Marriage without vows shud be considered/or not??

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hey guys,

Im not here to bash SR or there marriage, i was jst wondering...

Marriage is a reli sacred relationship build on love, understand, etc etc but when a person gets married, you take vows right?? without those vows is a marriage supposed to be considered??

I mean ofcourse if someone is not ready for marriage they wnt take the vows and feel any importance of the magalsutar and sindoor right??

When Sid and ridz got married, she done it for her dad and he done it coz he was forced to, he didnt want to and was reli upset and angry with ridz, so neither of them took the vows right?? if he hadnt seen her take poison im sure he wud be happy and happily take all the vows but he wasnt😕

so according to me that kind of marriage is not reli considered😕😕 what do u all think?? well this is jst my views not on SR but on marriage itself, its true im a AR fan but i havent posted this to prove them wrong, jst wanna hear what others think about this😊

and plz dont say that in HDDCS it was considered coz there ajay took all the vows happily😊

Plzz plzzz no bashing and arguing, MODS if u think its an invalid topic close it😊

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Posted: 15 years ago
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In the end, It really depends on where the spouses chose to go once they are married, if they chose to be happy, nothing really stops them :)

That was irrespective of AR and SR.

As far as SR are concerned, they were moving on happily even without the vows, until Armaan landed to put her in a dilemma.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: -CaughtYou-

In the end, It really depends on where the spouses chose to go once they are married, if they chose to be happy, nothing really stops them :)

That was irrespective of AR and SR.

As far as SR are concerned, they were moving on happily even without the vows, until Armaan landed to put her in a dilemma.



lol i gues so but still, shudnt they re marry?? is there marriage counted😕

hmm lets see now wat the creatives have in store for us...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: nadz_J



lol i gues so but still, shudnt they re marry?? is there marriage counted😕

hmm lets see now wat the creatives have in store for us...

Why isn't it counted? I saw the rituals taking place?
Re-marry? Now? At Armaan's return? The forum will explode 🤣
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: -CaughtYou-

Why isn't it counted? I saw the rituals taking place?
Re-marry? Now? At Armaan's return? The forum will explode 🤣



😆 i dunno it jst doesnt feel like they married😕 its jst me sorry😆

and lol i dnt want that but if she decides to be with him they rather re marry😆😆 and i knw it wud explode😆
😆😆



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Posted: 15 years ago
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agree wid u nadz....althogh ridz is confusd on the other side n sid is being selfish n mean...just like a hypocrite...accordng to the presnt track its mstk of ridz and sid....aur bechare armaan ko jhelna parega😔
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Excellent topic..u spoke my mind..
I was thinking about it as well...when SR marriage took place Ridz was thinking abt Armaan & even had his photo with her. I dont think mentally she was participating in any ritual ceremony, she even consumed poison to end her life..marriage means where both the bride & groom are ready to spend rest of their life together...in SR case it was more forced situation...but having said that if it would have remained like that if Ridz didnt show any feelings for Sid but we did see some scenes where Ridz showed emotions towards Sid...again it is still not clear why she did all that...cuz she did say to Naina that she doesnt love Sid yet but wanted to give a chance which means in a soft way compromising with the situation...she couldnt find anything wrong with Sid...so wanted to try her relationship with him...
well that's where CVs lost the charm of DMG & golden couple AR...Ridz infact didnt wait enough for Armaan...she knew why he left but still didnt bother to look for him further after initial attempt....I have never seen her comfortable & happy with Sid...it always look forced whereas with Armaan she had great moments...now that is real marriage where you smile without making attempt to smile...
Even though that was no formal ceremony between Ridz & Armaan but they had taken the marriage wows mentally which is more important than doing it for ritual...
I am not supporting extra marital affair here but in this case Ridz was in love with Armaan & not just love but eternal love where they didnt have to say anything but still understood each other...
Till now CVs are showing Ridz still have feelings for Armaan, its not that she has started hating him, she still gets lost in his eyes....what does that mean...would she be happy if she remain married to please society....in fact that is the main reason divorce occur cuz two people are not meant for each other...if you want to dig deeper if marriages are made in heaven why do we have divorce...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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well not all people get married with all the rituals..for some, its simple..for some, it maybe by fulfilling all the traditions n stuff!
so i guess SR had a marriage without the vows..atleast they performed some of the rituals..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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well i do agree wid u... a marriage has no identity if any1 of d couple is unhappy,,,,
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i agree with u 100% topicmaker
and im sorry to say my intentions r not to hurt anyone
but this shaadi is the BIGGEST joke seriously for wateva reason ridhima n sid got married but both of them dont love each other they onli LIKE each other n on the other hand for wateva reason ridhima took her wedding necklace n wiped her sindoor off soooo they r not longer a hubby n wife if they dont even believe in the shaadi

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