Originally posted by: Lennie
Hey Pocu
Firstly i like to say, i've never really known Armaan, well thats mostly due to not watching DMG until Jan 2010, so Armaan was like a over-rated figure for me, coz everywhere you see is Armaan this and Armaan that (mostly due to KSG fever for the fans 😳) in the past and ppl going crazy for the dude (abit like the Twilight dudes, and the crazyziness of HSM with Zac Efron few years back 😆), and their love for him but i can see now exactly what Armaan is - what The Armaan is😊
So when Armaan came back in March i think, this was my chance to watch and see what this dude is about and i have to say i liked him, nothing against him at all - didnt entirely understand how he worked mentally but still liked him, but i love Sid - he's the one i started DMG with and the growth in him has been heart-warming, but i got respect for Armaan as well, i might not like or love him like i do with Sid but there is respect for the dude 😊
It is impossible not to love Sid and it is impossible not to love Armaan ( Yuvi as well) ....these men are all heart and that is why they move you from within. Sid is special to me , like you but I have equal respect for Armaan.😳😳😳😳😳😳
I have to start with AR, coz basically that what was the highpoint of the episode
I understand BB court was the first time they met, and now their goodbye and sweet closure at the same place was heart-warming and very rightfully so
I have to say words was not needed here, the cards were sweet and heartfelt, and it conveyed in simple words which needed to, and Ridz reaction was spot on - i know she will always love Armaan, and never forget him and all that, and i have respect for that, it kinda makes Ridz who she is and was in a way (if that makes sense)
Another notable thing was that their goodbye was completed and said eveything that needed, it wasnt cut short or left incomplete
Yes and Armaan was completely composed and he knew what he was doing and what he was conveying. He erased away all the guilt he had created in Riddz unknowingly and let her go to have hope for the future and blessed her new life with Riddhima. It was touching and moving at the same time. Riddhima was very emotional but she stayed composed.
I am glad to see that The Armaan you guys know is that Armaan i got to see today, letting his life (Ridz) get happiness that she so rightly deserves and may her life be filled with joy and love and colours
And very heart-touching of Armaan to mention the sindoor, it really does tug your heart in a lovely sad way, but in such a positive way, I think this is what Ridz wanted and also Armaan wanted to have this final goodbye and Armaan to finally let go of the grasp that is holding Ridz back in a way
Ridz reactions, her expressions and her walking back was all rightly done so it conveys to Armaan who she is now and all that
BINGO! And Armaan was genuinely happy as he complimented her as a beautiful married woman wearing 'sindoor'. He lent grace and blessings to the SR marriage at that time.
Now for Sid, seeing him - you just feel, well numb and tired coz i am sure thats what Sid is feeling, the pain he's keep inside him, is or was eating away has i dont know drained or has become numb - you know how you drink alcohol so much and let the pain subside for that time, i think this is what Sid is feeling right now, the pain has subsided, its still in him dont forget that, but he is so tired figthing for and against it that he has somehow become slightly numb - and all in all has taken the decision where he's right in one way and wrong in the other way
I know he thinks Ridz will be happy with Armaan and they love each other blah blah, and what eats him away is coz he's seen the love of AR - he's seen Ridz love for Armaan, it would make some difference if he hadnt but he has and thats what effects his decision and thinking process
Sid is tired of his own assumptions and he is tired of Riddhima's rona-dhona marathon , man! He is so numb right now that he needs some emotional hypothermia treatment from Riddhima right now. Even if she hugs him all night and keeps telling him that she loves him , it will only melt the edge of the ice inside him.
Divorce Papers
What a blow from Sid, again straight to her heart, and at that point where things were settling, a hope arising in Ridz for her future with Sid, it shatters again - and this time from Sid
You see the difference in that moment where Armaan leaving and Sid leaving from her
Armaan she is accepted that he is going, she isnt holding him back, and thats a changed Ridz in her mind and feelings, whilst Sid's divorcing her has left her in anger state that she blew her top off at Armaan, and Armaan at first hand got to notice how much Ridz values her marriage to Sid, and Sid - how much she is attached to that man
BINGO! A composed Riddhima started behaving like a bawling baby the moment the divorce papers came in her hand ... yahan tak ki Sid ka sara gussa Armaan par nikaal diya. Armaan was totally at sea - isko hua kya hai types!😆😆😆😆😆😆😆
Note - Ridz can live without Armaan coz she has had to, and did so because she moved on - and todays goodbye scene was more visible that she can live without Armaan and carry on with her life,
But i dont think she can live without Sid - these two need each other, for each other and for their own selves - they pull to one another, they have that bond that goes beyond marriage, they need each other for the understanding of all the things Kritishah3 mentioned in her post 😳 they are each other's strengths and maybe weaknesses in the sense, that if one is hurt one's anger towards him/her vanishes in a instant - their scene yesterday was a example of that i feel. They need each other to grow - to maintain - a lifeline that has become them = SR.
I have always said Sid is Ridz lifeline ever since their journey in finding Armaan, and today i do see in way that Sid's lifeline is Ridz
SR are soulmates, he is her soul
I think Zeenia said Armaan is her heartbeats (i agree in the sense in what i have seen lately of AR) but Sid is her soul
Soul is where you get a complete picture, a depth, intensity - its your total inner being (and Sid has seen Ridz total inner self)
Souls are what keeps us living, A soul is like how we are from the inside this is what keeps us alive - its a forever living thing - this where SR stems from, this is what SR are to each other, and for each other - basically Soulmates are made for each other, where you have found the right person😳
Yeah. Armaan is Riddhima's heartbeat that she has learned to control and Sid is her soul without whom she no longer knows how to live. Soulmates , as you always say where love came softly.....
As for the precap - i guess Sid is on the verge of blowing up with Armaan who is innocently pushing and pushing him to see the truth in what he is doing wrong, that Sid deep down knows he is and doesnt want this divorce
Sid cant let his feelings for Ridz out esp at this stage - and Ridz is his weak point, and to cover all that up, he is using anger, which is natural - coz that is what happen in real life, anger surfaces
You hide your love, sometimes with anger and hates - keep it so secure and locked with anger and hate
I think Armaan is purposely doing all this to get a grip of Sid's feelings for Riddhima - you can clearly see that he is pushing him and Sid is at emotional crossroads right now . I hate the bloody fist exchange but i guess it was needed. Armaan is not going to give up on Sid-Riddz. And I hope he doesn't give up the hope that we have on SR.😳😳😳😳😳😳😳
OMG this must be the longest post i have written (i hope to god it makes sense 😆)
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