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Posted: 13 years ago
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Wats wrong wid jhanvi guys...i mean she s so dumb... the man did every worst thing possible to her.nd she is still like i ll do anythng for my hubbys happiness... she s ready to do d pooja jst to hav a boy cos her husband wishes dat. wat kind of mother is she? i dont knw abt others bt i dnt like jhanvi. she is a weak character... no offence to jhanvi fans. its jst my opinion...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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hey whats her fault ???...viraj is like Hero for her as he had projected himself helping her family...and most importantly she is in lov wid him and love is blind lol ...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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viraj is her hubby so like all eastern girl she will have to be with in every decision of her hubby...n she loves him so much cz she thinks that now viraj has changed..she is seeing changing in her hubby...so for the sake of viraj she can do anything...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Have u seen d promo? going to tantrik jst for a baby boy! thats ridiculous...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: shrutiud

Have u seen d promo? going to tantrik jst for a baby boy! thats ridiculous...

I agree on that riduculus point...but Jhanvi is doing every possible thing to make Viraj happy that is the only way she can save her marriage and she wants to save her marriage...most indian or women tries to save their marriage breaking marriages are not a trend in india..they try to work it out either by themselves or by intereference of olders.
Agree Jhanvi seems stupid, blind..but she is innocent..she blvs what is shown//projected to her. and for her hubby is everything...she found a slight ray of light when Viraj started changing his behaviour towards her just by hearing baby V's news...so she is hoping that everything will change ones the baby arrives..and she is patient enough to do so...and why not??? viraj is changing for his baby...his behviour infront of jhanvi is totally different these days...he is no more violent..he is no more pushy...
I would say just give some time...character will be developed after that only...as the story just started unfolding.😊
P.S. It's ok to dislike her character..becoz not all women are strong willed and stand for themselves..*not unless it's a survival problem*
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Krrish87_sweet

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I agree on that riduculus point...but Jhanvi is doing every possible thing to make Viraj happy that is the only way she can save her marriage and she wants to save her marriage...most indian or women tries to save their marriage breaking marriages are not a trend in india..they try to work it out either by themselves or by intereference of olders.
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Agree Jhanvi seems stupid, blind..but she is innocent..she blvs what is shown//projected to her. and for her hubby is everything...she found a slight ray of light when Viraj started changing his behaviour towards her just by hearing baby V's news...so she is hoping that everything will change ones the baby arrives..and she is patient enough to do so...and why not??? viraj is changing for his baby...his behviour infront of jhanvi is totally different these days...he is no more violent..he is no more pushy...
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I would say just give some time...character will be developed after that only...as the story just started unfolding.😊
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P.S. It's ok to dislike her character..becoz not all women are strong willed and stand for themselves..*not unless it's a survival problem*

Ya i agree... i like strong willed woman... who can stand for themselves... if a gal loves sum1 evn aftr he rapes her...for me dat gal lacks self respect... its jst my point of view so pls dnt bash me
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@shrutiud

There is one thing that we are missing - Viraj raped Jahnvi to punish her for no reason - Agreed - she should have protested and should not have fallen in love with him

BUT

the truth is in most marriages - women do get raped/forced to have sex by their husbands at one time or other. May be most husbands don't do that for punishing their wives, but for some other reason. But reality is - forced sex by husband don't make that man a criminal in wife's eyes...

in Jahnvi's case, she was already tortured in numerous ways and that was the saturation point of her tolerance but Gangadhar's case made her to keep her mouth shut ...with time as she saw that Viraj has become loving and is trying to change his ways, she forgive him and moved ahead.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: shrutiud

Ya i agree... i like strong willed woman... who can stand for themselves... if a gal loves sum1 evn aftr he rapes her...for me dat gal lacks self respect... its jst my point of view so pls dnt bash me

Nope not at all...i agree with ur views..and i don't bash anyone based on different opinions.😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: doyelpakhi

@shrutiud

There is one thing that we are missing - Viraj raped Jahnvi to punish her for no reason - Agreed - she should have protested and should not have fallen in love with him

BUT

the truth is in most marriages - women do get raped/forced to have sex by their husbands at one time or other. May be most husbands don't do that for punishing their wives, but for some other reason. But reality is - forced sex by husband don't make that man a criminal in wife's eyes...

in Jahnvi's case, she was already tortured in numerous ways and that was the saturation point of her tolerance but Gangadhar's case made her to keep her mouth shut ...with time as she saw that Viraj has become loving and is trying to change his ways, she forgive him and moved ahead.

There is a difference btwn lovng n livng... those wives who actually suffrd such things they dnt love thr hubbys. they jst live wid them fr d sake of society... name of d family etc. love m8 happen bt aftr a givn time cos i dnt think a woman cn forgive a rapist so soon. nd nw wid dat tantrik track i dnt knw i jst dnt like jhanvi anymre. indirectly she is supportng viraj nd agreeng wid him dat women r below men cos he wants a baby boy nd she s supportng him. i dnt think any educated women ll do that... again m tellng its jst my personal opinion. i like KB and srithi... no offence to anyone... sorry if anyone felt bad. m apologisng nw itself. i jst believe in "aaj ki naari"
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@shrutiud

first of all you don't have to apologize because you are just voicing your POV :D

It's true that Jahnvi's love was a bit too sudden - she forgave Viraj too easily and started trusting him.

Even my mom was saying exactly what you are saying - Jahnvi should have made a protest...if not anything else, she should have told everything to Dadi - if she felt that her family is indebted to Viraj for his help, even then she should have told Dadi everything - after all she was not going to Police or maligning Viraj in front of society

Also - I think Jahnvi should have pondered about the fact that Viraj is obsessed with male child -

Did she ever wonder what she will do or rather Viraj will do if a girl is born? She should have started talking to him - at least in polite and diplomatic manner to make him understand that whether it's boy or girl, he should remember that it's his own blood.
But instead she is also dancing in his tune that they will have a boy.

Most probably she is thinking that Viraj will eventually accept the baby girl because according to her Viraj has anger issues but he can't go to the extent of doing any harm to anyone.

I understand Jahnvi is too scared to oppose Viraj BUT when she is trusting that Viraj is changed/changing then she should at least start voicing her own reason/desire --- at least she should give a try. It will make her understand also that what Viraj can do for her or not.
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