R.I.P Sane Riddhima! - Page 2

Originally posted by: shilpa4eva

it could very well be a solid reason as y noone is willing to tell her about armaan....... no father in the rite mind wud wont to see his daughter suffer...... maybe shahank thinks she is betta off without him......... he as a father has every rite to think dat.......after all he wants wat is best for his daughter........ even billy thinks shahank is doing the rite thing...surely that proves summat

But that does not mean that Riddhima can't go and look for herself. Is she really better off without Armaan?? Look at her? Who would say shes better off without him! 😕

Shaz, I know disrespecting parents like that is not acceptable but treating her as if she has no brains to decide for herself is also not acceptable. She has her own autonomy! I know Armaan wants to stay away from her but the people around Riddhima at the moment should be able to see how mad shes become! At least help her find him instead of patronise her like this.

I'm not denying that they need to show Armaan...but what's her parents fault in this part of the situation? It's not like they're saying "beta Armaan, don't come in front of Ridz".....why should they get the blame of it all?

He's not coming in front of her, he should get the harsh words she's throwing out at her parents - it's kinda weird, her saying "you proved you aren't my father"...why, cause he couldn't bring Armaan to her? She's not some 5 year old who they need to pamper and bring everything for. At the same time, he can't go and force Armaan to meet Ridz - this is Armaan's decision. Instead of spending time insulting your parents Ridz, maybe you should sit and contemplate why Armaan's playing this hide-and-seek game and not gathering the courage to see you.

this will give out a wrong signal! if u cant have ur way rebel against ur parents and act like a wild child, i would have accepted it if a muskaan or an anjali did this... not Riddhima.... anyway- is it justified for someone bring on the adoption issue everytime things dont go her way? well, she wasnt pushed to the brink by her father to derive sinister pleasure, he had a reason, and Armaan himself wanted it that way.... Armaan was the one who had walked away, and Shashank only did his duty as a father....!!!!

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

Abuse her...slap her... she won't care.

She doesn't want to say all of this to her parents you know. She isn't in a sane state of mind but then who would after being played around with so long? If they treated her like a SANE ADULT in the first place then maybe this wouldn't have happened.

How many times does she say that she wants to meet Armaan? They can't even do that for her? They can't even let her decide for herself what she wants to do once she sees Armaan!

I agree, parents should not be talked to like this but as a human, Riddhima shouldn't be treated like this either.

Yah but Reemu, it's not like they're keeping her away either. Shashank didnt stop her when she left to find Armaan (not that he could 😛) and Billy ended up helping them by telling them where Armaan was...what more can they do? Drop everything and go on the hunt with her? They lead their daily lives as well - putting Sanjeevani at risk without the head doctor, it's patients at risk and all that isn't exactly plausible....

I just think Armaan should get some courage (aka BRING KSG back) and show his face to Ridz, EXPLAIN to her what's up and why he's doing what he's doing.

I am sorry I disagree here Riddhima has always respected her dad and done what was required of her.If she or Armaan ever wanted to disrespect him they would have never waited for his consent on their marriage.A lot is expected out of her and in return she is always reminded that she is adopted even though indirectly !!

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

But that does not mean that Riddhima can't go and look for herself. Is she really better off without Armaan?? Look at her? Who would say shes better off without him! 😕

if she is like this rite now...wat makes u think she wont get any worse once she finds him.....from wat i have concluded shanky n billy know alot more than they are letting on....but if billy being armaanz father hu knows how much ar we in love with each other is agreeing that ridz shud marry sid..shows that rids will be betta off not knowing about armaan

doesnt mean she can treat them like that either.... for the record, this was a line uttered by Riddhima two years ago... when someone falls, lending your hand to make them stand again is help, but when you fall along with them, its not called help...

presuming Shashank did make a mistake by hiding the truth from her, do you think Riddhima would have been able to handle the fact that Armaan had walked away? Now that she knows the truth, what the hell is she doing? is she understanding her father? wasnt she the sane and the sensible one? someone who always understood her father- before she accused her father, did she not remember that this was the very father who had given his nod to their relationship though he wasnt totally convinced Armaan was the best choice for his daughter.... he still sed yes, got her engaged,l even after the whole firing, didnt turn against Armaan, only cos, he knew, his daughter loved this guy....

Originally posted by: Kash4eternity

Ridhima is not wrong...AR have been in relationship for 2 years now she doesn't need PERMISSION from her father whether she should still think about Armaan or not its her life her parents are old enough to understand she wants Armaan why make a big fuss if she wants to meet armaan.<br>

Originally posted by: shilpa4eva

its absolutely crazy ..she is willing to let go of a 21/22 year relationship with her father over a two year old relationship with a dude....... does her fathers love not count.....he hu portected her...gave her a family.... a career...... i guess not...... ridz character has definately gne down the drain...wat a shame!!!!!

absolutely!!!!! i echo the same sentiments

if they are not, that means there is more than what meets the eye.... !!! and for that they need to give the needed explanation!

Originally posted by: Kash4eternity

They still need to show why Armaan doesn't want to face Ridz just showing body double and few edited scenes doesn't mean Armaan moved on LOL<br><br>Yes its wrong to disrespect your parents but if parents are stubborn so is thier daughter after all😳<br><br>Shashank atleast should try once to bring Armaan back but no he didn't instead he sent Sid to just take care of her<br>

when someone falls, lending your hand to make them stand again is help, but when you fall along with them, its not called help...

once again i would like to note this was long time ago that was another ridhima who didn't trust armaan and she wasn't sure what she was doing after 2 years their love has became strong ridhima has changed many times she's not going to follow what she used to follow that time.

and if shanky feels by hiding the truth would be better for Ridz its not she's still suffering and she's getting worst this is not going to help her ...i'm not saying shanky is wrong either but he should atleast be honest with her and tell her if he has guts.