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Posted: 15 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: kingdeep

so after marriage ur x bf would want u back in his life then u will leave ur husband???




arrey me shadi hi nhn krti kabhi...
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Posted: 15 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: nazmobile



Exactly that's what i would have done, out of respect for marriage and for a guy like Sid i would have stayed married too if i were in the same situation.

And Romaila what if her saacha pyaar is actually Sid....no one ever knows that god has planned for us or who we're destined to be with. Sometimes things happen for the better 😊

her ssacha pyar can never be SID coz she is wid him coz of a societal bond not coz she wished to be wid him.....i agree Sid loves her but he can never be herr true lover coz beofre that he is her husband and that makes a big diff
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Posted: 15 years ago
#13
jealousy born out of inherent love for someone is actually one of the most true human emotions
it bares what u try to conceal

WHY is there a problem if Ar fans feel vindicated seeing Riddhima jealous?
WHY on earth would a woman who has no thoughts of being in love with anyone but her husband worry about WHAT girl is WORKING on a Professional case with Armaan?
its her inner restlessness that we see as the love that never went away

Is there anything wrong in saying we like seeing what we are seeing?

Apart from that - Riddhima always gives the argument that she has been like some sort of been SAVED from God knows what disaster bu Sid - when it was her own Decision to end her life and cry foul that precipitated matters for hereself
has she once said She now LOVES Sid and Not Armaan?

you cant Wish away some emotions however hard u try
All AR fans are saying is that if its such a Struggle- WHY TRY doing someting that not your heart but your sense of obligation makes u do?
i hope u get this POV


Nicely written post btw
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Posted: 15 years ago
#14

Originally posted by: romiosugar

Beautifully said!!!

But only SRians and may be some ArShians will agree with ya😆
Back to the topic, If I were Riddhima, I would have definitely stayed with my husband just like Riddhima did. It's not because I don't love Arman or else, but it's just because that I have found a husband who has all the qualities that a husband should have. Hence, being a girl and being influnced by Indian culture and having a such a lovely and caring husband, I would remain with my husband ANYTIME!!!😊
PS: even if I were an AR fan, I would have said the same thing. I am NOT saying it just because I love Siddhima. But I am truly saying it as I have a high respect for marriage!!!
Peace

It's not right for anyone to put respect for marriage or respect for anything for a matter of fact above someone else's life. thats just like saying that you care more about what people think about you than what you want. i believe its better to leave your husband than to compromise and stay with him just out of respect of marriage
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Posted: 15 years ago
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]Now remember it's not as if she didn't want to wait for Armaan or that she didn't try hard enough to find him and added with the parental pressure and seeing the caring nature of Sid she succumbed.


OK first of all she did not marry Sid because of his caring nature. She was forced to marry him because of the pranks he played on Ridz while the whole Sanjeevini is watching him do that. If you remember right, the bit*y nurse who started all this damn SR story balmed Ridz for all the low level pranks that Sid played.

Regarding what would I do, I would never marry anyone else but Armaan. I would wait for him my whole life if I had to. Love like AR doesn't happen everyday in life. It is "ONE TIME AND FOREVER LOVE" and I wouldn't loose it for anything in the world and above.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: armaanridhimma4

well firstly, if i was ridhimma, i wouldn't have gotten into this situation in the first place. the circumstances under which SR got married were so unrealistic. well sure maybe if you go back to the stone age, stuff like that happened, but its the 21st century now and no one puts their life and happiness or their family's happiness above what society will say. especially someone like shashank who supposedly cared for his daughter so much. hence i wouldnt have been married.

secondly, if by chance i did get married (cos my parents were as stupid and unrealistic as ridhimma's parents), i would leave my husband if he clearly gave me a choice. like look at ridhimma now, shes stuck in such a mess and shes destroying 3 lives...well the toll has actually increased to 4 now since shilpa has started to develop feelings for armaan, hence she will be shattered once she finds out that he loves her sister.
so yes i would have left sid and gone to armaan when sid clearly gave me the chance, at the time when he thought he just liked ridhimma and things werent so complicated.
now DMG has gotten to the stage, where all armaan can think about it ridhimaa, all ridhimma can think about is armaan, and all sid can think about is how to make armaan move on and get ridhimma away from armaan. this could have all been avoided if ridhimma simply used her brain to start off with.
Love AR forever

Yh I agree 😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
#17
i would not leave my ammmmmyyyyyyyyyy
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Firstly Armaan was never dead.He was out for treatment and when I have loved a person to such an extent that I could take a bullet for him I would defintely wait for him or try harder to search him to be with him when he needs love the most.
Secondly I wouldnt have got married to Sid in the first place .Do we remember why ? Riddhima got married to Sid.It was because Shashank thought that after what Sid had done with her ( clicked pictures of their together ) no one would get married to her right ?
With due respect to my fathers concern towards me I wouldnt succumb to this pressure from my family simply for the fact that a woman of today is not weak to bear the brunt of something she never did.Just because a boy clicked pictures of ours without me even knowing and without any truth in them I wouldnt just go get married to him because I fear no one will get married to me.
When I know am not wrong I'd keep my chin up and let the world say what they have to.
Why should I suffer the doings of someone else ?Why should I do something that shows am weak and dont have the courage to live a life of my own that I need someone to marry me and save from the brunt of somerthing I never did.
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Posted: 15 years ago
#19
Just like armaanridhimma4 ... I wud not have landed in this situation 😉
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Posted: 15 years ago
#20
i would not leave armaan as he is a jem

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