Marriage can give you a title, not identity - Page 5

Excellent post!!! Such a brilliant analysis of Identity vs. Roles...Thanks again for another profound topic.

Originally posted by: rapunzel84

sorry..dont agree...lover is also an identity n so is a wife - coz wen u r a lover - u behave in a certain way n wen u become a wife - a lot of ur behavior undergoes a change...
n if being a lover is also not an identity then the whole then the whole basis of this thread is faulty! 😊

dear! i want to say something. our identity is not defined by are status, it is defined by our personality, our actions, as said by 'qazplm' . my mom and dad know me as their daughter but they also know the real me. the society will see me as a good daughter, when i do something good, careless if i do something bad, but who understands us? the ones who know what actually we are and what made us faulter and they will make it a point to take care of us and advice us what to do next. all people never understand us and some pretend to do so.
here what di is saying is that though, riddhima is married, she is not completely into it. her mind governed her actions and she did everything to make herself a good wife, to pay back sid for his nobility. but was this real riddhima? no she has lost her real indentity. maturity comes gradually but our nature doesn't change. our characteristics don't alter which in ridz case was visible.
when we change from lover to wife, a lot of things change, but the bond which we share with some people never change. only that we are unable to share our feelings because of the stress and added responsibilities. we have to give equal time to somethings in life but we never forget who we are. we can lie to others but not to our inner conscience.

Why do u alwayssss come up with the perfect posst ever!!

Originally posted by: bheegi

Hi everyone

Before i leave for work, here is a topic for all of u to ponder upon

In Riddhima's own words:

Main ab Riddhima Gupta se Riddhima Modi ban gayi hoon: Her marriage has given her a title, a name, ek naam


Armaan mere wajood ka woh hissa hai jisse koi mujhse alag nahin kar sakta: her love is what gave her identity, pehchaan, her wajood....

Hope this says it all

That was quite thoughtful...wowwwwww👏👏👏👏

yeah, ur right, armaan did give her a identity...

but i still want SR 2gether 😆

Sid is her true idenity know she's still married 2 Sid ❤️

thanks everyone for all ur wonderful responses. Right now I am overwhelmed with work and posts so cannot answer each one individually.

People who did not agree with what I intended to convey, I will just say that I respect ur opinion but there is a subtle difference between a role or title one adorns and their true identity.

Identity is who you really are
Title is what you are expected to be based on societal norms

A number of my friends have explained it beautifully and if you are still confused about the difference, please read my ff PEHCHAN :)

TC