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Ok so just wanted to see what you would do if you were in Riddhima's situation.
I understand the sentiments of AR lovers, i too was taken by their love and enjoyed the 'Dil Mil Gaye' song and music was so sweet and cute.
But because of circumstances Ridz ends up married to Sid.
Now remember it's not as if she didn't want to wait for Armaan or that she didn't try hard enough to find him and added with the parental pressure and seeing the caring nature of Sid she succumbed.
Surely you can't blame someone for doing that when they believed for all intents and purposes that Armaan would not return, she even tried to commit suicide and still fate wouldn't let her give up.
Now she's married and has feelings towards her husband but obviously Armaan is back so it puts her in a dilemma....Honestly if i was in that situation I would stick with my husband too....If my ex turned up fair enough it would hurt and i'd still love him but if i've made a decision and married someone i have to stick by it and be loyal despite the fact that my love isn't as strong yet.
This is what Ridz has done and i applaud her for that. It's not like she purposely went out of her way to hurt Armaan....like she said he never asked her to wait or indicate that he'd return.
I ask all you fans out there if you were in a similar situation what would you do...would you divorce and go back to your ex lover...bearing in mind our culture and society and traditions.
Like Shanky said, marriage isn't game but alas in todays day and age marriage has turned into a game and just a piece of paper for many. Remeber the times when people married without even knowing the person...yet love still flourished between them and given the time the same will happen for Sidma.
I think because the fans are not accepting this change and want AR the CV's are having to appease them and showing a possible jealousy track triangle with A,R and S. And people are happy to see Ridz jealous...i can't understand why we can't just accept that unfortunately life had other plans for both Armaan and Riddhima.
And besides i think Ridz has moved on but like any human being it will hurt initially to know that the person you once loved more than life itself has found someone but i think she'll be happy for him once she realises that Shilpa isn't a bad person.
It's easy to point the finger and say 'oh why she doing this or why can't they just do that' but think about the implications if it were you in the same scenerio...it's not so easy then
I understand the sentiments of AR lovers, i too was taken by their love and enjoyed the 'Dil Mil Gaye' song and music was so sweet and cute.
But because of circumstances Ridz ends up married to Sid.
Now remember it's not as if she didn't want to wait for Armaan or that she didn't try hard enough to find him and added with the parental pressure and seeing the caring nature of Sid she succumbed.
Surely you can't blame someone for doing that when they believed for all intents and purposes that Armaan would not return, she even tried to commit suicide and still fate wouldn't let her give up.
Now she's married and has feelings towards her husband but obviously Armaan is back so it puts her in a dilemma....Honestly if i was in that situation I would stick with my husband too....If my ex turned up fair enough it would hurt and i'd still love him but if i've made a decision and married someone i have to stick by it and be loyal despite the fact that my love isn't as strong yet.
This is what Ridz has done and i applaud her for that. It's not like she purposely went out of her way to hurt Armaan....like she said he never asked her to wait or indicate that he'd return.
I ask all you fans out there if you were in a similar situation what would you do...would you divorce and go back to your ex lover...bearing in mind our culture and society and traditions.
Like Shanky said, marriage isn't game but alas in todays day and age marriage has turned into a game and just a piece of paper for many. Remeber the times when people married without even knowing the person...yet love still flourished between them and given the time the same will happen for Sidma.
I think because the fans are not accepting this change and want AR the CV's are having to appease them and showing a possible jealousy track triangle with A,R and S. And people are happy to see Ridz jealous...i can't understand why we can't just accept that unfortunately life had other plans for both Armaan and Riddhima.
And besides i think Ridz has moved on but like any human being it will hurt initially to know that the person you once loved more than life itself has found someone but i think she'll be happy for him once she realises that Shilpa isn't a bad person.
It's easy to point the finger and say 'oh why she doing this or why can't they just do that' but think about the implications if it were you in the same scenerio...it's not so easy then
