Hate - How far can a person go?

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Hi everyone. I normally don't post topics her but I just have something to say so badly that I am forced to post this. I think you all can guess from the topic title what I want to talk about, and that is Hate. Now I know what you all might be thinking why talk about Hate here/ Why not take your issue up to genral discussion or the debate mansion?? And that's a good question. Why am I posting here? I'm posting here because I always identified this as a place where we all express our love. Our love for this show and the happiness it brings us. Ofcourse there are times when our DMGians are upset with things and they let out their rage but I was happy to see that underneath it all there was love.
So what exactly is Hate?? Hate isn't just being mad or angry with what's happening, it's more than that. Hate truly is a strong word which can demoralize and dehumanize people with extreme hostility. I think the term Hostility is very important here because it is the very antithesis of what DMG presents us, that is, hospitality. It breaks my heart to see this hostility by people who claim to be DMGians, when we all should know that DMGians are NOT preachers of hatred. Where may you be asking is this hatred happening? Hate is everywhere, as are people who hate. They really are people in this world who work with the purpose to hate, to spread hate and to live in that hate for as long as they as humans can bear it. I ask you all, is it right? Is it right that some people spend so much time and effort to hate when they can just let things go, accept life as it is and move on?
The example I'm talking about in particular isn't a new one for DMGians, it has been a cause for debate and still is a cause for debate for such a long time. It's the same old Kasu vs. Kash.
When both have their own respected places in people's hearts then why are people so hell bent on using hate to destroy or attempt to overrule their love?
Is it right that if soemone has a view, an opinion with no intention to hurt others that they should be punished and critized by haters who have no right to do so?
Isn't it disgusting the way people can get pleasure from other's pains?
All I know is that there is something in my gut that is screaming in protest when I see such hate and hate propaganda.
So what is it to "hate from the bottom of your heart"? Why would soemone hate someone with such depth, someone who they don't even know who they claimed have "wronged" them or have given them pain through their acting or replacement of a character?
I really don't want to point to specific people but I think if you've been looking up armaan and riddhima recently on Youtube or have been checking out any of Pari's videos made with so much love and dedication then you might be getting what I'm trying to get at.
All I wish to say is please, don't go so far in your dislike for something that it turns into hate. In the end you will not only hurt others but you'll end up hurting yourself because of all the bitterness filled in your heart.
Someone once asked a very good question, simple as it is:
Where is the love? 😕

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Posted: 16 years ago
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As a KaSh fan, all I can say is, I hate nobody or nothing. I dont hate sukirti, I just dont enjoy watching her. But I do dislike her fans who pressure us into liking her, they dont respect our descion, and how they bash the person who got DMG, where it is now.

Welll, since you have bought up Pari's videos all i have to say is, that it hurts KaShins hence why we dont post in the topics, coz we dont want to hurt her feelings.

But we all agree on one factor, is Karan, thats where love comes in!!😳
Edited by Neelu.RoX - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: Neelu.RoX

As a KaSh fan, all I can say is, I hate nobody or nothing. I dont hate sukirti, I just dont enjoy watching her. But I do dislike her fans who pressure us into liking her, they dont respect our descion, and how they bash the person who got DMG, where it is now.

Welll, since you have bought up Pari's videos all i have to say is, that it hurts KaShins hence why we dont post in them.

But we all agree on one factor, is Karan, thats where love comes in!!😳

Hey Neelu, I am a Kasu and Kash fan, and beliwve it or not it is possible to be a fan of both couples. I think you brought up a good point about when you said "hence why we dont post in them." I see it as if you don't have anything nice to say then say nothing at all. Yet, it cannot be ignored that there are some people who use this as an opportunity to hate, and that goes both ways because Kasu fans have no right to spread hatred upon those who prefer Kash. What my point is, is that it isn't necessary to hate another jodi if you love the other one. And I really don't think that those video's are an attempt to "pressure" people into liking Kasu, in fact I think no one really can because in the end its upto you the way you respond and make a decision about anything. It's easy to put the blame unto others but we often fail to realise that we do have control over our life and the decisions we make, and to hold someone else accountable for them is a form of ignorance.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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You know what i totally agree..i mean please people just forget it and enjoy dmg!! I think the one thing everyone on this forum probably agrees with is that armaan and riddhima make a rocking couple...armaan and riddhima are what make dmg such addictive viewing.
Edited by SPHINX5 - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Seriously yea...all these people hating on any celeb...will one day grow up and look back & regret the level of immaturity...
hate is a waste of energy
all this hateful topics started (and theyve been starting for months now.....kabhi ek to kabhi doosra)...is just reaally annoying...
you know ive seen many disgusting hate-videos on youtube too....regarding a certain actor of the show...and it makes me sick to see the level of hatred some ppl can have😡😭
Edited by Preeti_285 - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Well it is only about different likes and dislikes! Me as a Loyal KaSh fan, i don't know myself why i hate sukirti, there are many reasons which i can't tell too why i hate her and seriously on top of that i can't stand her in DMG! All i want to say, i don't want to like her and i don't care about her and i don't want to know about her either! I just don't enjoy watching her!! To me if you love someone dearly then seeing someone there is really annoying and hurtful! For me KaSh made AR!

I don't what made people hate Shilpa! It all started with shilpa's bashing and then became a war!!

About Pari's videos all i can say is that angry KaShians are taking out there anger on her! I remember her comparing her videos to gagan's i think! Why is she making those videos anyways? Don't KaSu have enough of there scenes? i guess they do! then why ruining our memories which are very precious for us! What is her point of doing this? Why is she editing our KaSh pics and scenes! Why is she only after our KaSh! Can't she get someone else! We don't mind but why bothering us!

Gagan made mixes because we were sad and some suku fans started bashing her and then Pari started making them by comparing them to Gagan's! Gagan doesn't do it anymore and if she knows that it is hurting KaSu fans then she would have defiantly stop but Pari knows, they do hurt us but why is she continuing doing it!! Why editing scenes of KaSu! We edited ours cause we had no KaSh but KaSu fans are lucky they have there jodi but not us but we still stopped making the scenes and even Gagan did then why is she continuing! Isn't it better for her to stop this??

You answer me now!! Don't compare our PAIN to KaSu pleaseee cause we are still wishing for our jodi to return where they already have there jodi and still are bashing us!!

It is EASY FOR THEM TO SAY GROW UP!! We are already grown up so they don't have to tell us what we need to do!!!

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: raj_star

Hey Neelu, I am a Kasu and Kash fan, and beliwve it or not it is possible to be a fan of both couples. I think you brought up a good point about when you said "hence why we dont post in them." I see it as if you don't have anything nice to say then say nothing at all. Yet, it cannot be ignored that there are some people who use this as an opportunity to hate, and that goes both ways because Kasu fans have no right to spread hatred upon those who prefer Kash. What my point is, is that it isn't necessary to hate another jodi if you love the other one. And I really don't think that those video's are an attempt to "pressure" people into liking Kasu, in fact I think no one really can because in the end its upto you the way you respond and make a decision about anything. It's easy to put the blame unto others but we often fail to realise that we do have control over our life and the decisions we make, and to hold someone else accountable for them is a form of ignorance.



Thats a really good point, if you like one of the Jodis why bash the other? I think people start to get attached to a certain actor playing a role, that they dont except anyone else ( I have to admit i am oneof them). At one point we were all the same, We all liked Kash, and we weere all true dmgians. Also people think by talking trash on the other Jodi, the person would realise that they are wrong, and it comes right back to pressuring ones opinon.
Edited by Neelu.RoX - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Neelu but some people did admitted they didn't like KaSh like Pari, i sawed her comment and she said she never liked Shilpa so i guess that is the reason, she is doing all of this! Why didn't she take out her hatred when Shilpa was there! Why only after she left, everyone came against her!!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: ramsha247

Well it is only about different likes and dislikes! Me as a Loyal KaSh fan, i don't know myself why i hate sukirti, there are many reasons which i can't tell too why i hate her and seriously on top of that i can't stand her in DMG! All i want to say, i don't want to like her and i don't care about her and i don't want to know about her either! I just don't enjoy watching her!! To me if you love someone dearly then seeing someone there is really annoying and hurtful! For me KaSh made AR!

I don't what made people hate Shilpa! It all started with shilpa's bashing and then became a war!!

About Pari's videos all i can say is that angry KaShians are taking out there anger on her! I remember her comparing her videos to gagan's i think! Why is she making those videos anyways? Don't KaSu have enough of there scenes? i guess they do! then why ruining our memories which are very precious for us! What is her point of doing this? Why is she editing our KaSh pics and scenes! Why is she only after our KaSh! Can't she get someone else! We don't mind but why bothering us!

Gagan made mixes because we were sad and some suku fans started bashing her and then Pari started making them by comparing them to Gagan's! Gagan doesn't do it anymore and if she knows that it is hurting KaSu fans then she would have defiantly stop but Pari knows, they do hurt us but why is she continuing doing it!! Why editing scenes of KaSu! We edited ours cause we had no KaSh but KaSu fans are lucky they have there jodi but not us but we still stopped making the scenes and even Gagan did then why is she continuing! Isn't it better for her to stop this??

You answer me now!! Don't compare our PAIN to KaSu pleaseee cause we are still wishing for our jodi to return where they already have there jodi and still are bashing us!!

It is EASY FOR THEM TO SAY GROW UP!! We are already grown up so they don't have to tell us what we need to do!!!



Ramsha, I am a KaSh fan to!
But I dont think its sukirtis fault Shilpa left. I dont like her in dmg either, but isnt wrong blaming her?

I guess, Us KaShians bashing Sukirti made, them hate Shilpa. Its reverse psycology.

As for pari and gagan...They are both good at what they do. But I only watch GAGANS!=)
Edited by Neelu.RoX - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I agree Neelu, but seriously all i know, i don't like her and end of story!

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