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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shambavishivam

I dont think all the three of them know what they are getting into through this surrogacy 😕
For parth and shorvari its only the child that matters..since teni is the source to that they can do anything to protect her...the main reason parth chose teni is that she is void of any emotions and he believes that tomorrow after the child is born she wont have any claims over it...
As for Teni..she agreed to this because of her America dreams...she may eventually develop a bonding for the child which is very natural..and even if she claims the child in the end i dont see anything wrong in that
I only have a problem with this so called romance they are trying to bring between parth and teni just because she is the surrogate mother...its kind of a insult to both the surrogate mother and the father of the child
If they want to show a dilchasp rishta they should ahow it with shorvari as well..the child is hers as much as it is parth's..the rishta is there with her too...
Its just sending out a wrong message in the form of these superficial scenes that surrogate mother and the father of the child will have a special bonding..i know it sounds bad..but thats what it luks like here...
They need to retain the individual characters the way they are and not ruin it for masala purpose...individually all the three charavters parth shorvari and teni are beautiful
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@bold blue agree with each and every sentence.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Guess most of us are on the same page when it comes to CVs attempt to project the surrogate mother as third angle in the couple's love story. All three of them, Parth-Shorvori and Teni are very much clear on what they want in life at this stage (though they haven't given a thought to its long term effects), and none of them will approve of a relationship between Parth and Teni. But the way CVs are trying to show it for the sake of drama, is surely sending wrong message.

Coming to rights of surrogate mother and biological parents, they all know what they are getting into as far as the child is concerned. There is nothing wrong in Teni developing feeling for the child, but at the same time, Parth and Shorvori will also have emotions invested in their unborn child. They all have entered into the deal with some mutual agreement and understanding between them, and they need to stick to it so as to avoid any complications in future..
Edited by _goofyCat_ - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: snowflakes2119

Well said Yash!! The clichd scenes were purposely included either to create doubt in the mind of PaRi fans or what you have stated to appease a section of viewers rooting for PaTi.
What is noticeable as already mentioned by you, is the flowering of an immaculate relationship between PaTi.
Here, I think the makers have tried to highlight that opposite sex relationship is possible with mutual respect and concern as its basis and doesn't always end up as per societal orientation.. Two three superficial scenes should not be allowed to understate the impeccable affinity between PaTi.

Very well said.
If you look closely the two-three superficial scenes that we're talking about looked OTT only because of the background score. Yesterday when Teni fell down on Parth, Parth asked her if she was okay and Teni was just happy because the flower petals showered on her. Their was no 'closeness' as such.
Similarly, When Parth saved Teni from falling down the stairs, she hugged him because she was scared.
Coming to mangalsutra and greha pravesh scenes - I feel they are just to increase the drama quotient and nothing else. Parth and Teni know what they're doing.
Now when Shorvari has returned, they will focus on her relationship with Teni as well.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Very well said.
If you look closely the two-three superficial scenes that we're talking about looked OTT only because of the background score. Yesterday when Teni fell down on Parth, Parth asked her if she was okay and Teni was just happy because the flower petals showered on her. Their was no 'closeness' as such.
Similarly, When Parth saved Teni from falling down the stairs, she hugged him because she was scared.
Coming to mangalsutra and greha pravesh scenes - I feel they are just to increase the drama quotient and nothing else. Parth and Teni know what they're doing.
Now when Shorvari has returned, they will focus on her relationship with Teni as well.
Good interpretation!! The conclusion to your explanation can be that when visuals are deceptive then intellect comes into fore to simplify the confusion caused by the vision.
Edited by snowflakes2119 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Just caught the serial for the. Very first time m then read this thread...i think its v similar to salman rani preity film chori chori chupkey chupkey
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jay_tapori

Just caught the serial for the. Very first time m then read this thread...i think its v similar to salman rani preity film chori chori chupkey chupkey


The show is supposed to be loosely inspired from the film.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: gloriousgal

Very well said.
If you look closely the two-three superficial scenes that we're talking about looked OTT only because of the background score. Yesterday when Teni fell down on Parth, Parth asked her if she was okay and Teni was just happy because the flower petals showered on her. Their was no 'closeness' as such.
Similarly, When Parth saved Teni from falling down the stairs, she hugged him because she was scared.
Coming to mangalsutra and greha pravesh scenes - I feel they are just to increase the drama quotient and nothing else. Parth and Teni know what they're doing.
Now when Shorvari has returned, they will focus on her relationship with Teni as well.


Absolutely agree that the scenes were very well done, they didn't look cheap or awkward, and somewhere the comfort level between the actors played a great role in making it look that way. But I think all this happening in Shorvori's absence made it look more like attempt to show Teni as Shorvori's substitute in Parth's life. Anyways, Shorvori is back, so lets see how it goes now.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: SudHaVeN-


Nataly, nobody here said that Teni should disappear after giving birth to the baby. As a mother I know how hard that can be for her to give away the baby which she kept in her womb for nine months. But the discussion is all about Teni and Parth, and the way the hints cvs have been throwing away, on how Teni is like Parth's second wife. Do you think that the price for her womb should be getting married to Parth in the end? If that was the case cvs could have brought a second marriage option for Parth since Shorvari can't give him a child. They need not have taken all this trouble of surrogacy at all.



As for the price for Teni's womb, do you really think that a human organ or a part of a human body can be paid with money at all?! Or, do you think that a part of a human body can be rented for the money, just like an apartment?! Well, me not! It's not biological, it's not human, it's simply not normal. Not the second or third marriage but the surrogacy is that what is contrary to all principles of morality and ethics. I don't care how the CVS will handle it as long as they set the sign in the world that the surrogacy is something what actually should be forbidden as it's the case in so many other countries in the world. So, why Teni could not be Parth's second wife?! After all, such a move will show that the surrogacy can become quite dangerous for the would-like-be-parents couple. But I simply can not escape the impression that in DSDT's case the most important thing for the majority of you is that the romance between Parth and Shorvori should be present continuously (without disturbing interruptions by Teni&CVS) and all what is expected from Teni is that she carry that child for 9 month (quite taciturn and best somewhere in the background) and after the childbirth simply disappears from Parth&Shorvari's life so that their perfect marriage now completed with the wish child, can be continued even more perfectly than ever. But what's with Teni? Is anyone interested in it at all what will become of that surrogate mother after that? Or is she really for the majority of you only someone who will be paid by money to make childless couples happy through her own body???

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Nataly @ No one's denying that, none of us can fix a price for a mother's womb or any other human organ. But such practices still exist here for some reason. Maybe coz people here are financially unstable and they sought out to such opportunities just for money, just like how Teni was ready to go through this procedure for money, with which she could pursue her America dreams. And you should also understand that, It's not like everyone is seeing this surrogacy term as a mere trade or consider it as a womb that's been rented for money here. Many of us may not even like this whole surrogacy at all, even if surrogacy still is considered legal in this country. People's perspectives do differ from one other.

However, they're making this show for god knows what reason, based on that movie chori chori chup ke se which was a failure. (It was a failure btw, that itself makes it clear that majority of the people never liked that subject). These creatives are claiming it to be doing for creating some kinda awareness, I strongly doubt if it's for negative awareness, or else Jasmin wouldn't have been giving IV about this, as you'd have watched the latest video which was posted in Teni's AT, where she shared about spreading a social message through this show.

This show is about all the three leads and how Surrogacy changes their life. The story revolves around PaRi couple, and if people like SidMi chemistry as PaRi, there's nothing wrong in expecting uninterrupted romance from them. Surely you'd have been expecting the same if it was your favorite actress in Rashami's place. After all romance is considered to be an integral part of this show or any other television shows nowadays, Nataly! So what's wrong in it? And I'm repeating this once more, nobody here is saying that Teni should disappear after the child is born. What as a majority of people here are saying is, why can't she lead a happy life with a different man after this, Why should she be hitched with Parth an already married a man? Just to prove a point to the wanna be mothers that Surrogacy is wrong and the surrogate mothers can take your husbands in exchange of giving you a baby?. if they show it that way that's not gonna matter for most of us. Maybe we all will rant for a few days and then quit the show in peace.
Let's wait and see if the creatives are gonna take it that way. If they do, I'll be happy for you as your point would be proven right! Couple's won't choose Surrogacy at all. But what about single men like Kjo who chose this to get his own kids? Who still chose Surrogacy coz he's a gay. It just depends on the different people and cultures prevalent in various countries. India is still allowing it, don't know for how long!

Like I said before, we should end this right here. Coz there's no end to it!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Here Two views about surrogacy is going on which is right
But at the same time both are wrong too...
Where?
No,Not for me at all...
Your so kindful thinking simply does not match with present social system in India.
If it is then this surrogacy based serial never launched here to showcase the system.
For me Both woman & the Man is wrong here in the surrogacy matter.
I personally always prefer for adoption than surrogacy.
But for the frighten mentality couples,societies always go for the surrogacy option,they think that anything can happen only my parts will be intake in my next generation;That's it.
Hopeless Thinking🤢
Ok now back to here,
First i tell about Parth,
He simply can tell about all truth to the family and go away from there which is certainly not easy but by this his morality towards society can maintain but he think about his dignity towards his family,his wife and use his monetary power here,just only he is a sensitive person so he think about surrogate's charecter too.
If you look around into society now Parth is nowhere wrong cause all Men in society like him.(Lots of Surrogacy's Example is going on in Market;who are going to oppose it,Sadly NOONE)
Now it's Shorvori,
I don't get one thing about her because Makers didn't show her past in details.
The thing is she is once working woman and must carry liberal thinking so why she didn't think at once about the surrogate mother.
I believe she is so right at her thinking of bonding the family tightly but that doesn't mean she can think that her husband has money and also in market womb carrier is available so have it;(Yes it's not her in dialogues but certainly in her behaviour)she is one who not a single time oppose the surrogacy thinking rather she is one who think about it first being a sensitive woman which is unexpected.
For me she is perfect if she think about Divorce,i know this is simply cruelity but by this the incident will occurred that neither Parsh get divorced nor they go for the mean(for me at least)system.Matter is then turned that they will leave the Bhanushali Family for their narrow mentality.
Again the same thing is for Shorvori too just like Parth,she is not at all different from the other women(90% thinks same).
And Last for not the least Teni,the surrogate mother.
Teni can easily spend her life like before but she is simply greedy.So if she will face any emotional turbulence in future it will be completely her fault.
I have sympathy to those women who are bound to be surrogate for very poor monetary conditions.(I know lots of married poor women gives their womb for surrogacy for spending their family where neither they have work nor their husband is worthy but they have to maintain not only 2 lifes but also more;their children)& Teni is certainly not that so personally i can't support her though i know she will understand the emotional value which will be and should be one and only credit in her hand except money ofcouse(Somehow i feel she will not take a penny from ParSh in future for that emotional point).It will be better if she get valuable Education of life from this that all things don't evolved around money only but with money there are many things which do matter in a healthy life.
So,My POV is it's useless to give any views with respect to anybody's perspective;here all are wrong in their respective places.
Most of it the thinking is wrong.
Edited by adi_FMT_ct - 8 years ago

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