My doubts to Teni fans

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Yeah yeah i know its none of my business but I am now like a dog with a bone. Just cant let this go. When searching for IMMJ WUs in Telly website stumbled across some WUs of this crap fest. So now I want answers. Parigyarah (tat's me) wants to know. Nation wants to know. Aliens want to know.

I ve a few doubts/questions which I request the Teni fans to clarify. Here they are:

1. Is it ok to want a guy who is already married? Is this ethical?
2. As per the legal law, surrogate has no right on the baby. So is it right to be in the house even after your work is done.
3. Does Teni truly love the baby? Have the CVs shown true mother-child bonding between the 2
4. Is it right to be in a polygamous relationship? Its both legally & ethically wrong. So how do u justify this?
5. What kind of values will the child in the house learn growing up in this environment.
6. Do u actually draw up a timetable for conjugal visits. Is there a schedule? Does reading this not make u cringe & puke.
7. Is it correct to ill treat a legally wedded wife only because she cant have a baby & u can. So women are just vagina+womb. Basically a sex toy & baby making machine?
8. What if tomorrow Teni cant conceive & they bring in another surrogate. Will u include her also in ur DILCHASP rishta
9. Teni can drag loser dude into the labor room & actually witness child birth. But she cant tell him tat she has periods & hence cant ve sex. You are a 2nd wife rt? Not someone who gets paid for sex. 1 night lost = angry customer + lost revenue. Can u guys even read this without cringing or puking? Do u begin 2 realize how disgusting it is? This is what is being shown on this crap fest during prime time meant for family viewing

RKC a decent show was recently pulled off due to low TRPs. Similarly Everest, POW. And shows like this manage to survive. Why are viewers encouraging these things on prime time. At what level do u find this morally & ethically correct?

Disclaimer - I know none of these actors & dont give a damn bt any of them. This post is only about the show's plot & the characters!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Valid points are raised! But people see only what they want to!
Anyways...when people said that during delivery you need a support and said that does not matter who goes! So why did not Dadaji went in to support Teni while she was giving birth to Ipu? Or why did not Parth's father go in to support Teni!??? Because it does not matter right to a selfish and shameless woman like Teni!?
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Angels11

Yeah yeah i know its none of my business but I am now like a dog with a bone. Just cant let this go. When searching for IMMJ WUs in Telly website stumbled across some WUs of this crap fest. So now I want answers. Parigyarah (tat's me) wants to know. Nation wants to know. Aliens want to know.

I ve a few doubts/questions which I request the Teni fans to clarify. Here they are:

1. Is it ok to want a guy who is already married? Is this ethical?
2. As per the legal law, surrogate has no right on the baby. So is it right to be in the house even after your work is done.
3. Does Teni truly love the baby? Have the CVs shown true mother-child bonding between the 2
4. Is it right to be in a polygamous relationship? Its both legally & ethically wrong. So how do u justify this?
5. What kind of values will the child in the house learn growing up in this environment.
6. Do u actually draw up a timetable for conjugal visits. Is there a schedule? Does reading this not make u cringe & puke.
7. Is it correct to ill treat a legally wedded wife only because she cant have a baby & u can. So women are just vagina+womb. Basically a sex toy & baby making machine?
8. What if tomorrow Teni cant conceive & they bring in another surrogate. Will u include her also in ur DILCHASP rishta
9. Teni can drag loser dude into the labor room & actually witness child birth. But she cant tell him tat she has periods & hence cant ve sex. You are a 2nd wife rt? Not someone who gets paid for sex. 1 night lost = angry customer + lost revenue. Can u guys even read this without cringing or puking? Do u begin 2 realize how disgusting it is? This is what is being shown on this crap fest during prime time meant for family viewing

RKC a decent show was recently pulled off due to low TRPs. Similarly Everest, POW. And shows like this manage to survive. Why are viewers encouraging these things on prime time. At what level do u find this morally & ethically correct?

Disclaimer - I know none of these actors & dont give a damn bt any of them. This post is only about the show's plot & the characters!


Not a Teni fan but still I am taking the opportunity to clear few of your doubts 😆
3. No. They never showed any true bonding between Teni and the unborn kid, or even after the kid was born. When she was pregnant, she used the kid as a weapon to have Parth around her always, to make him dance to her tunes. After the kid was born, they showed her caring for the kid, but the character was butchered to such extent by then that it looked fake. The movie from which this show was said to be inspired was equally pathetic, but there they atleast showed the wanna be mother developing genuine feelings for the unborn baby which was never the case here.
8. Seeing the track record of the loser guy and the CVs, they can very well do that!
9. You have a valid point. But logic and this show are nowhere related to each other. Here everything changes according to writers and Teni's convenience. After the illegal marriage, they have to show that the second fertile woman is some adarsh naari and bahu. So suddenly she becomes adarsh who thinks being frank with her (illegal) husband will be a threat to her adarshata tag. So, she can't do that. No matter if that goes with the character or not, contradicts earlier situations. Viewers brains are anyways takes for granted.
Rest of them, absolute NO.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: xxxlgirl2001

Valid points are raised! But people see only what they want to!

Anyways...when people said that during delivery you need a support and said that does not matter who goes! So why did not Dadaji went in to support Teni while she was giving birth to Ipu? Or why did not Parth's father go in to support Teni!??? Because it does not matter right to a selfish and shameless woman like Teni!?



See I am ok with the girl wanting the guy 2 b there for moral support. My water broke & they had 2 do an emergency c section more than 3 weeks bef the due date. I was in my hometown for delivery & my hubby was traveling to reach there. When they took me 2 the operation theater I was crying tat i want 2 wait 4 my hubby. The docs, nurses, parents struggled so much 2 convince me. Finally just when i was wheeled to the door of OT my hubby arrived. They actually had to wheel me out, take me to the outer door which is glass. I was crying & my hubby touched the door & gave me a thumbs up. Only aft tat i stopped crying & they wheeled me back 2 the OT. My cousins who were there at tat time still laugh & talk bt this filmy scene 😆

So I am not complaining bt tat. What I am complaining bt is the logic. This girl was comfy 2 get a guy who at tat time was not her husband into the labor room during child birth. But now she is not comfortable 2 tell the same guy who is now her husband that she has her periods. I mean W*F. He has already been married. He is an adult. A father of a girl child. Now a days boys in schools know bt periods & sanitary pads & this female cant talk 2 her hubby bt this. What is this? The stone age? 8 BC century.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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most disappointing thing that legal wife shouravari is not raising voice against bigamy . she is comfortable with this

there r many Parth who fall for other girls . there r many teni who come between husband and wife there r many teni falling for married man


but at least legal wife shouravari should not be shown like this support her husband in his bigamy

literally disappointed with shouravari supporting husband in bigamy

how many shouravaris r there who is supporting husband in his bigamy ?
Edited by surabhi01 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Angels11



See I am ok with the girl wanting the guy 2 b there for moral support. My water broke & they had 2 do an emergency c section more than 3 weeks bef the due date. I was in my hometown for delivery & my hubby was traveling to reach there. When they took me 2 the operation theater I was crying tat i want 2 wait 4 my hubby. The docs, nurses, parents struggled so much 2 convince me. Finally just when i was wheeled to the door of OT my hubby arrived. They actually had to wheel me out, take me to the outer door which is glass. I was crying & my hubby touched the door & gave me a thumbs up. Only aft tat i stopped crying & they wheeled me back 2 the OT. My cousins who were there at tat time still laugh & talk bt this filmy scene 😆

So I am not complaining bt tat. What I am complaining bt is the logic. This girl was comfy 2 get a guy who at tat time was not her husband into the labor room during child birth. But now she is not comfortable 2 tell the same guy who is now her husband that she has her periods. I mean W*F. He has already been married. He is an adult. A father of a girl child. Now a days boys in schools know bt periods & sanitary pads & this female cant talk 2 her hubby bt this. What is this? The stone age? 8 BC century.


I understand what you want to say, but there is a difference between wanting your husband inside the labour room with you and wanting another married man with you there, who is not comfortable in doing so. Plus the way it is shown makes a difference.
It nowhere looked like Teni wanted Parth inside labour room for moral support. It was just because Parth's mother provoked her to do so, and made her believe that by asking him to do that, he may develop feelings for her and agree to marry her. Parth was still under immense shock and grief because of his wife's death (the character was a dedicated and loyal husband back then), but his family was in hurry to make him move on and marry Teni because they disliked his first wife.
Anyways this was just one incident. There were other scenes where she wanted him to tie the knot of her blouse (they were not married that time) or wanted him to make her ready for her marriage. So yeah, as you said it looks illogical that now she is uncomfortable in discussing about her periods with him. All thanks to poor writing of this pathetic show.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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look like CVs think they can impress viewer by showing how legal wife is so caring about her surrogate mother how legal wife is so great full to surrogate mother



that she is ready to make surrogate mother as

second wife of Parth


look like CVs think that CVs will impress viewersby showinglegal couple r not selfish that they just want child and forget surrogate

mother after they get baby from surrogate mother




by including teni as wife of Parth . Parth accepting teni shouravari accepting teni as sauten


CVs think they will impress viewer that legal couple r not selfish who just want child but instead the do care about sauten by making surrogate mother as second


wife of Parth



if CVs think viewers will impress by such thing then they r highly mistake
they need to come out from illusion and see reality
Edited by surabhi01 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Lol, No Teni fan has ever given reasonable explanations or justifications in this forum so far, so TM you're actually asking for a miracle which has never happened here. But let's see if someone comes up to reply to your questions.
Like Rashmi said, I'm not a Teni fan, forget being fan, I can't even tolerate her for a seconds on-screen. I'm gonna answer a few questions though from their side...

1) Love just happens , you really can't choose to ignore your feelings if it's happened with a married man.. Well she did try to keep away , but it was Shorvari who evoked marriage dreams to her so Teni is nowhere at fault..

2) She's not a lifeless emotions less being or some use and throw object, then how can you expect her to move on, when her job is done? Btw she did move on, eventually but it was Parath who stopped her from going to USA and brought her back..

3) She does care for the baby. (Thats all you'll get, how and why or when it won't be explained. Honest answer is No, never!)

4) It is not, and since it was Shorvari who got them married she should have stayed away from Pate. Now also Shorvari should take the step and not Teni.

8) Definitely No.


TM@ The show is utter bullshit. We've all seen the show enough to say that it was never meant for sensible minds.

Edited by Luv_PaRiAnSh - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Luv_PaRiAnSh

Lol, No Teni fan has ever given reasonable explanations or justifications in this forum so far, so TM you're actually asking for a miracle which has never happened here. But let's see if someone comes up to reply to your questions.

Like Rashmi said, I'm not a Teni fan, forget being fan, I can't even tolerate her for a seconds on-screen. I'm gonna answer a few questions though from their side...

1) Love just happens , you really can't choose to ignore your feelings if it's happened with a married man.. Well she did try to keep away , but it was Shorvari who evoked marriage dreams to her so Teni is nowhere at fault..

2) She's not a lifeless emotions less being or some use and throw object, then how can you expect her to move on, when her job is done? Btw she did move on, eventually but it was Parath who stopped her from going to USA and brought her back..

3) She does care for the baby. (Thats all you'll get, how and why or when it won't be explained. Honest answer is No, never!)

4) It is not, and since it was Shorvari who got them married she should have stayed away from Pate. Now also Shorvari should take the step and not Teni.

5) Definitely No.


TM@ The show is utter bullshit. We've all seen the show enough to say that it was never meant for sensible minds.



OK I accept that the wife Shorvari is a brainless bimbo. If she has a spine & more self respect than a doormat she would ve slapped her loser hubby, his pathetic family, packed up & continued her peaceful life in another town (think she was indeed dng at least the last part). Thats wat is mystifying. If my hubby as much as touches a girl in my presence I ll take the meat axe to him. May God help frm him my fury. Here a wife is actually giving bedroom tips to her sautan. W*F r they trying to tell. I wont pretend tat such things dont happen in India. Esp if the 1st wife is uneducated with no family support & is financially dependent on hubby. But still just coz it happens should the makers actually show it & try to glorify it. So will they show a Nirbaya kind of incident & say dude it did happen na tats y v r showing. Is this gng 2 b their excuse. Come on it does happen in India tats y v r showing it that too on prime time family viewing time on Indian tv.

Dont these show makers, actors, writers & channel ve even a teaspoon of conscience. Dont they ve any professional ethics. There was such a hue & cry over Pehredar. Why none on this crap fest. I remember seeing articles aft articles in IF for Pehredar. For this show they r actually promoting this DILCHASP rishta. Has everyone really lost their minds 😡
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Well it does happen, Women who are illiterate or financially dependent on her husband might actually tolerate such crap. But even such women won't be fine to this alternative sleeping arrangements.
And she won't be smiling at her husband and Sauthan sharing a kiss right before her eyes.
No wife would be happily giving suggestions on lingerie colors to her sauthan.

No one in right mind would volunteer to inform her Sauthan's periods dilemma , and also that she wont be available to have sex with her husband. These things can never really happen...

But the makers and actors don't seem to mind about anything. They are guiltlessly shoving this illicit shitty threesome in the name of dilchasp rishta. No one seem to care about the message it delivers about the surrogacy which it initially started out with, or the feelings of an infertile woman.


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