Originally posted by: ramsha247
Well it is only about different likes and dislikes! Me as a Loyal KaSh fan, i don't know myself why i hate sukirti, there are many reasons which i can't tell too why i hate her and seriously on top of that i can't stand her in DMG! All i want to say, i don't want to like her and i don't care about her and i don't want to know about her either! I just don't enjoy watching her!! To me if you love someone dearly then seeing someone there is really annoying and hurtful! For me KaSh made AR!
I don't what made people hate Shilpa! It all started with shilpa's bashing and then became a war!!
About Pari's videos all i can say is that angry KaShians are taking out there anger on her! I remember her comparing her videos to gagan's i think! Why is she making those videos anyways? Don't KaSu have enough of there scenes? i guess they do! then why ruining our memories which are very precious for us! What is her point of doing this? Why is she editing our KaSh pics and scenes! Why is she only after our KaSh! Can't she get someone else! We don't mind but why bothering us!
Gagan made mixes because we were sad and some suku fans started bashing her and then Pari started making them by comparing them to Gagan's! Gagan doesn't do it anymore and if she knows that it is hurting KaSu fans then she would have defiantly stop but Pari knows, they do hurt us but why is she continuing doing it!! Why editing scenes of KaSu! We edited ours cause we had no KaSh but KaSu fans are lucky they have there jodi but not us but we still stopped making the scenes and even Gagan did then why is she continuing! Isn't it better for her to stop this??
You answer me now!! Don't compare our PAIN to KaSu pleaseee cause we are still wishing for our jodi to return where they already have there jodi and still are bashing us!!
It is EASY FOR THEM TO SAY GROW UP!! We are already grown up so they don't have to tell us what we need to do!!!
I'd be quite glad to answer your questions and hopefully without the use of capitals, which as I'm sure you know indicates screaming that I do not support. So I'll just umm....forget that you are screaming/yelling etc. at me....🤔
Let's look at the viable points of likes and dislikes. That is a good one because there is definately a fine line between dislike and hate. Unfortunately people are quick to cross that line and it's not easy for them to cross over the other way.
What I don't understand is "Me as a Loyal KaSh fan, i don't know myself why i hate sukirti, there are many reasons which i can't tell too why i hate her and seriously on top of that i can't stand her in DMG!"
1. Do you mean do say that loyalty is expressed through hatred? 🤔
2. What purpose does hate have if it has no meaning or reason to it? 😕
3. Quite contradictory to what you just said, ummm I'm kinda confused how you have many reasons to hate her yet you have none.
4. Ok. So you can't stand her. Then why bear her? I'm guessing your response to be because of Karan, am I right? That definately is a good point to bring up. Ofcourse then you still bear her so that you can see Karan. But like it or not, when you get what you want it never comes without a price. For you that price is seeing Sukriti and I'm sorry to say that if you're not willing to pay that price and accept things as they are then you never will be able to fully enjoy that which you love.
Moving on to your next point,
"All i want to say, i don't want to like her and i don't care about her and i don't want to know about her either! I just don't enjoy watching her!! To me if you love someone dearly then seeing someone there is really annoying and hurtful! For me KaSh made AR!"
Well you don't want to like her. Heads up buddy, frankly I don't care. You don't have to like her, you don't have to want to know about her and you don't even have to enjoy watching her. Just don't hate. Happy? 😊 Ok so know that that is cleared, lets talk about loving someone dearly. So you talk about loving Shilpa dearly, as do most fans, as do I, although I like to express my quote-un-quote loyalty in a different way. Yes, it's annoying, yes its hurtful. But again, annoyance and hurt doesn't equate hatred so why are you so hateful? I'm not going to lie, I was annoyed and hurt and went through a phase wherin I got all remniscent of Kash, but you know what I woke up. And I think it's about time you wake up too and stop wallowing in tears over the past. I mean hellooo buddy it's october. October. Hmm.. June. October. June. October. June. October. Now why am I typing these months over and over again?? I'm kind of of hoping you'll be able to come to a conclusion without me having to explain.
So Kash made AR. Yes they did. But, they didn't end AR. Now before you go and say " Noooo, AR died the day Shilpa left 😭" Let's try and find a solution to this one too.
So who is Riddhima? A character. She's just that. A character. In your opinion she might not be Riddhima but the facts lie before you, Riddhima is still alive in fact and on film. Notice the use of "film", yes she is thankfully still alive in people's hearts and minds because they do belive Suk convincingly carries on the role of Riddhima, but the important thing here is that the people who bring us this show are the ones who decide it all. The importance lies in the character and I learned this by going through the same "pain" you have gone through. In my example it was the onscreen death of Mukti that saddened me. Yes, the actress still remained as a humshakal, but I felt bad because of the death of the character. Since it was the character that died, I stopped watching the show. Even then, I had enough in me not to drown myself in sorrow and spread hate at every opportunity I found. I disliked the character, but I had nothing against the actress because I saw that she was human. How can some people hate Sukriti and fail to realise she's a human? I mean it takes a little bit of common sense, if you really find fault in me asking that common sense of you then maybe you need to do a bit of soul-searching.
Finally. Finally, finally, finally. We've reached a point of agreement. 😃
"I don't what made people hate Shilpa! It all started with shilpa's bashing and then became a war!!"
Yes! That is a very good question that I agree with, but yet again it confuse me 😆
Did you ever hear of the phrase "Don't practice what you preach?" Or soemthing like that....🤔
Anywho... my point is that very question can have just as much meaning by the switching of Shilpa's name with Sukriti's. Why should anyone hate anyone of them? And why is it justifiable to hate one and love the other? I think this should be a question left to the haters of both Shilpa and Sukriti to answer....
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Let's continue...
"About Pari's videos all i can say is that angry KaShians are taking out there anger on her! I remember her comparing her videos to gagan's i think! Why is she making those videos anyways? Don't KaSu have enough of there scenes? i guess they do! then why ruining our memories which are very precious for us! What is her point of doing this? Why is she editing our KaSh pics and scenes! Why is she only after our KaSh! Can't she get someone else! We don't mind but why bothering us!"
Ok this is like maha-confusion 😕 😕 😕 😕
1. Umm, why are they "taking their anger out on her"? Is she some machine? Is she a pillow or a door to slam? I find that kind of dehumanizing because she isn't an inanimate object or soemthing at which you can just let out all your anger.
2. And wow. You still have anger? .... June.October.June.October.... please get my hint already...
3. Ok as for her comparing her video's to Gagan's (so you "think") I really don't know anything on that matter, and again, don't care 🥱. More phrases my friend... "Two wrongs don't make a right" ..
So I'll explain that one too ... Again, I don't know what beef's cooking here or whether or not there even is any beef but so what if there is? Do you mean to say that is someone else is in the wrong then you should do the very same thing and hate on top of hate only to create a huge pile of hate upon hate upon hate??? 😕
4. Why is she making those darn vids?? Just why oh why oh whyy 😭. Umm I. don't. know. Maybe for entertainment?? All I know is that they work fine for me and if they wouldn't then I just wouldn't watch them. Simple ideology na? Don't like, don't watch.
5. How is she ruing memories? Is she obliterating all Kash scenes?? No my friend, maybe it's just me but when I feel upto a Kash scene I can youtube it and find many scenes still there. Making something else doesn't erase it's original you know....
6. "Can't she get someone else" 😆 Well if it were true that she does cause you pain, then why do you wish for the pain of others in an attempt to reduce yours? Talk about the height of hedonism...
7. You don't mind. Ofcourse you don't mind. I mean obviously you really don't mind if if causes such uproar. You relaise you just sucked the meaning out of your whole paragraph with that line?
Getting lengthy now so sorry...
"Gagan made mixes because we were sad and some suku fans started bashing her and then Pari started making them by comparing them to Gagan's! Gagan doesn't do it anymore and if she knows that it is hurting KaSu fans then she would have defiantly stop but Pari knows, they do hurt us but why is she continuing doing it!! Why editing scenes of KaSu! We edited ours cause we had no KaSh but KaSu fans are lucky they have there jodi but not us but we still stopped making the scenes and even Gagan did then why is she continuing! Isn't it better for her to stop this??"
Ok so since I want to wrap this up reall fast lets just scroll up and refer to what I said about bashing of both people being wrong and all that other stuff about how the vids are hurtful
So yea again, why she still does the vids is completely upto her, thats her choice and you can't change it because it's a free country (atleast where I live it is) and she has views that don't directly hurt anyone unless they let it hurt themselves. It's all upto you. Are you going to let it hurt you, or can you let it go? I'm no more than a viewer and if I were Pari herself I may have the power to give you a little more on that but I am who I am so I'll just move along....
"You answer me now!! Don't compare our PAIN to KaSu pleaseee cause we are still wishing for our jodi to return where they already have there jodi and still are bashing us!!
It is EASY FOR THEM TO SAY GROW UP!! We are already grown up so they don't have to tell us what we need to do!!!"
Again, bashing... not good either way but please don't give yourself more pain because of it. And I say "give yourself pain" because that really is what it is, you are giving yourself pain by giving heed to people who can't even respect Shilpa, although you shouldn't ignore the fact that you're no better by bashing Sukriti...
No. You know what, it's not easy to say grow up. Why?? Just scroll up and see how long this is getting? Would I put in so much effort to tell people to grow up if it was easy I didn't care? It takes a lot to tell to tell someone to grow up and I mean to tell them to grow up the proper way not just "grow up, u suck" I don't think I'll be happy knowing there are DMGians who's lives take a complete 360 degree turn with the departure of Shilpa. It's not easy to move on but if you don't do it you'll be fixated on one spot and that'll affect you in other aspects of your life too.
I don't know if my words have had any affect on you, but I have a feeling that they didn't and this might just make you hate me too on top of all the other hate you already feel. 😔 But I'll still post this with the hope that it might evoke a tiny little change somewhere or to someone who cares enough to read what I wish to say.
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