why can't armaan move on? - Page 3

arman will move on . he will take tym bt jab wo move on hoga tab wo piche murke kabhi nehi dekhe ga. thats 4 sure. becoz arman never do anything halfheartedly. & yes he will not be able to love anyother girl like ridhima bt nobody tthese is also sure that jab arman kisi ke liye pyar feel karta hai wo koi bhi had par karsakta hai uske pyar ke liye. aur shilpa will give him new meaning of love in his life . bt wo shlpa ko utni hi chahega zadya nehi to kam bhi nehi ridhima se.

i think armaan is going thru same phase like ridhima went during her initial come back episodes in search of armaan ................she also burned all armaan related memories.........................same armaan did in last episode....................

i think armaan will move on becos he is kind of came to know that riddhima doesnot understnad him and he accepted the fact that riddhima and he r not meant for each other
and once he will realize that its shilpa who is made for him and she can only give him the love and support for which he is craving he will love her madly
so it will take time for him to forget riddhima and love shilpa but i am sure this will surely happen and once he will love shilpa he will just have riddhima as his friend

Armaan has all the right to move on in his life, as a person looking at the lost lover, anyone would feel sympathy and would expect him to find happiness again. 😃

buuuuttttt. 😆 sorry..had to give that dramatic effect. Armaan, in my opinion, was shown as a character who went from a person that didn't believe in love or eternal relationships to a lover that could give up anything for his love. A guy that would live the rest of his life just knowing that the girl he loved is happy. If he moves on now, the whole, 'I want to be with you for the rest of my lifetime, can't love anyone but you' Armaan that was shown in season 1 would be dead. I remember this one scene that was shown towards the end of season 1..Armaan and Ridz were praying to the ganesh statue at the hospital and he makes a request to god at the time "you could make me loose my memory as many times but please let me be by Ridhima's side after. Even after getting rid of all the memories, please let me remember her love." I think that's the dialogue..😆 can't remember it exactly, I watched the scene a few weeks ago. butt..the point is, the same guy who went through all of that just for his love can't be shown as a guy who falls in love again.

okay..that totally didn't make any sense. 😆 it made sense in my mind..😆

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totally forgot to add..very nice topic! something that actually made me think..😃

coz he isnt RM....soo he cant!!!!

Very good post TM and a good question..

I say Armaan WILL move on.. Becoz this idea of 'falling in love' or 'loving' someone is different and varies from man to man.. For me, a 3 yr love can be immense, huge, deep but when it comes to love, time hardly matters.. I am not very emotional, hence for me, life never stops for anyone.. Otherwise after husband dies, no woman could be marrying another person and live a equally happy life.. Same for man.. If love were eternal and forever, no divorce would happen once it's love-marriage.. If love were free from all external factors like circumstances and all, no person would be able to have a happy married or love life if he/she has done some one-sided love in his/her youth..

For me, company is what matters the most.. When ur partner becomes your habit, call it a successful love.. When u enjoy ur habit, when u want to spend at least 4 hrs with him even though u work 20 hrs a day, THAT is love.. when u enjoy talking to him, being with him that is love.. When u have enough of him, still u feel tht u can never have enough of him, THAT is love..

So I dont like people telling me this forever nonsense😃 Live in present, not in past or forever future.. Eventually every human being would love a person who loves her/him unconditionally.. No matter whoever he loved before, regardless of the factor tht he doesnt believe in love or not.. Talking abt real life, I think Armaan will move on, once he finds solace n peace with Shilpa😛 I am waiting for that day😳

Armaan cant move on coz the CVs dont want him to .

okay speaking of two scenarios:

if its for a tv soap:
Armaan will never move on, cos, it would be a sin, if he moved on and loved someone else... when Riddhima is around... that will according to many tarnish his image...
so the question of him loving anyone else, more than Riddhima anyway is ruled out...
hence, since she is already married .. he has no option left... but to display the devdas act for a while and then compromise with the new girl...

if it were real life:

i would tell a friend who is brooding over his ex, to get over it and move on in life... after all.. life doesnt stop with a person... if she is married to someone else, so will you.. and time is the best gift life can give one... you learn to move on .. and accept reality.. you carry memories with you, but no one judges you just cos, you couldnt be with your loved one... esp when, it was not even your fault.. talking of faults... who doesnt make mistakes?

love,
niha