Originally posted by: Gewels
Surabhi you are asking questions that you know the answer to. Teni made a promise to Shorvori that she won't say anything until she and Parth are married. That promise pretty much shut her up in terms of explanations. Everything following has pretty much stemmed from that promise. It's easy to blame her, but she's proved her loyalty. She broke her promise in utter desperation, even though she suspected it wouldn't do any good.
But you know this, so the questions you keep asking are just an excuse to blame her. This is her path in the show. Her character has to walk it until it changes, if it does.
Gewels, I like the way you present what you want to say.
But Parth decided he'll never marry Teni. Teni agreed to it and clearly told him and the family she doesn't want to be married to Parth. Then according to her when will the time comes that she shows the video herself? That's the whole point.
I can't speak for everyone. But one thing I can say for sure. I don't need any excuse to blame Teni. In fact many don't need. Why would I search for an excuse? I don't have personal grudges right!? When we started off with the serial, I was a sid fan and was completely neutral about Teni or Shorvori or the actresses. Gradually certain scenes that are created by writers are responsible for the irritation we developed towards the character. Just like the above one I have explained, there are scenes where the character displays it's double-sidedness. Okay if you don't feel so. But please don't feel offended if we are against the character. A praise for any character or blame for it is indirectly always directed to the writers. Because they are the ones who shape it. If we find that the representation they give is making blunders, we do blame that representation/creation. Teni is one of such creations. It's not directed to Jasmin Bhasin for sure. I don't say Teni has done everything in a bad way. But as far as I feel from the show, she definitely had her share of some very cheap moments or selfishness or double-sidedness.
Just imagine something. However the character is being portrayed, you people are happy. It isn't necessarily the same with others. They do have their reasons. This is the place where we can let out what we feel. I don't know why few think as if we are waging war against Jasmin. Why can't they accept our irritation as our feeling and leave?
You seem to be a person who tries to understand unlike few others. I hope you stop taking irritation for a character as a personal thing and get offended.
Edited by g.sreedurga - 7 years ago