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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Patharsitara

I don't understand why omkara is getting blamed for wrong reason.
He can be blamed for using harsh language, anger, manhandling.
But why he should be blamed for marrying gauri . he faked marriage drama to save her life.
He can't be blamed for not accepting relationship which was for him does not exist.
Omkara was totally honest with gauri from the first moment that he dis not like her. He hate her.
He can be blamed for not seeing the truth. But he can't be blamed unnecessary for not accepting gauri.
Gauri know that om hate her. What he think about her. And he does not want to believe her. And chulbul drama has added more reason to his distrust.
About chulbul helping om and saving om, the reason that should make om to see her goodness. But not to forget that om saw Svetlana also helping in family security matter in past and she did drama to save tej life by getting in major accident.
Also ridhima , who supported om and showed care for him was more interested in om Oberoi tag. She was also too good to. Om and his family but at last she betrayed him.
Ishana who pretended to be good girl infront of om also created him.
So saying that om should trust gauri despite call lies gauri said though she had reasons but om can't be blame for distrust in her.

Om think him as Svetlana no 2.
Also he made deal with gauri not forced her to pretend as his wife. For him now deal is off . so gauri should leave.
About not telling all family members about his marriage truth , Om is always a private person. He disclose his emotions to only love one. And he already said shivay that he does not want to trouble him with his problem

And om does not have reason to hide his marriage. He does not marry gauri by force or having ulterior motive. It's not like he cheated her or promised her something.
He has not told his POV about gauri infront of family. And in his version of story gauri is gold digger. So I don't think he has any reason to be ashamed of something to not disclose truth in family. I think he want to keep whole deal plus truth as private matter.

Here I m not justifying his faults. But I m saying people should criticize him for right reason not for wrong .
His anger with gauri is understandable but repeatedly showing on gauri and his language is not good. The way he throw out gauri is not good.
And he did not thank her in Svetlana matter that is not good.
But he can't be blamed for situational marriage, distrust and not accepting the marriage.
Problem with show is that everything is shown from gauri POV. What is omkara POV, it's still mystery. Omkara is man and he can't be showed shedding tears for the betrayal he felt that does not make him moron if gauri shed tears everytime infront of him for his repeated harsh word.


m not blaming him... but the situations r as such that its he who ends up bringing gauri in his life again and again.. and yet he blames gauri for it.. some day his MU will clear for sure.. i dont mind that he doesnt accept the marriage now... some day he will learn to love and trust again... thats what this relationship is for...
so yeah chill 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Oooh, I Agree with this sooo muchooo...LOL
Well, I believe if you do something, something thats life changing or inconsequential...you have to be the one to take responsibility for your own actions...but Omie darling is in the Boat of denial, projecting all his anger and fear on Gauri and refusing to see the truth...That it was actually, his actions and his needs that brought them here.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dilbole_ShiOmRu

If we see carefully he might have lied in circumstances, making plans but he was always truthful in his relations. He never gave any false hope to anyone that he loves him. If he hate a person he tell on face and if he loves a person he tell on face. But with Gauri he himself is confused now as he had loved chulbul and hated Gauri so not able to understand what he feels so this also is adding up to his frustation. But still taking it out on Gauri is wrong but him marrying her is not wrong. Dont put in wrong light. Even after chulbul dhoka he didnt reveal that he was cheated by Gauri as chulbul just passed a comment that Gauri is chulbul so they all passed it in joking manner thinking he might have kept her as that due to svetlana chakkar.



Even I found it interesting that he said Gauri was ChulBul but never said that HE was not aware of it. So Ru was mocking him about it. He took it all in his stride but never betrayed Gauri in front of the family. Despite the "Deal" being off he never told anyone the actual truth. WHY this is, is something they are not showing coz as usual they are not showing the story from the Man's POV. Even though ironically this was a show about Omkara and Rudra who were existing characters in another show. So clearly the Pull factor were the guys. But again they choose to just show the woman and her plight as a means of getting TRP.

If the guy is shown as Zalima I guess TRP audience feel sympathy for the FL and her plight. Trust me I feel bad for Gauri too and sometimes I feel like Om should be Ek Jaap Me Diwar Pe Satjaybe!! LOL. But even I understand why he is behaving as he is. This is a Catch 22 situation for him. He himself doesn't know HOW to feels about Gauri, coz she is not just Gauri but ChulBul as well. He hates her and somewhere inside feels for her as well. But he doesn't know how to deal with his conflicting emotions.


No one, not even his brothers understand him in this. The reason being he is not telling them the actual story. Bua Ma and Jhanvi who KNOW the actual story, don't support him only Gauri. Imagine how it feels to be in his position he has no allies in his own house?? All this time getting rid of Svet was his goal, he put his life on hold for that. Now that she is gone it's like the dam that kept all his emotions in is broken, and he is totally out of control now.


Like Pathrasithara said we can blame him for his bad behaviour but we cant blame him for marrying Gauri or the fact that Gauri is still in his life. When she leaves something always brings her back. This time it was Shivaay. The truth is he doesn't want her to go! So the "Universe" always brings her back! LOL (Chanelling Tia Baby here).


Edited by MrDarcyfan - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Actually both are to be blamed.. Before telling to the family they should sort things btw them first. Om is not letting gauri speak and gauri is so much desparate to gt out of house on Om's insistence she should somehow talk and clear everything out before going away from om life
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Nice post. Omkara need time to understand gauri, I want they to go some other place for starting their love story.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I completely agree with you.
Gouri feels for Omkara because he was the saviour of her life. But she never try to stay his house permanently. I think Omkaara expects a plea from Gouri to accept her as his wife. But Gouri never requested the same and she is always ready to leave from his life .May be it hurts his male ego. So he always blames Gouri even the silly things. .
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Posted: 8 years ago
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So true!! He keeps blaming her but he is no better. He always says that he hates liers but what is he doing?? He is lying to his family about his relationship with Gauri. He keeps blaming her that she doesn't want to leave but she tried and got caught. She also pretended to faint so that she doesn't write her name in the family book, but yet again he didn't have the guts to tell his family the truth and instead wrote her name. He is totally to blame and is a hypocrite as he is quick to blame Gauri but what is he doing himself? Also, he used her to kick Svetlana by pretending to be a loving husband and now he is treating her like dirt.
I wish Gauri would stand up for herself rather that cry all the time and portray the victim. She should give him the ultimatum that if he wants her out of his life then he needs o tell his family the truth!!

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