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Farzana

@FarzuIrani

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Posted: 15 years ago

#11

Yes she is blammed,

Was AR love so weak that one letter armaan wrote that move on which will make rid move on even after knowing that armaan is dying a thousand death so that he she can be happy.

was the promise commitemet not important for riddhima it was only a gap of 6 months not years

and yes i would balme her only when armaan enterd nobody bothered to tell him about the marriage they made a public mockery of armaan feeling then when he came to know they just left him , Not even once bothered to ask him how he feels.

sid went crying druk that he wants to saty with r he helped them to be together he tired is all possibilites but inbetween did anyone asked him how many death this men is going unless after the birthday party when he could not control his emotion then they realise that he still cries in heart

when he tired to be happy and played a prank yes he did was bad but he also felt bad but what happen the very next day rid goes and accsusse him that you did becasue it was sid he broked out again

sid wants armaan to move on why so that he can be with riddhima and his priotity list tops in riddhima list.

r wants armaan Hpeiness in what ways what has she done to make armaan happy ecept for roamcning with her husband in fornt of armaan ( i dont balme her)

Even today when armaan is with shilpa r feels shilpa is not a right girl why is she inetrfering in armaan life WHY can i ask her that

let liev in peace and Let armaan leave in peave

She moved on ok fine but then why gove lectures to armaan why show concern to arman that she still care for him

A broken heart needs time and support not a lecture to move on.

I will not balme riddhima if she stays 10000 ft away form armaan and ArSh life .

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Piya

@piya2025

Stunner

+ 7

Posted: 15 years ago

#12

Hmm..gud post..but i've a thing to say..What really bother me when i watch DMG..

Riddhima says-She moved on..So she wants Armaan should also move on..

My thinking -Yes gud..Right Riddhima..If u really want Armaan to move on,den let him just be..Let him do whatever he wants..Im not saying dat she should act all careless abt Armaan..But she also need give him some SPACE.Its hard for him to move on as he has not fallen in love again after his break up or lossing his love..But its a lil less hard for Riddhima coz she has again fallen in love ..wid her husband..

-Armaan wants Riddhima's happiness..n he's doing nothing which could be a harm 4Riddhima's happy married life..He's clear on his POV.."She moved on" She's happy wid Sid"She's nomore in my life" dats it..Abt him,its like "I still love Riddhima" but i dont want ruin her happiness bcoz of me" Now its" me " in my life only..N im trying my best to 4get all those moments..hurting myself to dat extent dat d pain feel nothing infront of d pain i've felt after lssing my love..

Now Its Armaan & Riddhima..Who is nomore ARmaanRiddhima.

Armaan has every right to do wid or in his life whatever he wants to do..Now if we want him to move on just to make Riddhima & sid happy,dont u think it would be too hursh 4d guy..

& Why its effecting Riddhima so badly?Why she want Armaan to move on?If she wants Armaan to move on,den y she's interfearing in Armaan's life ? I.e-like Armaan-Shilpa..

The million doller question is,If she has moved on or not ? :)

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Nadaanmasakalli

@naadanmasakalli

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+ 11

Posted: 15 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: farzanairani
Yes she is blammed,
Was AR love so weak that one letter armaan wrote that move on which will make rid move on even after knowing that armaan is dying a thousand death so that he she can be happy.

was the promise commitemet not important for riddhima it was only a gap of 6 months not years

and yes i would balme her only when armaan enterd nobody bothered to tell him about the marriage they made a public mockery of armaan feeling then when he came to know they just left him , Not even once bothered to ask him how he feels.

sid went crying druk that he wants to saty with r he helped them to be together he tired is all possibilites but inbetween did anyone asked him how many death this men is going unless after the birthday party when he could not control his emotion then they realise that he still cries in heart

when he tired to be happy and played a prank yes he did was bad but he also felt bad but what happen the very next day rid goes and accsusse him that you did becasue it was sid he broked out again

sid wants armaan to move on why so that he can be with riddhima and his priotity list tops in riddhima list.

r wants armaan Hpeiness in what ways what has she done to make armaan happy ecept for roamcning with her husband in fornt of armaan ( i dont balme her)

Even today when armaan is with shilpa r feels shilpa is not a right girl why is she inetrfering in armaan life WHY can i ask her that

let liev in peace and Let armaan leave in peave

She moved on ok fine but then why gove lectures to armaan why show concern to arman that she still care for him

A broken heart needs time and support not a lecture to move on.

I will not balme riddhima if she stays 10000 ft away form armaan and ArSh life .

I am sorry but i disagree is thsi how you help at one point u pretedn that u want to see them happy than u keeps repeatign the tamsha over and over and let me tell ay if she wouuldn't have done what was int hat letter than the same gang would've said oh she doesn't care aout him bla bl bla as she's not following dah and it's not the first time Mr mallik is hurting riddhiam he has done it over and over and over and i would love to say this in my opinion Loving Armaan was riddhima's biggest mistake in her life

& with this i m done if he's dying 100 deaths it's his own fault jaane wale ke saath kuch rukta nahi hai you yourself has to keep control of urself and live and let others live which clearly armaan isn't doing he isn't ruining himself only but the 3 other lives Connected with Him

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Nadaanmasakalli

@naadanmasakalli

Master

+ 11

Posted: 15 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: piya2025
Hmm..gud post..but i've a thing to say..What really bother me when i watch DMG..

Riddhima says-She moved on..So she wants Armaan should also move on..

My thinking -Yes gud..Right Riddhima..If u really want Armaan to move on,den let him just be..Let him do whatever he wants..Im not saying dat she should act all careless abt Armaan..But she also need give him some SPACE.Its hard for him to move on as he has not fallen in love again after his break up or lossing his love..But its a lil less hard for Riddhima coz she has again fallen in love ..wid her husband..

-Armaan wants Riddhima's happiness..n he's doing nothing which could be a harm 4Riddhima's happy married life..He's clear on his POV.."She moved on" She's happy wid Sid"She's nomore in my life" dats it..Abt him,its like "I still love Riddhima" but i dont want ruin her happiness bcoz of me" Now its" me " in my life only..N im trying my best to 4get all those moments..hurting myself to dat extent dat d pain feel nothing infront of d pain i've felt after lssing my love..

Now Its Armaan & Riddhima..Who is nomore ARmaanRiddhima.

Armaan has every right to do wid or in his life whatever he wants to do..Now if we want him to move on just to make Riddhima & sid happy,dont u think it would be too hursh 4d guy..

& Why its effecting Riddhima so badly?Why she want Armaan to move on?If she wants Armaan to move on,den y she's interfearing in Armaan's life ? I.e-like Armaan-Shilpa..

The million doller question is,If she has moved on or not ? :)

As i said noone is perfect sure she bosses round sure her blame game to shilpa
p is not fair but we al know why because shilpa always is in wrong place at wrong time riddhima doesn't like her like sid & armaan at first but at the same time she cares for shilpa too the whole shilpa falling riddhima handholding highlights that. her bossing around scolding sid or arman is her way of showing love always has been liek this Rids is pampered by everyone be it shanky siddy armaan she never was denied anything so it made her like this lil bossy lil arrogant so yeah . now why she butts into arsh because she wants teh best for him she doesn't want soem ladki she wasnts someone special caz she knows he deserves all the happiness in life and she thinks she might be able to help in that. Now shilpa is Special but rids doesn't know that Ridshi has to develop to go there trust me i have a feelign it'll be riddhiam marryign ArSh off but we have to wait for this to happen. But no she alsywas maintained how armaan is abacha so she wants to make it clear she thinks he'll make a wrog decision again that is why she butts into arsh nothing else. & all this shows that yes she has moved on

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Hira

@friends_rock

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+ 2

Posted: 15 years ago

#15

this is an AWESOME POST fary👏
you have some very VALID points! totally an eye-opener!

Ridhimma deserves the criticism she gets for blamming shilpa for every little thing when its not Shilpa's fault but armaan's current condition is not her fault at ALL!.
Infact its Armaan who is stuck in his past and not being able to move on in life is hurting the other 3 esp SID-RID.they clearly love each other and want to live a happy life but thanks to Mr.Malik. they CANT!

and Shilpa, that innocent adorable girl is being dragged into this mess for no faults of hers.

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Nadaanmasakalli

@naadanmasakalli

Master

+ 11

Posted: 15 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: friends_rock
this is an AWESOME POST fary👏
you have some very VALID points! totally an eye-opener!

Ridhimma deserves the criticism she gets for blamming shilpa for every little thing when its not Shilpa's fault but armaan's current condition is not her fault at ALL!.
Infact its Armaan who is stuck in his past and not being able to move on in life is hurting the other 3 esp SID-RID.they clearly love each other and want to live a happy life but thanks to Mr.Malik. they CANT!

and Shilpa, that innocent adorable girl is being dragged into this mess for no faults of hers.

Thank u for agreeing see as i said noone is perfect riddhima is wrong when she blames shilpa i m not gonan defend her on that stand today because she was totally wrong and her same ability to judge comes there but exactly Mr mallik is ruing th e 3 u know how the say slow death that's what he's doign he's suckign the life out of the other 3 along with himself & this needs to STOP now

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Isha

@isha93

Navigator

+ 6

Posted: 15 years ago

#17

i am sorry but i completely disagree with u..... i was an ar fan and now i am a arsh fan but ull be surprised to no that i am somewhat a sid fan too. He took care of riddhima at her lowest times and what did she do.... she accused him of rape in front of the entire hospital and wasnt that the reason she was pressurized into marrying sid anyway..... becasue she doesnt know how to interpret people. Fine she married sid and moved on... no problem there... but when armaan comes back she didnt even bothering telling him for days that she was married and after days when she did she completely blamed him as the reason as to why she married sid.... becasue he left her but the true reason why she married sid was becasue she was idiot and cried rape in front of the entire hospital. Now forgetting all of this she cant stand the prospect of armaan moving on with shilpa. I agree she is not jealous becasue i do think she is falling in love with sid but wasnt sid the same childlike, immature, indisplined shilpa is when she first met him. So now what is the problem if armaan likes a childish girl too. Isnt it hypocricay if she stops him from moving on only because the girl is childish. On top of all this she thinks she is the queen of sanjeevi she want everything to carry out as she plans. She yells at sid all the time not taking into account that he is her husband, she bosses armaan around as though she is his mom, and now she is ready to kill shilpa.... and id ridz had any eyes she would atleast notice that shilpa has been nice to her throughout while all she does is yells her head out at shilpa. The true reason why i dont like her is becasue she doesnt have the ability to judge a person or make rational decisions

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Hira

@friends_rock

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+ 2

Posted: 15 years ago

#18

i like your point when armaan himself asked Rid to move on and now when she did, got married to a nice caring husband, he is not being able to absorb that fact.
i know moving on isnt that easy but hey atleast TRY. but no mr.malik wants to stay where he is and create problems for others. he should atleast think how he is affecting RIDZ married life.

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nusrat

@NusiSg

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Posted: 15 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: piya2025
Hmm..gud post..but i've a thing to say..What really bother me when i watch DMG..

Riddhima says-She moved on..So she wants Armaan should also move on..

My thinking -Yes gud..Right Riddhima..If u really want Armaan to move on,den let him just be..Let him do whatever he wants..Im not saying dat she should act all careless abt Armaan..But she also need give him some SPACE.Its hard for him to move on as he has not fallen in love again after his break up or lossing his love..But its a lil less hard for Riddhima coz she has again fallen in love ..wid her husband..

-Armaan wants Riddhima's happiness..n he's doing nothing which could be a harm 4Riddhima's happy married life..He's clear on his POV.."She moved on" She's happy wid Sid"She's nomore in my life" dats it..Abt him,its like "I still love Riddhima" but i dont want ruin her happiness bcoz of me" Now its" me " in my life only..N im trying my best to 4get all those moments..hurting myself to dat extent dat d pain feel nothing infront of d pain i've felt after lssing my love..

Now Its Armaan & Riddhima..Who is nomore ARmaanRiddhima.

Armaan has every right to do wid or in his life whatever he wants to do..Now if we want him to move on just to make Riddhima & sid happy,dont u think it would be too hursh 4d guy..

& Why its effecting Riddhima so badly?Why she want Armaan to move on?If she wants Armaan to move on,den y she's interfearing in Armaan's life ? I.e-like Armaan-Shilpa..

The million doller question is,If she has moved on or not ? :)

Riddhima dun want to see him doing all dis crappy stuff.....dis street fighting n all....she dun want armaan to hurt himself.....she had nevr said him to js start ur lyf wit a new gal rite now!!!!!!she js dun wanna see him in pain n i dun kno WTH she is having dis guilt k his condition is coz of her....n above all today mr malik too blaming her fr his condition...😲.....dis is bit too muchhhh....dun u all feel da pain riddhima wil go thru after hearing it verbally frm armaan!!!!!
as far as armaan shd move on.....yes SID n SHILPA as neutral viewer n his buddies think dat new gal in armaan lyf is da only way to make him smile.......n here u go again caz sid is saying dis so def its js SIDs selfishness......he can nevr be rite....😆😆.....n yea today he helped armaan n dressed his wound ws js a mere drama....n he js wanted to impress RIDs.....😉
n abt ur million dollor question......yea baby she had moved on longgggg ago......DEKHNE WALI AANKH CHAHIYE😳!!!!!!!!

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Piya

@piya2025

Stunner

+ 7

Posted: 15 years ago

#20

-Fizzylicious-

Ur reply took my thinking on a different level..Actually i didn;t said I hate *Bossy* ridz..Coz NO..I dont i cant..Its not something she's like dis now-a-days..She always been like dis only..4m d day we saw Ridz..Be it Riddhima gupta..Be it Riddhima modi..Be it Sid's Riddhima or Armaan's basket..She makes mistakes..She realizez..She says sorry..But did she ever think dat same could happen 4 other cases as well? No ..No..I dont wanna mention Shilpa -D charecter here..She has completely nothing to DO wid Riddhima's bossy-ness or care she has 4 Armaan.Yeah Not only Ridz but any1,By seeing Shilpa like dis any1 would be like She's a wrong girl..Im not saying Ridz concerns for Armaan is wrong..She wants d best 4 Armaan coz she's d one who knows Armaan d most n yes i agree wid her totally no matter what no1 can understand / knows Armaan more dan her..But what d point now?

Why she didn't understand Armaan when he left her? She only cared abt d reason (After knowing d whole truth),She only cared dat "how Armaan can think her Riddhima can leaven him in dis state of life"
Why Riddhima Riddhima get d fact dat it was all he did coz of her Love..He always wanted to see Riddhima happy..Nothing else..

& now as she says dis several time "I've moved on" She could have keep d thing in a lil senti way..Like not giving Armaan any kasam n all..Y every time she wants Armaan to make a promise to her..?

He has a life as well.n she should also understand dat..As Armaan said today..U r not in my life anymore (Though still she's d life to him) but 4Riddhima She's now some1 else life..Not Armaan's..

Caring 4some1 is 1thing..N after moving out of some1's life interfearing & asking anything n everything its another thing :)

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