She's not Riddhima and He's not Armaan. - Page 3

Originally posted by: sweetshruti

Well I meant Shilpa the character and not shilpa the actress. Shilpa the character was not Riddhima before 😛

But keeping ur POV in mind Armaan would probably say "She's not Riddhima anymore". LMAO

she may not be riddhima but she is much better or say best than present riddhima

But if he got Riddhima, it's hard for me to think that she would keep him happy in the long span. i dunno just my opionion?

Originally posted by: ~@$hm@~

But if he got Riddhima, it's hard for me to think that she would keep him happy in the long span. i dunno just my opionion?

even i think same
when they were together they used to have break up after every 3-4 months
so if get married will they have divorce afetr 3-4 months🤣

Originally posted by: naaju

even i think same
when they were together they used to have break up after every 3-4 months
so if get married will they have divorce afetr 3-4 months🤣

Originally posted by: Akanksha0701

I like your post, honestly. I like those people who can express their POV without bashing someone. I know that is rare, sometimes even I bash someone, knowingly or unknowingly, when expressing my opinion. But you didnt bash anyone, and I can totally understand your POV.

I agree with you on some parts. A person can love many people in his/her lifetime, but he/she is ''in love'' with only one person. It doesnt have to be the first one. No one says that first love has to be the strongest love. But a person has a capability enough to love someone else after he/she couldnt be with his/her first love. And Riddhima and Armaan, both loved each other, they were each other's ''first love'' but that doesnt come with the gurantee that they have to be each other's ''only love'' or ''strongest love''.

I dont know whether Riddhima feels strongly for Armaan or Sid. But I know she loved Armaan, and she loves Sid too. She has got over Armaan and she is now falling for Sid. Now ''getting over someone'' does not mean ''she didnt love him'' or ''her love is fake'' like many people say. Getting over someone simply means to start afresh, and she has chosen to start afresh with Sid. And Armaan will also get over her. It will be a new era, a new love for him. You know, love changes people's lives. It is like, a new life started for Riddhima with Sid. And eventually, a new life for Armaan will start with Shilpa. They will always be in love with each other, that can not be denied. And they would always cherish it. But it would be a different era for them.

I agree, they would always feel like He is not Armaan, or She is not Riddhima. But eventually, when they start falling in their new dimension more gradually and more strongly, they wont hold a grudge against anyone for loving their first love. That would become a happy memory.

''Yes I love him/her but he/she is happy now and so should I be.''

Thank You. I loved the way you replied in such an unbiased and honest manner. Hugs to you for that. This is what I always wish for in this forum. People putting their POV sensibly without turning every post into a war zone even if their POV differs from the TM. Kudos to you for that.

Now coming to your reply. I agree with some points and my take on some other differ.

The green highlighted points are the ones that I mostly agree with.

Now coming to the red parts.
I agree its not the first, or second or third love etc which determines which is the strongest.
Its true love that determines it. Many a times you mistake infatuation, attraction, fondness, liking, etc for love. But then later you realize you just thought it was love but it was'nt (case in point Sid-Tam).
But we both agree that "True Love" or that "In love" thing happens only once and with only one person.
For Armaan-Riddhima that happened with each other. Riddhima was not the first woman in Armaan's life but she was the only one he "fell in love with". Armaan was the first guy in Riddhima's life and also the guy she "fell in love with".

And we can't deny that their love was the strongest kind you ever find. Armaan risked his life for her multiple times, preferred to die with her in a bomb blast rather than live without her,
chose to stay separately and fight his disease alone so that she could have a burden free life even though that was the one time he required love and support the most , died a miliion deaths every second as he tried to unite her and her husband because thats where he thought her happiness lied etc. If that is NOT TRUE LOVE then what is??

Even Riddhima, took a bullet for him and preferred to die rather than seeing him injured, she tried to kill herself rather than marry someone else, the miss perfect Riddhima went against her dad and broke all rules for him, cheated in an exam for him etc. If THAT'S NOT LOVE then what is??

They both truly loved each other circumstances have separated them now. I agree that she's falling for Sid now but I don't think she is over Armaan yet. She is suppressing them for the sake of her marriage. Remember in the Riddhima breakdown scene in the garden she told Armaan "tell me how do I lock all your memories and my feelings in one corner of my heart and learn to live that way.? ". Thats what she is doing now.

I don't think AR can ever be "Over" each other. They can choose to "move on" for the sake of life but will never "get over" each other. Yes Riddhima is starting a new chapter of her life with Sid. Armaan will probably start a new chapter with Shilpa too but at the end of the day AR are so integral to each others life and are still such an imp part of each others existence that even if other people come and go every chapter of their life will involve each other. Armaan for Riddhima and Riddhima for Armaan will remain the one constant thing in every phase of their life.

Originally posted by: naaju

she may not be riddhima but she is much better or say best than present riddhima

Lets not get who is better and who is not into this topic. Its not relevant and will just create fights.
Its a request let this topic be. Its ok if you don't agree with the topic but no need for such comments.

Originally posted by: sweetshruti

Taking a leaf out of Reemz's post with the Ross-Rachel vs AR analogy I thought of something else.

Remember the famous scene from FRIENDS where Ross (who is in a steady relationship with Julie) learns that Rachel has feelings for him. He is confused about what to do because on one side there was Julie who was perfectly good and he was happy with her and on the other side there was Rachel the women he had loved and dreamed about for 10 years.
He (thanks to Chandler n Joey) decides to make a pro-con list for the 2 women to help him decide.

For Julie he has a whole list of PROS - smart, sexy, same profession, caring etc etc.
For Rachel he has a whole set of cons - spoilt, too into her looks, just a waitress, chubby ankles etc

BUT when asked what was wrong with Julie he had only one answer - SHE'S NOT RACHEL.

Sid and Shilpa are the Julie of Riddhima and Armaan's life respectively.
They are perfectly fine, nothing wrong with them, any girl/guy would be lucky to have them in their life.

BUT Shilpa can never be "Riddhima" for Armaan. She can make him happy but CANNOT complete him like Riddhima did. He will never truly, madly, deeply, unconditionally, irrevocably be in love with her like he was with Riddhima.
She will never be "HIS DREAM COME TRUE". Armaan's dream has always been Riddhima. The one person he actually prayed to God that he should always have in his life. The kind of love Armaan has for Riddhima, that kind of "deewanapan" only happens once in your life. That's already happened for him and it won't happen again.

Armaan whatever he feels for Shilpa (in the future), even with all her qualities and all the love she will give him will always have that one regret that - SHE'S NOT RIDDHIMA.

Now coming to Riddhima. Sid is a great husband, and a great guy and any girl who has an arranged marriage ( SR's marriage was as good as an arranged one) with someone like Sid would consider it a lottery that she got such a husband.

But Sid is not Riddhima's "armaan". He's not what she dreamt of her whole life.
In her own words marrying Armaan was her dream which never got fulfilled.
Sid loves her but he can NEVER LOVE her LIKE ARMAAN did. The feelings that Armaan arose in her no one else can arise such feelings in her again.

She can lead a happy satisfied life with Sid. She can even love him.
But she will always have that one regret in her life that - HE'S NOT ARMAAN.

I truly believe that you can love many people in your life but you can be "IN LOVE" with only one person.

Riddhima may love Sid and Armaan might eventually learn to love Shilpa but both of them will always be "IN LOVE" with only one another.
There is one love which you do and one love which happens.

For Armaan and Riddhima loving each other just happened. They din't plan it, or work towards it or do any "koshish". It just HAPPENED. They just "fell in love".
That's TRUE LOVE. That's AR
And I believe no one has to do anything for it but AR WILL HAPPEN. They have to.😃

PLSS do reply..

PS: Needless to say bashers stay away. This is an AR post and not intended to bash any other character. I find the "SR fans stay away or Arsh fans stay away" find of comments very kiddish. So everyone is welcome as long as they have something sensible and relevant to say.
If your only here to pass sarcastic comments or to create fights then UR NOT WELCOME.

PLS keep this post clean an fight free. Its a request.

She will never regret that he is not Armaan..SR are made for each other...

Originally posted by: ~@$hm@~

But if he got Riddhima, it's hard for me to think that she would keep him happy in the long span. i dunno just my opionion?

Ofcourse she will. They LOVE each other. Lovers fight all the time that does not mean you are not happy with the person.
In spite of all the fights and misunderstandings AR are still madly, deeply in LOVE with each other.
So I think she'll keep him very happy. Infact knowing Armaan i don't think anything will make him happier than spending the rest of his life with Riddhima. 😃

Originally posted by: sweetshruti

Thank You. I loved the way you replied in such an unbiased and honest manner. Hugs to you for that. This is what I always wish for in this forum. People putting their POV sensibly without turning every post into a war zone even if their POV differs from the TM. Kudos to you for that.

Now coming to your reply. I agree with some points and my take on some other differ.

The green highlighted points are the ones that I mostly agree with.

Now coming to the red parts.
I agree its not the first, or second or third love etc which determines which is the strongest.
Its true love that determines it. Many a times you mistake infatuation, attraction, fondness, liking, etc for love. But then later you realize you just thought it was love but it was'nt (case in point Sid-Tam).
But we both agree that "True Love" or that "In love" thing happens only once and with only one person.
For Armaan-Riddhima that happened with each other. Riddhima was not the first woman in Armaan's life but she was the only one he "fell in love with". Armaan was the first guy in Riddhima's life and also the guy she "fell in love with".

And we can't deny that their love was the strongest kind you ever find. Armaan risked his life for her multiple times, preferred to die with her in a bomb blast rather than live without her,
chose to stay separately and fight his disease alone so that she could have a burden free life even though that was the one time he required love and support the most , died a miliion deaths every second as he tried to unite her and her husband because thats where he thought her happiness lied etc. If that is NOT TRUE LOVE then what is??

Even Riddhima, took a bullet for him and preferred to die rather than seeing him injured, she tried to kill herself rather than marry someone else, the miss perfect Riddhima went against her dad and broke all rules for him, cheated in an exam for him etc. If THAT'S NOT LOVE then what is??

They both truly loved each other circumstances have separated them now. I agree that she's falling for Sid now but I don't think she is over Armaan yet. She is suppressing them for the sake of her marriage. Remember in the Riddhima breakdown scene in the garden she told Armaan "tell me how do I lock all your memories and my feelings in one corner of my heart and learn to live that way.? ". Thats what she is doing now.

I don't think AR can ever be "Over" each other. They can choose to "move on" for the sake of life but will never "get over" each other. Yes Riddhima is starting a new chapter of her life with Sid. Armaan will probably start a new chapter with Shilpa too but at the end of the day AR are so integral to each others life and are still such an imp part of each others existence that even if other people come and go every chapter of their life will involve each other. Armaan for Riddhima and Riddhima for Armaan will remain the one constant thing in every phase of their life.

I agree. AR have loved each other; more than they should have. Armaan and Riddhima have risked their lives; cried; laughed; cheated; went against their parents; lied; fought; have done everything they could to live with each other. But one thing that they cant control is destiny. Yet, and I mean it when I say this, AR love is so strong that though destiny can let them move on to a different era, even destiny cant erase Armaan from Riddhima's heart and Riddhima from Armaan's heart. They both are meant for each other, in a imperfect yet perfect way. Even if they aint together, you know they are. Coz they are ''in love'' with each other. They will keep loving different persons in the upcoming time, and though that love would be strong, ( Like SR and upcoming ArSh ) AR would always be in each other's lives. They can get over each other, but they will still be a cherished chapter of each other's lives. ''Something they can ignore, but cant hate, only cherish''

And I dont mind if AR aint together, cause I know they will always be a cherished and unforgotten part of each other's lives.

Originally posted by: Akanksha0701

I agree. AR have loved each other; more than they should have. Armaan and Riddhima have risked their lives; cried; laughed; cheated; went against their parents; lied; fought; have done everything they could to live with each other. But one thing that they cant control is destiny. Yet, and I mean it when I say this, AR love is so strong that though destiny can let them move on to a different era, even destiny cant erase Armaan from Riddhima's heart and Riddhima from Armaan's heart. They both are meant for each other, in a imperfect yet perfect way. Even if they aint together, you know they are. Coz they are ''in love'' with each other. They will keep loving different persons in the upcoming time, and though that love would be strong, ( Like SR and upcoming ArSh ) AR would always be in each other's lives. They can get over each other, but they will still be a cherished chapter of each other's lives. ''Something they can ignore, but cant hate, only cherish''

And I dont mind if AR aint together, cause I know they will always be a cherished and unforgotten part of each other's lives.

Awesomely put. And I agree with everything you said. 😃

Except the last line of course. 😉

I'm selfish and I WANT them to end up together. U know why ???
Because of all that they've done for each other and their love, all that they've done to stay together, all their promises made to each other in the last 3 yrs would be for nothing if they don't end up together. That's just so unfair.
Even for the viewers who for the last 3 yrs have laughed when they laughed, cried when they cried, blushed when they romanced and lived their love story with them its just so unfair if they don't get to see them together.
For the sake of these two lovely characters and their LOVE and their Magical LOVE STORY and the viewers who love them I want to see them together.

I know in real life love story's rarely have happy endings (esp in India) and destiny and fate and society end up separating the lovers BUT this is fiction.
Is it too much to ask that atleast a fictional love story should have a happy ending?. Can't we atleast hope that even if we can't have our fairytale love story in real life atleast the characters that we love can have their fairytale ending. ?

For these reasons I for one really really really want AR to end up together. 😃