can A & R really go back to being AR once again..? - Page 14

Originally posted by: nazmobile

What remains to be seen is if the CV's can give a proper ending to the whole Sid/Riddhima relationship, because they need to show that this is a relationship that will be strong and sustain any obstacles that come it's way

Very well said. I am also waiting for this. AR's relationship obviously could not stand the test of time and circumstances, let us see whether SR's can. Their strong love and mutual trust are the key points that CVs need to focus on.

A very interesting and sensible post.

I was never an AR fan(be it KaSh, KaSu or KaJen)......no I didnt hate them. I thought they were cute......but I never went all gaga over them.And yet when I first saw promos of SR's first meeting at the airport,I deemed the CVs mad for even thinking of pairing Riddhima with anybody else....for me it was AR too.Not because I had anything against Sid or anything....I liked Sid too but never did I imagine they would be paired up - this coming from a very loyal SR fan.

But I will repy to your post with a neutral view.

So lets put her relationship with Sid aside for now......Riddhima had changed a lot even before she met him.....when she was made to believe that Armaan left her because of her supposed inability to walk, that itself had changed her a lot- that thing had given her a taste of bitterness and rejection.....the latter especially does a lot of damage.
You could see it clearly especially in her interactions with Sid.

Then she found out that her parents and Armaan had lied to her about Armaan's condition..........and again she went through a betrayal of sorts....sure okay they were all thinking about her well-being but to exclude her like that and lie to her caused even more damage.

Riddhima met Armaan during the best time of her life. She doesnt have any bitter memories of him.
But she met Sid at a time when she was at her worst................she bonded with him when situations around them were very unpleasant. But he was the only who stood by her then and even tolerated all her silly allegations against him....even such a heinous one as rape....which led to their marriage.
She tried to commit suicide on her wedding day and we saw how Sid had refused to marry her - it was only because she pleaded to him to save her family's reputation that he agreed again.
And then we also know her feelings for him had started shifting just before Armaan's return.

So when your 'love' returns ,you just dont up and leave the person who stood by you like that....
Another point is that Riddhima didnt leave Sid not because of gratefulness or because of society pressure....he gave her ample chances to leave...its because she really didnt know how to function with him. Sid re-constructed Riddhima from her own ashes and more than him, its her who needs him the most.

So now if AR get back together,will things be very simple for them? Can they go back to how they were before?......will Riddhima not think about SId?
Its not about AR love or SR love....its about that bond....SR's bond was born out of difficult circumstances....you simply cant forget it or get over it.
Who is it to say that if tough times come for AR, Riddhima wont turn to Sid or she probably might expect Armaan to do something that Sid would do.

Even Armaan has changed so much.............he isnt that innocent, sweet lover boy anymore because he too has tasted bitterness.He still loves Riddhima but he knows that she isnt his basket anymore ,he knows that she has moved on......which is why he is clinging on to the Riddhima in his beautiful memories.......if destiny hands her back to him today he wont be happy...simply because she isnt the same person.

Riddhima has been worried sick for Armaan since the last few days......so much so that its causing tensions between her and Sid. But she has never hidden it from him.......she has always shared her concerns about Armaan with Sid......that sort of trust was never there with AR.

Oh and I saw another point being brought up again and again- and that is about Riddhima taking a bullet for Armaan.Of course she did! - she was in love with him - but I dont know how this justifies them being together now. How do we know she wont do the same for Sid?

People keep comparing the '2 years love' with the '6 months marriage' but really there is a stark difference between what happened during those two years and these last six months.

So no......... I dont see how Armaan and Riddhima can go back to each other again....its not because they arent in love anymore, its not because SR are in love with each other .....its not even about love. Its simply human nature.

Originally posted by: nazmobile

Mahek how can you say that Sid is not like Vanraj....have you forgotten everything Sid did for Ridz post the photo prank...how many times he saved her, helped her and looked out for her even trying to reunite her with Armaan.

Well,whatever Sid that post the photo prank was for his own motive. Because he wanted to make up for the sin he had comitted regarding Riddhima. His helping and saving her was just a part of his way of apologising to her. Had it not been for a sorry,he would not have even bothered about her. PLUS,it was all before their marriage-after their marriage it was pretty different.
He pushed her around,treated her like crap in front of their friends,spoke ill and dirt to her,etc.etc.
Vanraj was NEVER like that,please. I don't even see how can you compare Vanraj to Sid,its like comparing Madhuri Dixit to Katrina Kaif🤣

Vanraj and Sid are similar people in that both are pure souls who only ever want to see their wives happy...in the end Nandini decides that her rightful place is with Vanraj and she is happiest with a man like him rather than Sameer and the same decision was taken by Riddhima.

Nandini had lots of reasons to get back to Vanraj,which were truly respectable!
But I don't see even a single solid reason why Riddhima should stick with Sid when she loves Armaan.
If Riddhima is so "happy" with Sid,then it shouldn't bother her what's going on in Armaan's life and with whom he gets close with or whom he hangs out with? How is that her business?
She is not able to give her 100% to her marriage and that is precisely why Sid is being insecure these days. She is not able to give him the happiness and love which a husband deserves. And yet to say she is happy with Sid? Sorry,I beg to differ.

[QUOTe]What remains to be seen is if the CV's can give a proper ending to the whole Sid/Riddhima relationship, because they need to show that this is a relationship that will be strong and sustain any obstacles that come it's way

What about AR's relationship?
Their's was a much beautiful and pretty relationship than SR's or any other's. Don't they deserve a happy ending? Their 3 year long relationship and love should go waste like this? Their sacrifices,their oaths,their compromises should have no result in the end?
I am sorry,but I am not ready to accept that.
More than anything,if any couple deserves a good and satisfying ending in DMG,it is Armaan and Riddhima's story. It started off as their's and it should end as their's or else the whole show is meaningless. PERIOD.😊

Originally posted by: Mehak_Luvs_Rani

Well,whatever Sid that post the photo prank was for his own motive. Because he wanted to make up for the sin he had comitted regarding Riddhima. His helping and saving her was just a part of his way of apologising to her. Had it not been for a sorry,he would not have even bothered about her. PLUS,it was all before their marriage-after their marriage it was pretty different.
He pushed her around,treated her like crap in front of their friends,spoke ill and dirt to her,etc.etc.
Vanraj was NEVER like that,please. I don't even see how can you compare Vanraj to Sid,its like comparing Madhuri Dixit to Katrina Kaif🤣


Nandini had lots of reasons to get back to Vanraj,which were truly respectable!
But I don't see even a single solid reason why Riddhima should stick with Sid when she loves Armaan.
If Riddhima is so "happy" with Sid,then it shouldn't bother her what's going on in Armaan's life and with whom he gets close with or whom he hangs out with? How is that her business?
She is not able to give her 100% to her marriage and that is precisely why Sid is being insecure these days. She is not able to give him the happiness and love which a husband deserves. And yet to say she is happy with Sid? Sorry,I beg to differ.

[QUOTe]What remains to be seen is if the CV's can give a proper ending to the whole Sid/Riddhima relationship, because they need to show that this is a relationship that will be strong and sustain any obstacles that come it's way

What about AR's relationship?
Their's was a much beautiful and pretty relationship than SR's or any other's. Don't they deserve a happy ending? Their 3 year long relationship and love should go waste like this? Their sacrifices,their oaths,their compromises should have no result in the end?
I am sorry,but I am not ready to accept that.
More than anything,if any couple deserves a good and satisfying ending in DMG,it is Armaan and Riddhima's story. It started off as their's and it should end as their's or else the whole show is meaningless. PERIOD.😊

Exactly Mehak what's the use of dragging this brainless show!!
reunite AR and end the drama!!
We are so fed up!!!
We watched the show only and only for AR!!!
And Now No AR Left Why on earth do we need to watch the show??

You have posed a completely different view of AR relationship thn all other threads in this forum! I think tht is worth praising! Way to go!

Originally posted by: CZ..

I tend to agree with Nandini on this one.... While in the current circumstances I don't see any change in status quo.... nor am I asking for S to be killed off or anything... but I think while A and R are definitely not the same as before and AR wont be the Armaan Riddhima of old... I don't think it is impossible either..... of course it will need the will power from both sides or the desire to want it to work.. and if that si there I am sure it will still work...

Even in K shows if the ex lovers has to be united only two possible formulas were used 1Show the husband negative

Originally posted by: MagicalKash

Exactly. I found the post quite interesting but it seems Arians have no other counter argument except that it's just a show !

See, but why do ARians have to have a counter argument? Why do ARians have to disagree? Why can't they agree with the SRians?

I'm an ARian, and I agreed with the post whole heartedly ... but I do resent the comment that there's no 'counter argument other than that it's just a show'? Comments like that instigate.

I agree with the post, I'm an ARian, and it IS just a show. None of those stmts are mutually exclusive. It's very easy for me to agree with SRians, AND ARians, and be an ARian, and consider this a show.

I'm harder on ARians coz I'm an ARian, but posts like this make me scratch my head and wonder why, when faced with peaceful comments by ARians, do you have to throw the peace in their face?

DISLAIMER - I AM an ARian, but I dunno if I want A and R to end up together anymore. I love AngelTeen's comment, I agree with the TM.

But things are what they are. A and R will always be beautiful characters. AR gave us A and R, and although they're not AR anymore, the 'A' and the 'R' remain to be beautiful and will make beauty even when A is joined with another, and R with another. And they'll keep their concerns and respect for each other, and their individual relationships with their spouses, beautiful and ethereal too, just like they once did for 'AR'.

Beauty doesnt' always come in one form and just like that - love doesn't always come in one form either.

No offense to the person I quoted. Sorry if it did offend.

-S