Inevitable Decisons: Why the Bashing? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Perfangel5655

you are officially my new favorite person on I-F!! Beautifully written!! I feel the exact same way. During this whole fiasco I didn't get mad at anyone.

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

Desi chic 😃

It's simply a GREAT post 😃 Agree to everything, except that Ridz didn't tell Armaan becoz Sid told her not to.. Sid never forced Ridz, and that was only 1/2 days when she actually had to act like tht.. But throughout this whole track, it was Ridz's dec only 😃

Originally posted by: nikka0809

first of all right post...i agree there are 3 people with different point of views..but watever situation today ridz is in is because of her own deeds...i remember wen marriage was to happen sid asked her to tak tim n lets b friends but no she was in a hurry to tak hasty decisions...n then wen she got married she knew that she has to move on now withh her husband...so all this mess according to me was started bcoz of ridz hasty decisions in life...n then comes sid who i believe is a person who always wanted ridz to giv som space in this relationship but sice armaan has combak he has seen how much he is pinning for ridz,he has seen his craziness but instead of telling him the marriage truth he told a lie that they r frnds ....but u knw any person in armaan's place would feel ditched not only by his friend in sanjivani but also riddhima....because even riddhima hid the truth from him...we all are bashing ridz bcoz she always blames waqt factor in her life but never really looks upon herself that she has also made mistakes...we bash riddhima for her hasty decisions,for her agreeing to do this shaadi natak....

Originally posted by: luv07prida

really very gud topic dear

we shldnt blame ridz at all

Originally posted by: solembaum

I don't blame riddhima for moving on... I don't blame riddhima for wanting to start a new life .... and i don't blame riddhima if she decides to stay with her husband... I don't even lame her for taking time with the decision... I blame her only for not telling the truth to Armaan in a civilized manner instead of launching into tirades every time she sees him.... she could have explained everything to him and still taken the time for her decision..... while I have never bashed her or any others in this forum, I think that showed totall disregard for what AR shared at one point of time... She could have just told him the truth, explained everything to him.... I think he deserves that much....

Originally posted by: dishu

riddhima is to be blamed...her character is so confusing... It is confusing, for sure... but that is the essence of her existence at the moment, "confusion."

moving on is not bad , but the way she did it is bad..she rushed the marriage because of the so called society pressure...HUH she is an educated girl and there was no need for her to do all this..it would have been better if the moving on process was slow...she dint even know sid and married him just for the sake of it....MArriage is no joke afterall.. No, it's not a joke. She did it for her parents. Personally, my family is everything to me, so I can understand her take there. But yes, I do also agree that marriage is sacred and that her suicide epi proved how much of a struggle this was for her. But, she survived and in her numbness, she became Sid's wife. Where does she go from here?

and than she started falling for sid...YEH FINE..but armaan comes back, she behaves rudely with him , even agrees to marry him for the sake of her husband...now who would do that????how can u fool a person u were madly in love with.. Yes, I agree, that was ridiculous. I'm glad she realized her fault and didn't wear the manglsutra, but she took a long time that kind of ruined it.

she tells the truth to armaan in the most absurd way..she doesnt even care to explain armaan and leaves him like that.. When he left her, he set her free of obligations.Yet she still clung to them, even in her marriage. And now she's battling with herself. She should have told him in another way for sure, but they had the stupid fake marriage scene that turned everything to dust.

i dont want to hate her because i love AR...but she is really forcing me to hate her.. If she went with Armaan, I wouldn't hate her. I've never hated AR jodi, I just love SidMa. But that's besides the point.

Thanks for your views😊

Cheers,
dc

Originally posted by: bilash

Wow ....found another person like me who still supports ridz....i feel good today...thanks so much for this yaar......I luv both AR & want them to be one.....but i just wish people for once try & understand her...... ridz has become a bashing bag for all.....just simply coz she listend to her parents,.....& tried to make them happy & in some sense repay wht ever they have done for her...after all she is adopted & an adopted person tends to think that they have to repay the person who gave them a new life.....its sad no one understood her pain..even 2day she is angry at armaan 4 leaving her...she knows y he left but still is frustrated as 2 y he did wht he did......if we all can justify armaan punching sid just coz his hurt.....then y cant v forgive ridz 4 shouting at armaan....she is also hurt badly deep down abt him leaving her;(.......hoping that AR would be 1 again😃

Originally posted by: AngelTeen

Hey desi chic

The majiority of the AR fans are angry at this moment because of the way Ridz handled the situation. She made a play for Armaan and his love which was wrong. She should have never gone ahead with the cafe natak. And SR should have realized that in their little plan of Ridz pretending to be Armaan's wife, they will be hurting Armaan. Like I've already stated, I don't disagree with that at all. BUT, I think her position should also be considered with everything else that has happened in her life. She needs space and both Sid and Armaan are clogging her. The pretending thing was crap, but that cannot be undone now thanks to the CV creativity. But lets think of it in the moment. How would you react if you've started falling for a husband who doesn't hold anything against you no matter what you do, while your life's love stands next to you questioning your existence?

Secondly, there is absolutely no one to lend a shoulder to Armaan at this moment (No Atul, Nikki, Rahul or Muskaan) and even Ridz leaves him to dwell with his heartbreak alone. She behaves cruelly and cold heartedly. But aren't they all alone? "We live as we dream... alone." (J. Conrad). Only she knows what she is going through. Only Armaan knows what he is going through, and only Sid knows what he is going through. The so called "supporters" are variable... Their minds change all the time as we have already seen when Ridz accused Sid of rape and how everyone flipped sides. It ultimately rests on these three individuals in teh end.

Third, people believe that the punc scene is justified because Armaan feels betrayed and frustrated and he has every right to feel that way after the way SR treated him and Ridz continues to treat him (see precap). She cannot be sensitive even after she has publicly done the tango on his heart. I've already stated my opinion on the punch (p.1). I think its completely justified. As for the "tango," its a shame And her sensitivity is a part of her anger, my personal opinion. Theres a duality in her nature.

Cheers,
dc

Originally posted by: zainab.A

i like ur post.. thanks😊
but the thing is ridz should have told arman tht she is already married! instead of sitting and doing the rituals and breaking tht poor guy's heart. she should have told him as soon as he came! wht was she waiting for?! for all this tamasha to happen! Indeed, that is not justified at all!

i m not saying she is all at fault.. but still.. I know, its frustrating ain't it?

Cheers,
dc