Inevitable Decisons: Why the Bashing? - Page 2

Desi chic 😃

It's simply a GREAT post 😃 Agree to everything, except that Ridz didn't tell Armaan becoz Sid told her not to.. Sid never forced Ridz, and that was only 1/2 days when she actually had to act like tht.. But throughout this whole track, it was Ridz's dec only 😃

first of all right post...i agree there are 3 people with different point of views..but watever situation today ridz is in is because of her own deeds...i remember wen marriage was to happen sid asked her to tak tim n lets b friends but no she was in a hurry to tak hasty decisions...n then wen she got married she knew that she has to move on now withh her husband...so all this mess according to me was started bcoz of ridz hasty decisions in life...n then comes sid who i believe is a person who always wanted ridz to giv som space in this relationship but sice armaan has combak he has seen how much he is pinning for ridz,he has seen his craziness but instead of telling him the marriage truth he told a lie that they r frnds ....but u knw any person in armaan's place would feel ditched not only by his friend in sanjivani but also riddhima....because even riddhima hid the truth from him...we all are bashing ridz bcoz she always blames waqt factor in her life but never really looks upon herself that she has also made mistakes...we bash riddhima for her hasty decisions,for her agreeing to do this shaadi natak....

really very gud topic dear

I don't blame riddhima for moving on... I don't blame riddhima for wanting to start a new life .... and i don't blame riddhima if she decides to stay with her husband... I don't even lame her for taking time with the decision... I blame her only for not telling the truth to Armaan in a civilized manner instead of launching into tirades every time she sees him.... she could have explained everything to him and still taken the time for her decision..... while I have never bashed her or any others in this forum, I think that showed totall disregard for what AR shared at one point of time... She could have just told him the truth, explained everything to him.... I think he deserves that much....

Originally posted by: solembaum

I don't blame riddhima for moving on... I don't blame riddhima for wanting to start a new life .... and i don't blame riddhima if she decides to stay with her husband... I don't even lame her for taking time with the decision... I blame her only for not telling the truth to Armaan in a civilized manner instead of launching into tirades every time she sees him.... she could have explained everything to him and still taken the time for her decision..... while I have never bashed her or any others in this forum, I think that showed totall disregard for what AR shared at one point of time... She could have just told him the truth, explained everything to him.... I think he deserves that much....

Agreed.. 👏👏 Good point yaa!😳

riddhima is to be blamed...her character is so confusing...

moving on is not bad , but the way she did it is bad..she rushed the marriage because of the so called society pressure...HUH she is an educated girl and there was no need for her to do all this..it would have been better if the moving on process was slow...she dint even know sid and married him just for the sake of it....MArriage is no joke afterall..

and than she started falling for sid...YEH FINE..but armaan comes back, she behaves rudely with him , even agrees to marry him for the sake of her husband...now who would do that????how can u fool a person u were madly in love with..

she tells the truth to armaan in the most absurd way..she doesnt even care to explain armaan and leaves him like that..

i dont want to hate her because i love AR...but she is really forcing me to hate her..

Awesome topic! Agree with each and every word!

Wow ....found another person like me who still supports ridz....i feel good today...thanks so much for this yaar......I luv both AR & want them to be one.....but i just wish people for once try & understand her...... ridz has become a bashing bag for all.....just simply coz she listend to her parents,.....& tried to make them happy & in some sense repay wht ever they have done for her...after all she is adopted & an adopted person tends to think that they have to repay the person who gave them a new life.....its sad no one understood her pain..even 2day she is angry at armaan 4 leaving her...she knows y he left but still is frustrated as 2 y he did wht he did......if we all can justify armaan punching sid just coz his hurt.....then y cant v forgive ridz 4 shouting at armaan....she is also hurt badly deep down abt him leaving her;(.......hoping that AR would be 1 again😃

I completely agree with you,,,...

Hey desi chic

The majiority of the AR fans are angry at this moment because of the way Ridz handled the situation. She made a play for Armaan and his love which was wrong. She should have never gone ahead with the cafe natak. And SR should have realized that in their little plan of Ridz pretending to be Armaan's wife, they will be hurting Armaan.

Secondly, there is absolutely no one to lend a shoulder to Armaan at this moment (No Atul, Nikki, Rahul or Muskaan) and even Ridz leaves him to dwell with his heartbreak alone. She behaves cruelly and cold heartedly.

Third, people believe that the punc scene is justified because Armaan feels betrayed and frustrated and he has every right to feel that way after the way SR treated him and Ridz continues to treat him (see precap). She cannot be sensitive even after she has publicly done the tango on his heart.