Originally posted by: vena.cava.
Dear Fizzylicious seeing how this is an open forum some people will agree and others will disagree. I don't really know where I stand but I'm just going to give my POV. I hope that I don't offend you or anyone else for that matter. You may agree or disagree but debates are always fun! :D
"I have a very simple Question to ask if anyone can reply me i'll be glad. Please avoid bashing in this topic Thank You as the purpose is simply to get an answer on why everyone blames riddhima and gets blinded by their other beloved characters. Now I am not saying Riddhima is always right she sure has her share of wrong decisions but again No one is perfect right?
Now I really want to know WHY BLAME RIDDHIMA WHY? What is her fault if she wants armaan to be happy in his life. What is her fault that She married and moved on and is happy in her life with her husband? isn't that what Mr Armaan wanted isn't her happiness the reason he acted that he left her the whole drama and made shanky lie caz he wanted Riddhima to move forward in her life and not stay at one point caz of him? Wasn't he who left her dying so that she hates him in a way and move forward(if that was indeed the reason which i think wasn't he was heartless so he just left "HIS LIFE"as he claims riddhiam to be dying in cold. So what is her fault if she did exactly what Mr Mallik wanted?( directly or indirectly) and married her soulmate and is trying to be happy with him. Why is Mr Mallik coming in between and stopping her at every step & taking her test? On the contrary Armaan has never once stepped into Riddhima's life and questioned her decisions abotu anything (after she was married). He hadn't done anything (up until this fight) to make her stop and test her. She was happy and he saw that but he never interfered in her life and instead let his self-destructive pain stay deep inside him. really he never interfared? than what was that horror stuff in lonavala forget that when the dp's came and shanks called him home he was DREAMING & HOPING that shashank called him to set their rishta hahaha how shamelesss to think like this doesn;t he keeps repeating how she left him for someone else when the case is other way round he left her for his own reasons
why can't he let her be happy now Why the stupid blame game on riddhima that she's responsible for whatever he's goign through. Get it straight Mr Mallik SHE IS NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR CONDITION. You Yourself are. Not Shilpa Not Riddhima Not Sid can get you of this SO stop blaming the other 3 He has never once blamed any of the other two (shilpa or Sid) atleast not that I recall. esp Riddhima in this case. She followed your wish Now Let her Live and you go and live your own life. Accept the fact that whatever happened was destiny. Riddhima did not tell you to jump on her and fall when she got the bullet nor did she told you to leave in mentally unstable condition pretending to leave for riddhiama happiness. Infact she at least tried to find you and was genuinely bothered about you unlike you who was busy doing world tours when she was going half mad looking for you or almost died. But how could he have known that she was now okay? Its not like he's psychic. 😆 Of course Riddhima loved him, she would not have searched for him as thoroughly as she did. ofcourse he's not but did he even once tried to figure out how she was after he left her half dead in that cottage NOOOOOOOOOOOO he just left for his world tour and to come back and suddenly starts jatofying his rights on her as she's not a human but his property
So the whole point of this post is That Please Can we & Armaan stop Blaming & bashing riddhima And make her feel guilty for something she never really did & neither intended to do. She merely did what Mr Mallik wanted for her and now that she's happy Plz PLZ stop Blaming her." Is she's happy then why can't she live and let live? I know that its Riddhima's guilt that is killing her and Armaan blaming her was wrong in the sense that it just pushed on her guilt. She has moved on that much I can agree with. Her and Sid are happy together. But why is it that she can't move on from Armaan? She has this weird urge to ensure that he's okay and that he's dealing well instead of just letting him be. She is trying at every step (when no one has asked her to) to make sure that Armaan is fine and does not know how much her involvement in his life hurts him. She claimed today that she understood Armaan better than anyone but why is it that she can't understand that the more she interferes in his life the more he resents her. All I can say is Riddhima should just let him go. he's a grown man he'll fall down but he'll get right back up. He doesn't need her to be there everytime he falls, she is NOT responsible for him. She is not responsible for his actions or his behaviour and the sooner she realizes it the sooner she can get on with herself and be rid of whatever guilt she feels.
Anyway it was fun reading your post as everyone has different opinions. (:
as i said again and again she just wants to make sure he's happy and thsi as nothign else but a mere human she wants his happiness and nothing is wrong in it and did anyone asked armaan but he still butted in between SR too right remember the famous Mission Siddhima he was working on it's th esame way for her if he wasn't wrong than how is she?
anyways thanks for replying i have no probs with ur opinion it was nice chatting with ya😊
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