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Posted: 8 years ago
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The woman needs a spine.. I dnt know why is SP obsessed with abla naaris.. This is getting too irritating. She must slap Tej and leave the house along with her sons and daughter..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: AngelicTomboy

The woman needs a spine.. I dnt know why is SP obsessed with abla naaris.. This is getting too irritating. She must slap Tej and leave the house along with her sons and daughter..


Why shall she leave the house? The house is as much of the wife as of the husband

She should simply say to Tej that this is her house n she wouldn't leave but she is not interested in Tej
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: VasusenaRadheya

Because Jhanvi is a freaking doormat , it's a disease of being a bahu of Oberoi khandan actually . Frankly I blame her much more than Tej for the mess that has been created in their children's life . Every person has ABSOLUTE right to end his/her marriage at any phase of life .

OmRu has lost basic sense as they've leaved too long in a dysfunctional family . They should just council their mother to sign the divorce papers . Instead Om is doing all he can to force Tej to share not only a dead relationship , but a room & even the same bed !!!! Oh My Mata !!! 🤢


Completely agree with you.

I too am not a fan of what Om is trying to do. Though he means well, he isn't just doing the right thing. In situations like the one TejVi find themselves in if one/ or both the partners strongly feel that there is no future for their relationship; any external pressure to reconcile them would only be counter productive . And this is exactly happening with Tej.

But the problem here is that the boys cannot look at this issue dispassionately. For them, their mother is the wronged party, the weaker one who has to be protected. And probably Om has also been living with the guilt that he wasn't' able to intervene decisively and effectively in the past in order to bring an end to the Tej-Swetlana relationship. He is trying to make up for all the lost time.

Tej is blinded by hatred, rage and a hurt ego . Its time for Jhanvi to step in , see the damage this is causing the children and act . Its HER battle , one she has to fight and not leave it to her children.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: FlauntPessimism


Why shall she leave the house? The house is as much of the wife as of the husband

She should simply say to Tej that this is her house n she wouldn't leave but she is not interested in Tej

Or maybe just slap and say that its her house too. And where is Dadi when we need her ? The woman seems to disappear when we need her
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: AngelicTomboy

Or maybe just slap and say that its her house too. And where is Dadi when we need her ? The woman seems to disappear when we need her


Deepu, the woman hasn't done anything all these years while Tej was strutting around with Swetlana bringing her to even Oberoi family functions. Do you think she will wake up now? Her views are also a part of the problem , so she is the last one who can bring in a satisfactory solution.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Jhanvi has silently seen Tej having EMA wid svetlana so it seems she really doesnt care abt him luving her..It luks like dat she is more connected wid d family n doesnt want to leave dem
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Because Jhanvi is Oberoi family's bahu and Oberoi bahus are godess of sacrifices or shall I say Doormats!
And there is a rule in OM:
U have to sacrify ur self respect in order to be with ur husband.
And u can not leave him even if he doesn't want u in his life and treats u like shit!
Because Oberoi family me kabhi divorce nahi hota!
My foot!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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she has gone crazy, I dnt know why she is being so shameless especially when Om is marrying someone he hates and she hates.it seems her staying with Tej is more important than Om. I hope after sweaty is exposed that she leaves Tej. it would be nice if a young hot dude falls for her.she is very beautiful
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shanak_Fan

I feel Jhanvi is more responsible for all the problems in the home than Taj.

I agree with whatever Tej said today.When he has no place for her in his life,why isn't Jhanvi leaving him?And why are their kids want Tej to love and respect Jhanvi?Only because she wants it?

Coming to Jhanvi,does she still loves Tej?I don't think so.How can she love a man who doesn't love or respect her,who insults her everyday and wants her to get out of his life?

Is it for the sake of her children?But her children are grownup and matured adults.If she decides to leave him,they will fully support her just as they are supporting her now.In fact,her kids lives have affected mostly because of her decision to live with Tej.They have started hating their own father only because they can't see their mother unhappy.

I feel Jhanvi is not leaving Tej because of her own ego.Her ego will be hurt if Tej leaves her for a younger woman.She's more worried about her social status and that's why she's continuing with this 'marriage'.I think this is the reason why we see more and more rich women still living with their philandering husbands nowadays.They don't care about their husbands money(which they will get as alimony).They are more worried about their ego and their social status.

The writers are giving this excuse that Tej's girlfriend,Swetlana is an evil woman and wants to marry him for his money or revenge or whatever.But still that's not a valid reason for Jhanvi to stay with Tej as his wife.

Even if Om makes Swetlana leave Tej forever but still what's the guarantee Tej will accept Jhanvi as his wife again?

I feel instead of Om fighting and humiliating his father everyday,he should convince his mother to leave him.



Jhanvi is my least fav character from the IB-DBO universe 😆 I know most people here would dislike my comment as they like Jhanvi, but this is a free forum so am expressing my opinion 😳

Holding onto a marriage which is non-existent for decades is meaningless...If Jhanvi had an iota of self-respect and an ounce of genuine love for her children, she would have left OM long back.😊

I feel either Jhanvi is the biggest loser in the world or has some ulterior motive in destroying the Oberois, and I really hope it is the latter...😳

Grey/black Jhanvi is so much better than this parasite/bechari Jhanvi...
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Posted: 8 years ago
#30
We've all being wondering that as rational viewers.
Too bad they dont see it the same way. They love imposing values and faith on us as the guise for orthodoxy.

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