Originally posted by: Patharsitara
I don't understand why omkara is getting blamed for wrong reason.He can be blamed for using harsh language, anger, manhandling.But why he should be blamed for marrying gauri . he faked marriage drama to save her life.He can't be blamed for not accepting relationship which was for him does not exist.Omkara was totally honest with gauri from the first moment that he dis not like her. He hate her.He can be blamed for not seeing the truth. But he can't be blamed unnecessary for not accepting gauri.Gauri know that om hate her. What he think about her. And he does not want to believe her. And chulbul drama has added more reason to his distrust.About chulbul helping om and saving om, the reason that should make om to see her goodness. But not to forget that om saw Svetlana also helping in family security matter in past and she did drama to save tej life by getting in major accident.Also ridhima , who supported om and showed care for him was more interested in om Oberoi tag. She was also too good to. Om and his family but at last she betrayed him.Ishana who pretended to be good girl infront of om also created him.So saying that om should trust gauri despite call lies gauri said though she had reasons but om can't be blame for distrust in her.Om think him as Svetlana no 2.Also he made deal with gauri not forced her to pretend as his wife. For him now deal is off . so gauri should leave.About not telling all family members about his marriage truth , Om is always a private person. He disclose his emotions to only love one. And he already said shivay that he does not want to trouble him with his problemAnd om does not have reason to hide his marriage. He does not marry gauri by force or having ulterior motive. It's not like he cheated her or promised her something.He has not told his POV about gauri infront of family. And in his version of story gauri is gold digger. So I don't think he has any reason to be ashamed of something to not disclose truth in family. I think he want to keep whole deal plus truth as private matter.Here I m not justifying his faults. But I m saying people should criticize him for right reason not for wrong .His anger with gauri is understandable but repeatedly showing on gauri and his language is not good. The way he throw out gauri is not good.And he did not thank her in Svetlana matter that is not good.But he can't be blamed for situational marriage, distrust and not accepting the marriage.Problem with show is that everything is shown from gauri POV. What is omkara POV, it's still mystery. Omkara is man and he can't be showed shedding tears for the betrayal he felt that does not make him moron if gauri shed tears everytime infront of him for his repeated harsh word.