finally i have the answers- creatives hats off!!! - Page 4

and hey.... my name is niha ... though i wont mind if you call me honeydew either, cos both mean the same.... its like calling Armaan desire.. :D

Originally posted by: zeenia

Thankyou honey dew for recommending the book! I will try and read it! Im a sucker for good love stories even if they dont have a happy ending !

Just wanted to add that in life we want be with people who make us happy and avoid those who make us sad.

At this point in her life armaan makes ridhimma cry and sid wipes her tears!

I wish you the best for your jodi while I will be hoping that it is my jodi that will prevail in the end.😊

I agree, I am looking forward to a Riddhima who will not let even WAQT push her around anymore.....Lets see what happens!! I understand that this is a very terrible situation to be in for a woman...or really for anyone....and I hope none of us ever have to make such choices!!! I am strictly in favor of the institution of MARRIAGE...and the sacredness of this relationship....but being an AR fan I feel even I am personally in a DUVIDA.....for I am having a hard time deciding what Riddhima should, would, or could do!!!😕😕😕😕

Originally posted by: honeydew_dmg

yes for the first time on record!! i loved jennifer today!!! she portrayed the dilemma so well, that moment where she could just get carried away and she knew the guy she loved once/Still loves didnt mean to hurt her- she stood by her guns and took a stand... come on now girl! this is the Riddhima i wanted to see- strong, determined and a self made girl... !! i think our pleas against Riddhima's mute doll act have finally been heard... and i love this phase thats why... :)

Originally posted by: honeydew_dmg

the anger shows our state of mind, but it also gives us the hope to look forward to a brighter and a better future... and sweetie things will eventually turn out the way we want, but for that we have to wait, and not let them hurry it... cos in the past, whenever we have pressurised the creatives, they certainly have given into our demands but that has messed up the story big time... !! this time around, i think we should just wait and watch what is in store... the way its going, i am sure its gonna be far from disappointing...

Finally someone has posted wut iv been thinkin about for the past cuple days but i hadnt figured out a way to put it out there with out ppl killing me...i luv ur post and i hope every DMG fan reads this. ur words are completely true and im glad u posted this. i hope more ppl will realize that getting angry like this is pointless no matter wut we hear articles say. i think everyone has sumwer in their minds that things are going to get better in the future=)

It's ironic that Armaan's name means desire, anyone no whut Ridz name means?

i seriously agree, i hope we dont ever get to make these choices, and believe you me, when we do have to, tell me how many of us would actually fight against the world, and go ahead and get married to the guy we "claim to love".... there are too many factors at play... thats why, i guess its easier to accuse someone we cant touch and blame her for all our hidden suppressed frustrations... :D moreover... most of us live in glass houses and accuse everyone of throwing stones...

Originally posted by: AKANargis

<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif">I agree, I am looking forward to a Riddhima who will not let even WAQT push her around anymore.....Lets see what happens!! I understand that this is a very terrible situation to be in for a woman...or really for anyone....and I hope none of us ever have to make such choices!!! I am strictly in favor of the institution of MARRIAGE...and the sacredness of this relationship....but being an AR fan I feel even I am personally in a DUVIDA.....for I am having a hard time deciding what Riddhima should, would, or could do!!!😕

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i completely agree and love how you have described the situation in ur post

i guess its all there inside us... and we want to say it... but dont want to offend others here... this florum more often than not goes into defaulf fatalistic mode, and most people want to avoid the unwanted turmoil.. anyway, i say eitherways we have no choice... we could use the forum to vent... but the solution to this problem is only in the hands of the makers of the show!!

Originally posted by: bengalirani101

Finally someone has posted wut iv been thinkin about for the past cuple days but i hadnt figured out a way to put it out there with out ppl killing me...i luv ur post and i hope every DMG fan reads this. ur words are completely true and im glad u posted this. i hope more ppl will realize that getting angry like this is pointless no matter wut we hear articles say. i think everyone has sumwer in their minds that things are going to get better in the future=)

:) sank you....

Originally posted by: DJKM

i completely agree and love how you have described the situation in ur post

nicely summed up girl!!! :) i only hope the unrest on this forum ends, and people watch the show as it unfolds... its okay to share feelings but to tell someone what to do is a little belittling.. the creatives have time and again proved that they do know what emotions stir you the most, and we must trust them for the same..

remember the episode during shilpas time when Armaan is imploring Riddhima to admit she loves him... she cant look into his eyes because she is scared her eyes would give her away?

later the bomb scene where, you see how freaked out Armaan gets the moment he realises his love is in danger- and even now he is trying to get thro to her, is frustrated but not giving up... that way the creatives have never let us down... but, laalach buri bala, the more we see, the more we want... and i guess its only human, we cant take that away from human nature

Originally posted by: shihij07

<font color="#ff0066">hi niha di!
you have smartly answered all the replies.
hats off to your deep analysis.
well yes, creatives are actually boggling our minds with their ideas, i don't see that riddhima has actually moved on and stopped feeling for armaan. had this really happened, though shocked seeing armaan, she could have told him about her marriage with sid and how she has started to feel the heat between both of them, but i guess in the flashbacks she only remembers her and sid's marriage and she actually accepting him as her present and future.
though she was happy to start a relationship with him because she has actually learnt to deal with her present, because she thought armaan might not come back{ but he never went away from her heart, right?}
she is still in the dilemma as to why has he come so late and is actually fighting with him like she did during their courtship. well this is actually the hint that cvs have given that she still feels that she has full authority to bash him left right and centre. no matter if she chooses sid.
because every situation demands a logical base. and yes, they surely won't bring them closer because it is meant to be, but because actually they need to be. though i think they actually mingle mentally, not physically. just see the way they get lost in each other and the way they feel each other even standing apart.
you are right" cvs are actually dealing a relationship with totally different perspective. their love is intact and clearly visible, but they are actually dealing with the the externalities around it. lets just take it that rids is not married lets just take it as another phase in their relationship is going through, most sensitive and complicated, yet romancing and beautiful of its kind.
such relationships are actually above all the the societal bonds, totally phenomenal, totally special,. need not to be shown, but need to feel it. need not be together but still able to touch each other. thats the power of love!!!!!!!!!!!!!👍🏼🤗
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