mohan's insensitivity - Page 7

Oh the discussion has turned so much more interesting 😆 People are so lost in analyzing my Mohan that they are forgetting how they are bashing him wholeheartedly 🤣 Want to really reply to some of the "anti-Mohan" posts here but atm dont have time will come to them later .. Its good its making our Forum more active 😃 I just wish if we could keep having healthy arguements without too much of bashing you know 😆

Likarsh being selfish is no way closer to immaturity 😆 being selfish is actually trying to be over-mature 😕 Yea Mohan is immature but not selfish for me no matter what way anyone justifies him to be one! You know what today no arranged marriage is an IDEAL arranged marriage ... Really I mean it 😆 Nothing happens ideally in this moderm world so is the case with arranged marriages 🤣 Jokes apart but not every arranged marriage is based on the equal and opposite approach and effort ... And I've seen at times its the wife taking more approach whereas the husband is more like confused on how to 😆 Ofcourse thats not the case with Mohan am just saying it in general ... But the arranged marriage Mohan is talking about is still very much an arranged marriage only ... It was arranged by their families and both are yet to fall in love with each other post their marriage ...
What I mean to say is you can not let it pass forever but thats how arranged marriages are - then it doesnt consider the fact that are both equally participating in trying to build the aspect of love or not ... I'm not saying its wrong on Kastur's behalf to expect Mohan to take initiative or atleast care to build that love and trust ... But its neither wrong on Mohan's side (again am saying I know its not right either) to expect this arranged marriage to keep going on this way as long as it can ... because he himself has no expectations or desires from this marriage ... And here its not just a simple arranged marriage .. Its more of compromisive arranged marriage ... where the aspect of wanting to fall in love has never touched Mohan yet

Oh Mohan isnt so clever like you 😆 I dont think he came back late just because he felt he was free of his responsibility ... I hope so ...because thats not how Mohan is ...atleast not for me
Yup it is 101% unfair to Kastur am not denying it anywhere in the entire Forum ... Its really sad how she has to suffer without any of her fault - except one that she has been assuming all throughout that he loves her - something which he has never really told her ...

😍i care for u...but i'm not in love with u😍

I cannot believe this.

Its not merely an arranged marriage it a "compromisive" arranged marriage ... from mohan's side atleast ... Yea here he is being immature in thinking from just his pov but its just how he is ... And you know its always been hard for me to believe how has Kastur been in love with Mohan since 4 years when they have hardly known each other for love wale feelings to come up ... Had I been in Mohan's place I would have possibly thought Kastur maybe likes me and is fine marrying me but she no way loves me yet ... because to love someone their chhavi is really not enough ... That way its an arranged marriage from Kastur's side too because she loves champu Mohan not the inner and outer real Mohan Gala ... I knowits kinda off-topic; just thought of putting it in since it struck me 😆

I agree the difference is that Kastur is trying her best where as Mohan isnt even putting any efforts at all ... Again I've said earlier its because its a mere compromise for him even now ... Ok now I finally got to rewatch it and I did to find out where am I being wrong lest it start being termed as "defending" 😆 I dunno why but I found the real excuse he is giving is he doesnt know what love is and he doesnt understand it ... They had an arranged marriage is a part of the excuse ... I may be wrong ... but somehow I felt because he doesnt (and doesnt want to atm) understand or know love he isnt putting an effort into it as you pointed out ... Yes I know its not right ... But the way Mohan as a char is, and the way his thought process is running right now, its not wrong being in his place ... I still maintain that 😊

Ok enough we still have the rest of the week to go through 😆

We have to see the effect aftermath on MohUr and what is next on Saroj agenda which I hope is nothing. I hope is what Nads said happens, this might will Saroj to back off since her ladla Mohan doesn't love Kastur

Originally posted by: -vandy-

😍i care for u...but i'm not in love with u😍

OMG he actually said that? 😲 but this can't beat i love you but i am not in love with you 😍🤣

Manasi, again I've never said that it doesn't make sense through his character.

Originally posted by: likarsh

Manasi, again I've never said that it doesn't make sense through his character.

I just wanted to point out that the easy arranged marriage excuse isn't true. From his viewpoint, yes. But not in reality.

In reality too not all people marry due to love and for some it takes a long time to fall in love or do the ding dong ... it happens its not unreal 😆 but that does not take away from the fact Mohan ganda bacha hey 😍

Originally posted by: Soaps1

In reality too not all people marry due to love and for some it takes a long time to fall in love or do the ding dong ... it happens its not unreal 😆 but that does not take away from the fact Mohan ganda bacha hey 😍

Its a fact yaar most arranged marriages happen with no love ...there is nothing extra ordinary about it honestly, only thing is in mohan's case there is more to it than just this but like i said technically he is not wrong