Marriage without vows shud be considered/or not?? - Page 3

Originally posted by: aish_punk

well not all people get married with all the rituals..for some, its simple..for some, it maybe by fulfilling all the traditions n stuff!

so i guess SR had a marriage without the vows..atleast they performed some of the rituals..

lol aish i agree, but i guess marriage is seriously not a joke and it shud be done with full heart and mind not jst for sum reason😕 i agree sum ppl dnt follow all that but yeah, dunno lets see, thanx for ur views😉

Originally posted by: ritikaLUVS_ksg

well i do agree wid u... a marriage has no identity if any1 of d couple is unhappy,,,,

aww tahnx for agreeing😊 and truely they have to be happy😊

Originally posted by: sallu_lover

i agree with u 100% topicmaker

and im sorry to say my intentions r not to hurt anyone

but this shaadi is the BIGGEST joke seriously for wateva reason ridhima n sid got married but both of them dont love each other they onli LIKE each other n on the other hand for wateva reason ridhima took her wedding necklace n wiped her sindoor off soooo they r not longer a hubby n wife if they dont even believe in the shaadi

Thanx for agreeing and u have a point, why doesnts he put it back on if she believes in it😕

Originally posted by: sim20

well now as many people say riddhima will choose sid like true bhartiya nari as he is her husband now... well i gotta tell them even if ridz choose sid in her heart it will always b armaan she may not show it 2 d world.. d way she went crazzy while searching him cannot b ignored.. sid cannot deny the fact or question on d love of AR... sid cannot compare riddhima's so called love for him and love for armaan.. ridz may choose sid to fulfill her duty as perfect wife and daughter.. people will rejoice but deep inside riddhima's heart will cry out aloud which wont be heard by neone.. armaan may o may not support her... but others should understand her.. if she chooses sid it wont b out of love but it will b a compromise... in future may b ridz is all smiles vd sid but d moment armaan's mention will take her smile away... u can mark my word here.. if it doesnt then u question AR's eternal love..
now speaking bout interns naina, yuvi, jp, jiggy, suv want sid-ridz to b together.. they want to separate AR.. this is becoz they havent witnessed AR's love.. but my question is can u ignore d scene where ridz came all crying in d locker room tryn to find armaan's wherebout????
this question goes to yuvi-naina.. if naina gets married to someone else wat will they do??? if naina was in ridz place n yuvi was in armaan's place will they support naina's marriage or her love???

Hey i agree Ridz will always love armaan deeply and whoever she chooses she will be hurt but obviously more hurt if she looses armaan😕

about the interns, they are jst helping there friend, i agree if Yuna went thru the same they wud be hurt and thats why naina is upset and confused as who to support but ridz herself said she wants to move on and thats why they decided to help there friend, any friend wud do that😊

thanx for replying😊

If vows don't matter then marriages won't be there in the first place and people would just live in live-in relationships. Marriage vows are there for a reason and they do mean something no matter how the couple took them unless it was by force. Also, it is also true the vows hold no meaning to those who don't believe in them but for SR the truth is they were BOTH ready to move on and make a nice life for themselves TOGETHER.

Originally posted by: -alimabi-

the only joke is that yu guys dnt consider this a marriage . while we all saw the ritua taking place it doesnt matter on what grounds they married. they are still considered a married couple .i think the topic maker needs to go back and watch the SR marriage since yur soo confused why dnt yu ask someone in yur household weather they consider SR to be married or not

hey there chill out okay, im not here to fight or argue, its jst my thought... i saw the wedding or i kinda saw it, he carried ehr and took the pheras angrily while she was lost in armaans thoughts... according to me and my family its not considered as a marriage, my family doesnt watch DMG since we dnt have star one but i see it on YT, so not on SR marriage but i have seen many shows on this kinda thing and i dnt think they agree with it either, jst like veer zaara she said kabool hai under pressure and my mum says thats not reli considered a marriage and thats why they broke it in the movie😊

i dnt need to bother my household for sum show jst to argue with sumone😊

Originally posted by: sim20

we are all matured enough to know that they r married... but d post is bout marriage vdout vows should b considered o not???? marriage should not be out of compromise but u should accept the person with your heart and soul.. we r not talkn bout rituals here.. we r talkn bout meeting of souls.. just becoz she wore sindoor n mangalsutra n took saat phere only means she is married to him.. here marrige is just a word.. but now she was ready to accept him as her husband as now she is married to him which was a total compromise u can ask ur household here weder it was a happy marriage o not..

thanx dor that sim, lol exactly its about the vows, if they reli even thought about eachother while taking the pheras, did she actually happily put the sindoor and mangalsutar?? infact she didnt even take the pheras, he carried her right?? i havent watched it but i gus he carried her right??

and lol yeah ask ur household if it was happy marriage😆

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

It can be considered, becoz in India, man-woman hardly get to know each other before marriage, but love blossoms after their marriage..

So I'd go with YES.. If both the persons r ready to give it a shot after knowing each other, then it MUST be considered😉

hey i agree totally but you knw when these strangers get married, they are still happy to give it a shot but here the case is not that, they both were un happy and dint even listen to anything or perform any rituals correctly, ppl who get married without knowing eachother WANT to get married and be happy so they are following each ritual correctly😊

thnx for replying😊

Originally posted by: Angelic_J

If vows don't matter then marriages won't be there in the first place and people would just live in live-in relationships. Marriage vows are there for a reason and they do mean something no matter how the couple took them unless it was by force. Also, it is also true the vows hold no meaning to those who don't believe in them but for SR the truth is they were BOTH ready to move on and make a nice life for themselves TOGETHER.

Anyways I don't expect the creatives or the channel honchos or some of the fans to understand how sacred marriage vows are because clearly to them its a joke and nothing more than that. To each their own.

hey dear thanx for that atleast u agree about the vows😊
I agree they wanted to move on but did they reli ant to move on at the marriage time?? they both were jst dragging themselves, sid had anger in his mind while ridz had armaan in her mind, they did get married true... hmm now lets see wat the creatives do😊 didnt mean to hurt any fans sorry if i did, it was jst to knw wat ppl think about marriages that are not actually done by happiness but force😊

Even though im an AR fan i'd have to admit that almost all arranged marriages are held this way where vows are not taken whole heartedly (at the start that is) and if they choose to take the marriage further (which most definitely happens, the vows are automatically given meaning