Would you tell your parents?

That's a really really darn good question. And honestly, I have no idea. But what I would like to think I would do is yes, I would tell my parents even if I know they're going to be hurt or whatever, because my parents ultimately want what's best for me.

But, even though I do say that, to an extent, I definitely get why some people would choose not to tell their parents. In a weird way, it's like you're failing because your married life isn't going well, etc. And please don't get me wrong! I'm not saying it's Jahnvi's fault, but I feel like it's natural for someone to place the blame on themselves, at least partially, on their marriage not working, or their partner not being happy. And furthermore, the social stigma of being a divorced woman, someone whose marriage has broken up, would also be a contributing factor in influencing their decision to tell the parents.

Jahnvi's clearly not at fault, she's simply in the worst of possible situations, but I think that it would take a lot of guts to go to the parents and tell them.

I hope I made some sense.

Cheers!
Naina

Originally posted by: Naina2127

That's a really really darn good question. And honestly, I have no idea. But what I would like to think I would do is yes, I would tell my parents even if I know they're going to be hurt or whatever, because my parents ultimately want what's best for me.

But, even though I do say that, to an extent, I definitely get why some people would choose not to tell their parents. In a weird way, it's like you're failing because your married life isn't going well, etc. And please don't get me wrong! I'm not saying it's Jahnvi's fault, but I feel like it's natural for someone to place the blame on themselves, at least partially, on their marriage not working, or their partner not being happy. And furthermore, the social stigma of being a divorced woman, someone whose marriage has broken up, would also be a contributing factor in influencing their decision to tell the parents.

Jahnvi's clearly not at fault, she's simply in the worst of possible situations, but I think that it would take a lot of guts to go to the parents and tell them.

I hope I made some sense.

Cheers!
Naina

i think i would ve tell dem,...

Originally posted by: Naina2127

That's a really really darn good question. And honestly, I have no idea. But what I would like to think I would do is yes, I would tell my parents even if I know they're going to be hurt or whatever, because my parents ultimately want what's best for me.

But, even though I do say that, to an extent, I definitely get why some people would choose not to tell their parents. In a weird way, it's like you're failing because your married life isn't going well, etc. And please don't get me wrong! I'm not saying it's Jahnvi's fault, but I feel like it's natural for someone to place the blame on themselves, at least partially, on their marriage not working, or their partner not being happy. And furthermore, the social stigma of being a divorced woman, someone whose marriage has broken up, would also be a contributing factor in influencing their decision to tell the parents.

Jahnvi's clearly not at fault, she's simply in the worst of possible situations, but I think that it would take a lot of guts to go to the parents and tell them.

I hope I made some sense.

Cheers!
Naina

i would leave the guy immediately because I ve seen my mum go through this and she's still not happy.

well the main thing is not that will you tell your parents or not?the question should be that can you tell your parents or not because mostly circumstances are that you want to tell your parents but the problem is that you are unable to tell them and there could be many reasons for that because from outside everyone will say that yes we will tell our parents but from inside only that person who is suffering can explain why he can't.

In my opinion, I would not.

Originally posted by: INTOXIAHCATED

OFCOZ I WUD!!😊 LIFE ISPRECIOUS! nobody has d right 2 mess up wid my lyf...i hav a self dignity ..moreover v shud respect those ppl who TRULY deserve it!! ALWAYS STAND UP FOR UR RIGHTS!<div></div>

Def Agree! Yes we can try and understand Jaanvi's reasoning behind her decision to lie but regardless she's still being delusional

Don't be a martyr.. Don't sacrifice your mental and physical health.. I swear if I was jaanvi's place and the moment my husband laid a hand on me that marriage would be over that second

What worries me are the 2 people who said 'No' in the poll.. Under NO circumstances should you think it's ok to hide an abusive husband no matter what
1. He's hitting you now
2. Tom he'll abuse your children
3. Either you/child can be killed

Who knows what the limit is.. ALWAYS protect yourself.. There is no maybe to this question.. You tell someone immediately and get out as fast as you can