8/02 - Sid-Riddz-Shanky Promo - Honour is suicidal - Page 2

Originally posted by: eveline

hey sue..long time...nice to see u here....missed u

Originally posted by: heersweetie

bang on nitz u have written it beautifully as usual and i liked the way u have written it from the societal point of view its so very true in indian society in particular everything is so very norm based and prejudiced like a womans dignity if that has to be protected ( obviously to save her family and herself from disgrace) then she should go to any lenghts even if it ruins her life in the process i mean ppl act completely as per the the societys views on them ( like there are so many set standars like a girl should marry by the age of 30 god knows who has written this ridiculous rule , if anything goes wong in the in -laws place its usually the girl who is blamed look at yeh rishts kya kehelata hai they are highlghting it really well )i am not saying all but a majority definitely go by the so called golden rules of society and those who dont accept these they have to face the so called societal glare............................Very well said , Heerzie. The things that you have mentioned are exactly what turn us into a typical society that is conditioned to think in an ancient archaic manner. No matter how educated we become , we refuse to open our minds. Because that is how our culture is I don't see it changing for a long long time. Rules for women which literally ruin them.

btw comig back to dmg ridzi has dug her own grave there are no two ways abt it i mean why the hell was she shouting she could have discussed all this in a calm manner taking her father and atul into confidence but alas she had to shout old habits die hard after all ( the lady doesnt know that its only a good sound communication that can solve all probs she believes in creating a issue out of everything and reaching a conclusion even without knowing the basic facts) but what abt poor sid what has he done to suffer like this his fault is that he has behaved like a thorough gentleman throughout the trip helped the lady in every possible way but little did he know that the trip would cost him his entire life litrerally ( truly if he gets married to ridz it would be worse than a death sentence for hin no offence to ridzi at all but the mental frame that she is in its going to be hell for sid ) i just hope sid gets saved and the marriage doesnt take place cvs plz help sid out of this dangerous jigsaw puzzle and give the guy some mental rest he deserves it asap....Riddzie needs to find her brains and if at all this marriage happens she needs to stop her screaming . Sid is innocent. Whatever that is happening , it is her fault and her misjudgment.

Well well Poco, What to write about the new promo and the aftermath of the hypothermia.

Whom should we blame? The creative's who brought in such a twist and wrote the dialogues of ridz. Or the society who will accepts such pathetic reasons on the television shows to get married and save the family's honor.

First and foremost, is there even 0.00001% reality in how ridz has reacted? Which girl would go to the hospital instead of going to her mom (home)? She can call her dad to come home and express her anguish. Who the hell wants to shout about her being raped in front of staff and strangers? Is something called a personal life exists to the baap beti or not?

And for god's sake please remove the tag of DR from ridz character. And how insensitive and materialistic can the creative's be. Using the word rape is not a joke. It is like insulting the women who have been thru such horrific experience and also insulting the pain and mental trauma they have been thru. Creative's know it very well that the major fan following are the girls and this might affect them and send wrong ideas into their heads. Where are there morals and ethics?

Just bcoz the creative's want ridz and sid to become a couple, by hook or by crook, they bring in such pathetic twist.

And the cherry on the cake was shanky asking sid and ridz to get married. This just shows that our country will take a very very very long time to come out of the laidback society norms. I am sure that some elder person back in India might have commented after watching today's episode …. Isiliye ladkiyon ko ghar se bahar nahin bhejna chahiye/ padne nahin dena chahiye…ufff

Originally posted by: armaania13

Your analytical posts are always a pleasure to read!

Beautifully analyzed the current situation!

How I wish the CVs would think in a logical and sensible way too!!!

Gosh Poca… you wrote this after a meeting.. LOL!

I am just back from a meeting and came to the forum for a 'quick' update and read your topic instead.. had to read it twice.. LOL!

My comment: Regardless of it being Shashank the dad or whoever (reel vs Real).. at the end of the day… all fall prey to the whims of the society.

Talking about Real society scenarios …

I think the NOW generation has a better attitude than the few generations before.. they don't fall in the 'log kya kahenge' category.. The generation is dominant of professionals that are stable – mentally and financially - and make those social decisions themselves. I don't mean they disrespect their parents and elders.. but they don't society decide what they want to do!

Great topic.. Hope my comments were with it. Thanks!

Originally posted by: bhavi20_s

Well well Poco, What to write about the new promo and the aftermath of the hypothermia.

Whom should we blame? The creative's who brought in such a twist and wrote the dialogues of ridz. Or the society who will accepts such pathetic reasons on the television shows to get married and save the family's honor.

First and foremost, is there even 0.00001% reality in how ridz has reacted? Which girl would go to the hospital instead of going to her mom (home)? She can call her dad to come home and express her anguish. Who the hell wants to shout about her being raped in front of staff and strangers? Is something called a personal life exists to the baap beti or not?

And for god's sake please remove the tag of DR from ridz character. And how insensitive and materialistic can the creative's be. Using the word rape is not a joke. It is like insulting the women who have been thru such horrific experience and also insulting the pain and mental trauma they have been thru. Creative's know it very well that the major fan following are the girls and this might affect them and send wrong ideas into their heads. Where are there morals and ethics?

Just bcoz the creative's want ridz and sid to become a couple, by hook or by crook, they bring in such pathetic twist.

And the cherry on the cake was shanky asking sid and ridz to get married. This just shows that our country will take a very very very long time to come out of the laidback society norms. I am sure that some elder person back in India might have commented after watching today's episode '. Isiliye ladkiyon ko ghar se bahar nahin bhejna chahiye/ padne nahin dena chahiye'ufff