won't blame Sid for turning negative after this! There's a limit to what a man can bear, dude! He's always been so understanding but he's not super human! I won't blame him at all if he develops bitter feelings towards Armaan and Riddhima! Both of them have actually cheated him.
Anyway the only plus point was we saw a great performance from KSG and Jenny. KSG is back in the show and how! I didn't see 'that' scene but after that was amazing 'acting' but the twist is a pathetic one! I'm missing Shilpa a lot too. That's it. No more DMG for me..

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