Why isn't Jhanvi divorcing Tej?

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Vanita

@Rightful_Life

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

I feel Jhanvi is more responsible for all the problems in the home than Taj.

I agree with whatever Tej said today.When he has no place for her in his life,why isn't Jhanvi leaving him?And why are their kids want Tej to love and respect Jhanvi?Only because she wants it?

Coming to Jhanvi,does she still loves Tej?I don't think so.How can she love a man who doesn't love or respect her,who insults her everyday and wants her to get out of his life?

Is it for the sake of her children?But her children are grownup and matured adults.If she decides to leave him,they will fully support her just as they are supporting her now.In fact,her kids lives have affected mostly because of her decision to live with Tej.They have started hating their own father only because they can't see their mother unhappy.

I feel Jhanvi is not leaving Tej because of her own ego.Her ego will be hurt if Tej leaves her for a younger woman.She's more worried about her social status and that's why she's continuing with this 'marriage'.I think this is the reason why we see more and more rich women still living with their philandering husbands nowadays.They don't care about their husbands money(which they will get as alimony).They are more worried about their ego and their social status.

The writers are giving this excuse that Tej's girlfriend,Swetlana is an evil woman and wants to marry him for his money or revenge or whatever.But still that's not a valid reason for Jhanvi to stay with Tej as his wife.

Even if Om makes Swetlana leave Tej forever but still what's the guarantee Tej will accept Jhanvi as his wife again?

I feel instead of Om fighting and humiliating his father everyday,he should convince his mother to leave him.

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LTLFan

@LTLFan

Trailblazer

Posted: 8 years ago

Aaj kya huva tej ko? Kuch samajh me naaya. Is svet doing any jaadu tona on him?😕 Aaj kuch zyaada tha.

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NamuVyas

@NamuVyas

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 8 years ago

because show makers have only one set.. they cant afford one more for jhanvi 😆...

no seriously... i feel she has nowhere to go... anyways she just wants to quietly live in that house and room and spend rest of her life.. she isnt asking tej anything from d relationship anyways.. and they have gone old also.. so why doesnt tej relax and shift to one more room and live his life...

tej issue is with omkara marrying swetlana actually ...

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ravenheart

@ravenheart

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

Bcoz if she does then there will be no story. Tej will stay with his mistress, Om/Rudy may decide to be with their mom and life will go on.

This drama will continue until the writers come up with a better track.😃

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Asandhimitra

@LadyMacbeth

Achiever

+ 5

Posted: 8 years ago

Because Jhanvi is a freaking doormat , it's a disease of being a bahu of Oberoi khandan actually . Frankly I blame her much more than Tej for the mess that has been created in their children's life . Every person has ABSOLUTE right to end his/her marriage at any phase of life .

OmRu has lost basic sense as they've leaved too long in a dysfunctional family . They should just council their mother to sign the divorce papers . Instead Om is doing all he can to force Tej to share not only a dead relationship , but a room & even the same bed !!!! Oh My Mata !!! 🤢

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SStephy

@SStephy

Dazzler

+ 3

Posted: 8 years ago

There was an epi in IB long back where it was mentioned that Jhanvi gave up her career, her identity, etc after marriage and she was shown to be upset about it. I guess by giving up all that, she ended up making this marriage as the sole basis of her identity. And now she is not able to give up the marriage.

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Wanderlust

@titli_314

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

I will be honest with you.. what i personally feel is that any person can fall in love more than once.. its a different thing that Tej is actually not in love with Svetlana.he is just attracted to her revealing clothes and her young attractive looks but he has been saying it since day 1 that he wants to be with Svet.. people in the Oberoi family, by now, must have assumed him to be in love with Svet.. so why is Jhanvi not leaving him despite the regular harsh words, taunts and emotional tortures that Tej has been throwing at her face.. ??

Was it just because she too feels like Pinki that since no one till date ever got divorced in the O Family so being the sushil bahu of the family, Jhanvi too must keep up their honour and pride and prevent Tej from breaking the records of never having a divorce in the so called upper high class family??

I understand how badly Jhanvi still cares for her husband and craves for his attention and love.. Buts its enough man!! She is an educated sensible woman.. She can very well have a separate identity of her own and live by herself, for herself..

and what will happen if she gets divorced haan??

Om and Rudra will never think twice before supporting their mother and settling down with her wherever she wants to be.. The whole Oberoi family will infact agree to kick away Tej and keep Jhanvi with them.. When everyone in the Family is in support if her then whats the logic behind making a mockery of your honour and respect??

Jhanvi is a very matured and sensible and a sweet and caring lady.. But her marriage related stuffs really makes me wonder, why do girls and women these days are getting educated and learning to be independent?? only to live in hell with an unfaithful husband,??

Heights of stupid thoughts Jhanvi is bearing.. Its time she too signs on the divorce papers and moves away from her shit husband

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FlauntPesimism

@FlauntPessimism

Viewbie

+ 10

Posted: 8 years ago

Because she is a doormat and her mother in law has embedded into her mind that Oberoi family has no divorce

Otherwise no woman with even an iota of self respect would share the bed with a man who has given her the divorce papers

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Wanderlust

@titli_314

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: S.Stephy
There was an epi in IB long back where it was mentioned that Jhanvi gave up her career, her identity, etc after marriage and she was shown to be upset about it. I guess by giving up all that, she ended up making this marriage as the sole basis of her identity. And now she is not able to give up the marriage.

yaa I understand.. actually women are too emotional when it comes to giving respect to their marriages and loving their husbands.. Jhanvi is one of them who thinks that its impossible for her to hate the man and go away leaving him with who she had two children and has been living together for so many years..

from some of the previous IB episodes its seems like once Tej and Jhanvi were seriously too much in love with each other..

Tej too ,even today, did not forget many small happy moments spent with Jhanvi during the days when they were together.. we got a glimpse of the caring husband in Tej in the initial episodes of IB

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Wanderlust

@titli_314

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: VasusenaRadheya
Because Jhanvi is a freaking doormat , it's a disease of being a bahu of Oberoi khandan actually . Frankly I blame her much more than Tej for the mess that has been created in their children's life . Every person has ABSOLUTE right to end his/her marriage at any phase of life .
OmRu has lost basic sense as they've leaved too long in a dysfunctional family . They should just council their mother to sign the divorce papers . Instead Om is doing all he can to force Tej to share not only a dead relationship , but a room & even the same bed !!!! Oh My Mata !!! 🤢

O My maata!!😆 Seriously OmRu is becoming more and more chaant with each passing day regarding their Parents' marriage issues..

They are literally forcing them to be together.. yaa I know every child wants to see their parents together living like a happy family but what OmRu is doing is just too silly🤪

Om should stop his regular repetitive acts of breaking things in his room and gritting teeth at his dad and Rudy should just stop giving those immature confused looks ..

Both of them have grown up enough and now they should lend their supporting hands to their mother, assuring her to be in her support always so that she can, without any guilt or tension or any second thought, sign the divorce papers and throw it at the face of her giant unfaithful husband..

Tej actually does not deserve a loyal wife life her

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